A Fine Time for Healing

Living with an emotionally absent partner can be overwhelming. Constantly combating outright hostility or overcoming subtle distance can leave you with the sense that the give-and-take in your relationship has disappeared. But, with the right tools, even the most broken relationship can be reinvigorated.

Through her new book, If We're Together, Why Do I Feel So Alone: How to Build Intimacy with and Emotionally Unavailable Partner, today's special guest, Harvard University clinical psychologist Dr. Holly Parker, rescues readers from the desperate, hopeless feelings that have come to define their relationship and their lives. Offering numerous relatable and compassionate stories, as well as a practical and systematic program based on neuroscientific studies on how our brains are affected by physical contact, trauma, verbal expressiveness, non-verbal cues, etc., this guide provides readers with the tools to confront the crucial issues undermining their ailing and emotionally-starved relationships.

Dr. Parker will be discussing:

How to identify unavailable personality types, such as the Critic, the Sponge, the Iceberg, the Emotional Silencer, and the Defender.How to eliminate habits that trigger self-sabotaging behavior.How to set realistic goals for relationships

Whether at the controls of a F16 jet fighter--or now at the controls of a sophisticated jet airliner, Rico Racosky knows that every flight choice he makes is based on one of two choices. He may make multiple split-second decisions as he evaluates the instruments in front of him that show the aircraft's immediate performance of speed, altitude, and navigation, yet each choice he makes ultimately comes down to a "yes" or "no" input decision based on just two choices. From Rico's point of view, all of life is choice and happens at the speed of choice--a perspective he recently shared at Harvard University as a "choice expert" thought leader guest speaker to Harvard Business School's Entrepreneurship Clubs.

Choice is the heart of his unique and vital new book, Just 2 Choices...It Is Your Life, which is the forefront of what promises to be a global movement, the "Choice Revolution™." The book uses a simple, step-by-step system of thought that shows people how to instantly transform their daily, ordinary choices into those powerful extra-ordinary choices that create an extraordinary life! Just 2 Choices un-complicates and demystifies "choice" and shines the bright light of crystal clear thinking to illuminate a path to success for the reader.

To learn more about Rico Racosky and his book, please visit www.just2choices.com

Honored guest, Laura Lee, popular professional and "radio-medium" is back on the show by popular demand. The topic that will be discussed on today's show is "School of Life." Laura will be taking your calls and giving free readings. Please call 424-220-1801 to speak live  with Laura.

Laura Lee has the incredible gift of being able to access the link between the physical and spiritual worlds. She can see, feel, hear, and know what the other side needs to communicate with the living.

Laura Lee, popular, loved and enjoyed by many listeners every time she comes on the show, has partnered with Randi Fine, the host of A Fine Time For Healing, to be a monthly guest.

Save the date and call in early for a chance to speak to Laura.

In light of the recent election, our country has become entirely polarized. Whether in the political arena, a business environment, or within one's church or circle of friends or family, the need for kindness has never been greater. If we are to heal this divide in our nation, and in our homes and communities, the need for kindness is essential. Bestselling author Jill Lublin's newest book could not be timelier!  

The Profit Of Kindness: How to Influence Others, Establish Trust, and Build Lasting Business Relationships makes the case that acting out of kindness is not just an act of goodness, but it pays dividends on the bottomline. As anger and demand has become the order of the day, this powerful reflection reminds us that Kindness is a Currency that actually fuels success.   When kindness becomes the primary goal in one's life, business, community, or family, everything changes -- how we look at life, what we get from it, and how others act towards us and relate to us. We have the power to transform our lives, our businesses, and our community. What is desperately needed at this time is a global "Attitudinal Adjustment" in which we, as individuals, business owners, and leaders, commit to implementing kindness strategies into our lives, businesses, and everyday affairs in order to facilitate a return to societal balance -- as well as to increase our individual success.

Today's special guest, Jill Lublin is an international speaker on the topics of Success through Kindness, Radical Influence, Publicity, Networking, and Referrals. Her 3 national bestsellers include: Get Noticed...Get Referrals (McGraw Hill); and the co-authored books, Guerrilla Publicity and Networking Magic.

Get ready to be inspired and entertained. Today's special guest, Dr. Kathy Gruver, delivers life-changing information in a fun and down-to-earth manner. She is an award-winning author, health practitioner, PhD, hip-hop dancer and trapeze artist. She is the host of the new national TV series, The Alternative Medicine Cabinet. But, her natural health career started, unknowingly, at the young age of 6 when she would massage her dad's neck on long car trips. Years later watching him care for her dying mother sparked even more interest in alternative medicine, life options and helping others heal.

With a background in theatre and bad fast food, Dr. Gruver overcame her addiction to caffeine, artificial sweetener and meals that were eaten in the car. Now, decades after her mother died of cancer and 15 years since her last drink of soda, Kathy, with her 'Go for it' attitude, makes it a point to help others navigate the sometimes-confusing world of nutrition, stress reduction, natural health and mind/body medicine.

Dr. Gruver has earned her PhD in Natural Health. She has studied mind-body medicine at the famed Benson-Henry Institute for Mind-Body Medicine at Harvard Medical School and is a natural health practitioner with over two decades of experience. She has penned countless articles, contributed as an expert to dozens more, appears regularly as an expert on radio and TV and has written five books. She has lectured around the world for everyone from nurses in the Middle East to 911 dispatchers in New Orleans, corporations around the US and teachers in her own backyard. She just completed work on a project for the military to create and institute a stress reduction program.

To learn more about Dr. Kathy Gruver, please visit http://www.thealternativemedicinecabinet.com/

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues. 

The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE! The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801. This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous.

 All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me.

Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

The funny thing is that today's special guest, Sarah Elliston, never realized she was "a difficult person," someone who harangued people until she got her way, threw snip fits and temper tantrums, talked over her bosses and pointed out what she thought were their misconceptions. In her family, where she felt bullied, the only way she knew how to get someone's attention and approval was to voice her opinion-and loudly! Without standing her ground, how could she do what she thought was best for herself and everyone else around her? She wasn't intentionally mean-spirited. She was just trying to do what she thought was RIGHT!   

Until a kind, but firm, boss woke her up! With great compassion, and strength, her boss pointed out that that her actions had consequences. That in being "difficult," she was not only disrupting the office camaraderie and production, but impeding her own professional advancement.  

That's the beginning of Sarah's transformation-when she started on the journey to leave behind the difficult person, and become the woman who teaches others how to deal with difficult people. Sarah "Sam" Elliston is now bringing forth her vital manual on how to awaken the challenging personality, and change both the relationship and the environment with her new book Lessons from a Difficult Person - How to Deal With People Like Us. Elliston lays out a proven script for peacefully transforming the difficult person's behavior and the environment-or inviting that person to move on. She gives you the tools for a successful change conversation with a difficult person.

Today, Elliston is a highly successful workshop leader and trainer, who offers wisdom learned the hard way-and through rigorous study and certification in many areas of professional training that aid her in her work.

Today's special guest Kent Heckenlively, the father of a child stricken with autism after being vaccinated who remains unable to speak, and author of the book Inoculated: How Science Lost Its Soul in Autism is no stranger to controversy.

College biology professor, scientist and autism-activist with an autistic son, Heckenlively traces how the red flags arising in the true results should have spurred international concern, and considerably more vital science to spotlight what was really happening. Instead, the government administrators, so deeply committed to the idea that vaccines are the only path to keeping the world's people saved from harm--and Big Pharma--went into overdrive to bury the information and stem any further research. Heckenlively, furthermore, shows how bad science only compounded the problem, reinforcing the government's position that no connection existed. His premise is that the scientists who should have been following the facts to the truth, instead lost their way because of the fear of rocking the boat and opening the Pandora's box that vaccine-triggered autism would unleash.

Kent Heckenlively reviewed some of the most damaging government documents with deep emotion as he realized that had the information been made public in 2000 when the initial indicators were surfacing, he and his wife could have made informed choices that could have saved his children from their struggles.

Whether you already believe there was a government cover-up, that vaccines can be harmful to children-or you haven't made up your mind, Kent says that you owe yourself a listen to the true facts.

http://www.inoculated.org

Honored guest, Laura Lee, popular professional and "radio-medium" is back on the show by popular demand. The topic that will be discussed on today's show is "School of Life." Laura will be taking your calls and giving free readings. Please call 424-220-1801 to speak live  with Laura.

Laura Lee has the incredible gift of being able to access the link between the physical and spiritual worlds. She can see, feel, hear, and know what the other side needs to communicate with the living.

Laura Lee, popular, loved and enjoyed by many listeners every time she comes on the show, has partnered with Randi Fine, the host of A Fine Time For Healing, to be a monthly guest.

Save the date and call in early for a chance to speak to Laura.

For more information about Laura Lee, please visit her website http://www.MediumLauraLee.com

The image of anger as a beast is a familiar one. We have all experienced the transformation that can occur when the beast awakens; the momentary sense of power, the confidence that what we are doing is correct, and the overwhelming drive to triumph over whoever or whatever is opposing us. 

Regrettably, we have also experienced the aftermath of the beast gone wild; words and choices that we regret, damaged relationships, and a desire to erase what we have done.  Some people respond to the havoc by locking the beast deep within themselves where it never again see the light of day. Unfortunately, the price they pay of powerlessness can be just as great as the damage done by their uncontrolled anger. Others go through a constant cycle of anger and regret. 

Today's special guest, Reneau Peurifoy, is here to talk about his book, Anger: Taming the Beast. It is a book for everyone struggling with anger. By following the lives of four people, each of whom is struggling with the beast in different ways, it show you how to tame anger and make it your ally instead of your enemy.  

After more than two decades as a therapist and teacher, Reneau Peurifoy has become a master at reducing complex ideas into simple, easy-to-understand terms and applying them to daily life. He holds a Masters's in counseling and is a minister. Peurifoy is the author of several books. 

To learn more about Reneau Peurifoy and his books, please visit http://www.rpeurifoy.com