What does Manhattan divorce attorney James Sexton mean when he advises clients to "Make the holes you dig shallow?" What does he mean when he says, "You can be right, or you can be happy?" And why does he tell people, "If I were designing an infidelity-generating machine, it would be Facebook?" Episode 94 of The Communication Guys podcast is "A Divorce Lawyer's Guide to Staying Together," the second- of a fascinating two-part interview with bestselling author James Sexton about his new book, "If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late."