A Fine Time for Healing

Your partner has lied to you again and shows no remorse when you call him out. Your sister calls and keeps you on the phone for an hour complaining about her life, but, once again, she never asks how you are doing. Your boss just screamed at you when you mistakenly sent her the wrong file. It feels like you’re living in a toxic soup, and you want out!  

You can change your externals by breaking up with your partner, ignoring your sister’s calls, and finding another job, but the truth is that the toxicity will continue to show up in your relationships unless you shift the inner, core false beliefs you hold about yourself that are actually attracted to toxicity.

TJ Woodward is a revolutionary recovery expert, bestselling author, inspirational speaker, educator, and addiction treatment specialist who has helped countless people through his simple, yet powerful teachings. TJ enlightens and entertains audiences around the world. Utilizing his captivating and authentic style, he assists people in literally changing the way they exist through his informative and dynamic talks and trainings. He is also the creator of The Conscious Recovery Method, which is a groundbreaking and effective approach to viewing and treating addiction. 

TJ is a featured thought leader on wholehearted.org along with Brené Brown, Marianne Williamson, Dr. Gabor Maté, and Mark Lundholm, as well as a featured thought leader in the upcoming docuseries, Addiction Revealed, which will be released in early 2023. He was given the honor of being ordained as an Agape minister by Dr. Michael Beckwith and was also the founding minister of the Agape Bay Area in Oakland, which was the first satellite community of The Agape International Spiritual Center in LA. 

TJ is the author of several bestselling books.

Today's special guest, Justin Frandson, is a renowned Performance Coach and the founder o f Athleticism.com and EMFRocks.com. With over a decade of experience in the field, Justin is a leading expert in the connection between healthand the environment.

As a Performance Coach, Justin became interested in the impact of environmental factors on performance after noticing that many of the athletes he treated were breaking down due to the effects of wearable technology. In response to this, he looked to nature for solutions to the man-made EMFchallenge. His Grounding Bags, which are sold at doctor clinics across the country, are the leading natural answer for helping people coexist with EMF.

In addition to his work as a coach and author of the book Athleticism: Whole Body, Whole Brain, Performance,  Justin is also a highly sought-after speaker and consultant in the health and wellnesscommunity.

In a moving yet disturbing memoir about finding healing after suffering unthinkable trauma, today's special guest Justin Woodbury recounts his time growing up in an Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church and how its cultlike organization allowed for child abuse. Justin was taught from a young age that if he followed a strict set of morals he would be protected from all the evil in the world. But one spring day in 1998 when he was followed into a barn by a sexual predator and faithful church attender Carol Lynn Mathia, he learned this wasn’t true. He didn’t know this family friend had been grooming him for years, and he certainly didn’t know that forty minutes after walking into the barn, he would leave feeling confused, dirty, and guilty. After the incident, Justin became trapped in a twisted sexual relationship that lasted months and ended with a conspiracy to commit murder. When the church found out, the abuse was covered up and life went on as normal—except it didn’t, not for Justin. For the next 20 years, he experienced PTSD and nightmares, and carried heavy baggage that almost ended his marriage. His book Sheltered but Not Protected is the true story of growing up in the IFB church; the sexual, mental, and emotional abuse he experienced; how he escaped; and his journey to find healing and forgiveness. Justin Woodbury, a child survivor of church abuse decided to start his life over at age thirty in Littleton, Colorado. There, he met his best friend, soulmate, and love of his life, Emily. Justin began advocating for victims of abuse after he held his son in his arms for the first time and realized the weight of responsibility he would have as a father. Since then, Justin has made it his life's mission to speak out against abuse in all forms and to be a voice for victims, especially those who were abused in a religious setting.

In a moving yet disturbing memoir about finding healing after suffering unthinkable trauma, today's special guest Justin Woodbury recounts his time growing up in an Independent Fundamentalist Baptist Church and how its cultlike organization allowed for child abuse.

Justin was taught from a young age that if he followed a strict set of morals he would be protected from all the evil in the world. But one spring day in 1998 when he was followed into a barn by a sexual predator and faithful church attender Carol Lynn Mathia, he learned this wasn’t true. He didn’t know this family friend had been grooming him for years, and he certainly didn’t know that forty minutes after walking into the barn, he would leave feeling confused, dirty, and guilty. 

 

After the incident, Justin became trapped in a twisted sexual relationship that lasted months and ended with a conspiracy to commit murder. When the church found out, the abuse was covered up and life went on as normal—except it didn’t, not for Justin. For the next 20 years, he experienced PTSD and nightmares, and carried heavy baggage that almost ended his marriage. His book Sheltered but Not Protected is the true story of growing up in the IFB church; the sexual, mental, and emotional abuse he experienced; how he escaped; and his journey to find healing and forgiveness.

Justin Woodbury, a child survivor of church abuse decided to start his life over at age thirty in Littleton, Colorado. There, he met his best friend, soulmate, and love of his life, Emily. Justin began advocating for victims of abuse after he held his son in his arms for the first time and realized the weight of responsibility he would have as a father. Since then, Justin has made it his life's mission to speak out against abuse in all forms and to be a voice for victims, especially those who were abused in a religious setting.

Every day all around the world a child and parent are alienated from one another. When this happens, lives are devastated, bonds between a normally loving parent and child are made to be apart, and hearts are broken. Parental alienation is something that has always been in our lives, but until it touches us, we always believe it only happens to other people. Sadly, it is our children who will suffer the most because, they will lose half of who they are, half of who they can become, and half of the heritage they should be able to know.

International parental abduction is a growing area of concern as relationships are constantly being born between people from different countries and cultures. In the US alone, it is estimated that over 800 children will be abducted by one of their parents and spirited away to a foreign country. This only accounts for the ones who are reported missing. There are some people who feel that the child can't be abducted because they are with one of the parents.This is untrue.

Positive changes must be made in individual state's legislation as well as in the family court systems. There must be a legal reckoning for these parents who use their children as pawns in this war.  Parental alienation is a form of emotional abuse on both, the targeted parent and victim children alike.

David R Shubert is a left behind and alienated parent who has been fighting to be in his daughter and stepson's lives for over fifteen years now. He understands the dynamics involved in the mental and emotional aspects that all alienated parents are forced to endure. After becoming disillusioned with the family courts, he decided to take matters into own hands to promote awareness on the various social media outlets. He felt that he needed to write about what millions of other parents go through when their child has been parentally abducted or alienated from the other parent.

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Bernard Beitman is back today to talk about the science and magic behind synchronicty and serendipity.

Listen to his February 8th show here

Each of us has more to do with creating coincidences than we think.

Today's special guest Dr. Bernard Beitman explores the crucial role of personal agency in his book Meaningful Coincidences: How and Why Synchronicity and Serendipity Happen.  individual thought and action. He shows that there's much more behind these occurrences than "fate" or "randomness", and says that "they can be clues to the functioning of the psychosphere, our mental atmosphere through which many of them happen, and that by sharing our personal coincidence stories we help each other grow through our connections with other people."

Bernard Beitman, M.D., the founder ot The Coincidence Project, is the first psychiatrist since Carl Jung to systematize the study of coincidences. A graduate of Yale Medical School, he did his psychiatric residency at Stanford University. The former chair of psychiatry of the University of Missouri-Columbia medical school for 17 years, he writes a blog for Psychology Today on coinicidence and is the coauthor of the award-winning book Learning Psychotherapy.

To a pet parent, to lose a pet means to lose a child. The love we share with our pets never dies, and the author proves our pets do communicate with us from the other side. Learn how dogs, cats, horses and some birds have the intelligence and ability to send signs to the living after they pass. Take comfort in knowing our pets are around us from time to time and recognize the signs they give. Learn how they wait for us when it’s our time, what a pet’s ashes can do, and the difference between ghosts and spirits. Learn how and why living pets can sense entities.

Rob discusses what happened when he took his dogs on a ghost investigation and how the spirits of Rob’s 2 dogs and dogs from three other mediums communicated with them from the other side. He will also share about spirit cats and how a ghostly dog rescued a girl.

Rob Gutro is an author, paranormal investigator and medium with Inspired Ghost Tracking of Maryland. Since he was a child he could receive messages from ghosts or spirits who have crossed over. As a scientist, he also provides some scientific explanations about how energy is the baseline for the afterlife and the medium that entities use to communicate. In 2005, Rob's late puppy passed and inspired Rob to write his first book and enabled him to communicate with pets. Rob participates in private paranormal investigations, helps ghosts cross over, and has provided countless messages from people or pets as ghosts or spirits. He lived in a haunted house, too!

Rob volunteers for Dachshund and Weimaraner rescues and has several dogs.

Today's special guest, Robert Lindsy Milne is not just the author. He is a part of the story told in his book The Perfect Predator.

As described in the book, Robert and Dr. Steffanie Strathdee have known each other since 1992. He was/is still the psychic consultant and spiritual rock for her during her husband Tom's illness. In fact while he was in a coma, Robert was the one that guided the doctors to Tom's cure.

Robert Lindsy Milne is here to tell us his remarkable true stories including: how he broke up a Spy Ring, how he called the "Havana turn-around", and what happened when he was contacted to interview Spy and KGB Agent, Ivan Moronoff.

Robert Lindsy Milne is a Psychic-Intuitive counselor, teacher, healer, and life coach. He is recognized across the continent as one of the most insightful psychic-intuitive channelers of his time. At a very young age he realized his psychic gifts and started his first job working as a psychic intuitive doing readings at the "Cozy Tea Room" in Toronto. Robert has traveled the world giving insight with his sessions to tens of thousands of people and has become recognized across the continent. Robert has also worked with the police and Canadian Secret Service helping to gather intel and work on missing person's cases. Currently Robert is hosting his podcast, My Side of the Crystal Ball.

Narcissists thrive on the power and control they have over other people’s minds. Many narcissists choose careers in mental health care for this reason.

Narcissists who practice mental health care usually operate covertly. The abuse is often subtle but the effect they have on those who, for whatever reason, are experiencing a vulnerable time in their life, can be devastating.

Many have the misconception that a mental health degree and letters after someone’s name automatically makes the person competent and trustworthy.  This belief could not be farther from the truth. People are people. We cannot blindly trust anyone just because the person is licensed and trained; just because they have a Master’s degree or PhD.

What could be better for a narcissist than to have licensed power over others’ thinking? It is a dream job for them.

Narcissistic Abuse Expert Randi Fine will be discussing this topic and others today in her “Second Friday-of-every-month” NPD focused podcast.

Randi Fine is a World Renowned Narcissistic Abuse Expert and Coach in private practice with 15 years of experience coaching victims and survivors of narcissistic personality disorder abuse worldwide. An adept coach with proven success, she has directly guided 1200+ clients toward rapid emotional healing and thousands more through articles, interviews, videos, and podcasts.Randi is also a Certified Neuro Bilateral Processing Coach since 2021. In private practice with 2 years of experience, using a non-triggering traumatic memory release technique.

She is the author of Close Encounters of the Worst Kind Second Edition: The Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Comprehensive Guide to Healing and Recovery, Cliffedge Road: A Memoir, and the soon-to-be-released Close Encounters of the Worst Kind Companion Workbook

Today's special guest Kevin Jeffers shares his experiences as a soul traveler, healer, and energy specialist. He teaches how to achieve spiritual freedom through a unique expression of consciousness. He discovered this insight when his consciousness left his body during a deep meditation. Focusing his attention, he found himself in a limitless field of clear, sparkling, blue-and-white lines that intersected. These energy lines formed a grid, pulsating with starry lights, the countless manifestations of consciousness striving for greater self-awareness.

He will discuss his experienced that day—what he calls the “Pattern”—informed the rest of my life. Striving to know my soul’s origin and destination, He  continues to merge with the Pattern to experience the Creator’s intent: the uplift of all forms of consciousness. Over time he has learned to use this space for healing and soul retrievals.

“The Pattern points to a pathway for you to experience a greater knowledge of Spirit’s ultimate design.”

Keven Jeffers, author, has been helping people retrieve their lost or incomplete souls, through the process of passing over, for many years. Hi new book, The Pattern: An Exploration of Consciousness points to a pathway for people to experience more self-awareness and manifestation