A Fine Time for Healing

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues.

The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE!

The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801.

This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous.

All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

Those who have experienced narcissistic abuse know how difficult it can be to communicate with them. Every narcissistic abuse survivor asks the same questions: Why are they so defensive? How do we deal with them? Will they ever change?

Today's special guest, Darlene Lancer is here to answer those questions and talk about her newest book, Dealing with a Narcissist: 8 Steps to Improve Self-Esteem and Set Boundaries in Difficult Relationships. Darlene is also the author of several other books including Codependency for Dummies and the new book Freedom from Guilt and Blame: Finding Self-Forgiveness.

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. Over the course of 25 years, she has helped men and women recover from trauma, achieve greater self-esteem and autonomy, and find their paths personally and professionally. This is Darlene's third guest appearance on A Fine Time for Healing. 

To learn more about Darlene Lancer please visit her website http://www.whatiscodependency.com/

Contact Darlene at [email protected]

Guilt can be an unrelenting source of pain, keeping us stuck in the past and preventing us from being present and loving ourselves and others. Guilt may simmer in our unconscious, or we may condemn ourselves–not once, but over and over. Either way, toxic guilt is insidious and destructive and can sabotage our goals and relationships. It lowers our self-esteem and makes us easy targets for blame and manipulation. Unresolved guilt can cause anger and resentment, not only at ourselves, but also toward others. 

Today's special guest, Darlene Lancer is author of several books including Codependency for Dummies and the new book Freedom from Guilt and Blame: Finding Self-Forgiveness, a step-by-step workbook for healing guilt and finding self-forgiveness and self-compassion.

Freedom from Guilt and Blame is designed to free you from guilt’s grip. It will help you sort out healthy from toxic guilt and distinguish it from other emotions, such as shame and regret. You're guided to review and assess your values, motives, responsibilities, actions, and beliefs, and understand the negative impact of perfectionism and codependency.

Darlene Lancer, JD, MFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and relationship and codependency expert. Over the course of 30 years, she has helped men and women recover from trauma, achieve greater self-esteem and autonomy, and find their paths personally and professionally.

This is Darlene's third guest appearance on A Fine Time for Healing.

To learn more about Darlene Lancer please visit her website  http://www.whatiscodependency.com/

Contact Darlene by email: [email protected]

Honored guest, Laura Lee, popular professional and "radio-medium" is back on the show by popular demand. She will be taking your calls and giving free readings. Please call 424-220-1801 to speak live  with Laura.

Laura Lee has the incredible gift of being able to access the link between the physical and spiritual worlds. She can see, feel, hear, and know what the other side needs to communicate with the living.

Laura Lee, popular, loved and enjoyed by many listeners every time she comes on the show, has partnered with Randi Fine, the host of A Fine Time For Healing, to be a monthly guest.

Save the date and call in early for a chance to speak to Laura.

For more information about Laura Lee, please visit her website http://www.MediumLauraLee.com

Today's special  guest, Pat Gesualdo, is the pioneer of the groundbreaking techniques of Drum Therapy and for his celebrated non-profit organization DAD (Drums and Disabilities).  Drum Therapy and the Program help the special-needs population with cognitive development and cognitive restructuring by replacing negative thoughts with positive thoughts. 

The negativity that surrounds the special-needs child can be overwhelming. Most of these children are told they are stupid, dumb, or lazy by their parents, teachers, and/or friends. This can occur on a daily basis.  Many special-needs children, especially those from the inner city, have no support system at all. This creates a huge problem for them and for society as a whole. Negative thoughts become a major cause of low self-esteem, which then turns into negative behavior. 

Pat is here today to explain more about how Drum Therapy helps children to develop and keep a positive outlook, and tell us about the many ways Drum Therapy is used to help children all over the world.

Pat Gesualdo is also an award-winning drummer, author ofThe Art Of Drum Therapy, and clinician who has performed and recorded for various Columbia, Warner Brothers, Atlantic, RCA, and Paramount Pictures artists and special projects. He was nominated to Who’s Who In America and was an associate voting member for the Grammy Awards.

To learn more about Pat Gesualdo and the D.A.D. program, please go to http://www.dadprogram.org

Enjoying life is about liking the way you live it - loving, honoring and respecting yourself - living according to your core values - pursuing relationships that feel right to you - living up to and according to your expectations, not someone else's - loving what you do for a living. 

My special guest today, John McGrail, Ph.D., author of the book The Synthesis Effect says, "Life is not supposed to be painful - life is supposed to be fun. We are all equally deserving of a peaceful, loving, joyful existence, It should be a pleasure to get out of bed in the morning, to look forward to what the day has in store, and then go about living it with enthusiasm and happiness Will it be perfect? Of course not, but it can and should be mostly wonderful."

Dr. John McGrail, the creator of the McGrail Method of Quantum Synthesis is a renowned hypnotherapist, self-improvement expert, spiritual teacher and popular radio and television guest.His unique therapeutic and teaching approach has been used with thousands of clients and students from all walks of life.

This is Dr. McGrail's third guest appearance on A Fine Time for Healing. He always inspires us!! Listen to his May 9, 2015 show

To learn more about John McGrail, Ph.D., please visit http://www.drjohnmcgrail.com

Bullying is not a new topic. It has been around since biblical times with such stories as David and Goliath, and Joseph whose brothers were so jealous of their father's favoritism that they sold him to the Egyptians and told their father he was dead. 

Today, bullying has taken a a new phase with cyberbullying. Kids can be involved in bullying behind a screen, anonymously in their own homes. 

Today's special guest, Jill Vanderwood has experienced bullying first hand. In the fifth grade she told on a boy who stole her eraser. All the boys in her class vowed to get her back. The bullying began that year and continued into high school. One boy even brought a gas mask to school for his friend who had to sit next to her in class.

In her new book, Erase the Problem of Bullying Jill Vanderwood shares her own story along with the stories of others who have been bullied, such as NBA All Star, James Donaldson, who nearly gave up on a basketball career because of the problem he was having with bullies.

Jill Ammon Vanderwood is the award winning author of eight books. Her books have won the Indie Excellence Award, Gold and Silver Quill from the League of Utah Writers, USA Best Books Award and the National Mom's Choice Award.

 To learn more about jill Vanderwood, please visit http://www.jillvanderwood.com

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues.

The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE!

The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801.

This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous.

All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

At the age of 19, suddenly faced with a major health crisis including chronic physical pain and the loss of a dear friend in the Twin Towers collapse of 9/11, today's guest Lyric Benson was in such extreme emotional and physical agony, she began to pray. And, surprised as she was, that moment changed her life.

Finding her way to Maharishi Mahesh Yogi and Transcendental Meditation, she ultimately became a celibate monk and spent the next eight years in meditation for up to 10 hours a day. In the silence she awakened to God's presence through a state of extreme bliss. 

Today Lyric Benson Fergusson deeply experiences God as a manifestation in everyday experiences, in everything we touch, in every human being. She brings her message of peace, love and divine realization through her unconventional poetry book, French Kissing God: A Journey to Enlightenment. The collection's exuberant, pulsating, passionate, visceral verses are the author's hallmark. Her words let us join her on a journey to enlightenment. Regardless of one's religion or spiritual tradition, anyone who picks up this book will find it eye-opening, heartening, humorous and boundary breaking. 

Lyric Benson Fergusson grew up in Hollywood as the daughter of actor/director Robby Benson and actress//rock star Karla DeVito. She is an enthusiastic screenwriter, poet, actress, photographer, and activist who spent many years as a teacher of The Wholeness, a non-profit organization dedicated to facilitating the full awakening of humanity. She has been deeply transformed and inspired by their breakthrough technologies, which bring each individual's awareness back to the love and truth resonating in all of our hearts.

Be sure to tune in and be inspired as Lyric spreads her messages of peace, love and divine realization.

Do you wish you had a customized course to follow to access the realm of higher consciousness? Would you like to learn about subjects that can advance your awakening such as soul retrieval, clearing and clarifying energy, astral travel and grounding, past-life regression, visual and intentional manifesting, and living a multi-dimensional existence? Then you are going to love what Dr. Edwige Bingue has to share with you today!

She has previously blazed the many unseen paths of the Universe to become the internationally renowned and powerful healer, intuitive, coach and spiritual activator that she is today. She now offers to be your personal guide in awakening your spirit In her book, You're Not Crazy, You're Awakenng.

In her book, Dr. Bingue charts a course anyone, even those who haven't had higher consciousness experiences, can follow to access the realm of higher consciousness.  This book opens the door for you to become a conscious thinker, embrace your multi-dimensional self, get comfortable with experiences that help you raise your frequency, and warmly welcome benevolent beings who are waiting in the wings to assist you.

Dr. Edwige holds a Doctorate in Metaphysical Science, is a Light Body Mentor, Light Code Activator, metaphysical practitioner, author and speaker. For over 12 years she worked with her energetic team to elevate her skills so she could excel at pinpointing blocked energy flow, clearing it and healing her clients emotionally, physically and mentally. She also coaches people to achieve their life dreams.

The benefits to this show are immense. Be sure to tune in and listen.

To learn more about Dr. Edwige Bingue's work please visithttp://www.dredwige.com