A Gentleman's Guide

She vanished without a word… and now she’s back like nothing happened.
What do you do?

In this episode of A Gentleman’s Guide, I break down the confusing dynamic of ghosting followed by a sudden return.
I share two personal stories — one romantic, one platonic — and explore what motivates this behaviour, how to interpret it, and most importantly, how to respond without losing your self-respect.

We’ll cover:
- Why people ghost and come back months later
- The most common (and flimsy) excuses
- How to tell if she’s sincere — or just seeking validation
- The three ways to respond (and when silence is best)
- Why outcome independence is the real superpower

If you’ve ever had someone dip out and reappear like nothing happened, this episode is for you.

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What do you do when you and your best friend fall for the same woman — on the same night? In this episode, Alexandre shares a true story from a pub crawl in Croatia that turned into an unexpected showdown of attraction, ego, and friendship.

Through this humorous yet insightful tale, he explores male dynamics, jealousy, and how to navigate tricky social situations without wrecking the mood—or your friendship. The big takeaway? Sometimes it’s not about “winning the girl”… it’s about keeping your integrity and
your friendships intact.

Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask?
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In Episode 44, Alexandre digs into what big data really says about dating and long-term happiness. Spoiler: the traits we obsess over on apps - looks, height, job - barely predict relationship joy. Instead, your own mindset and emotional health matter way more. Discover why “shiny” qualities are overrated and how chemistry often grows over time with the underrated partners we overlook. Plus, the top four traits that truly predict lasting love. Ready to stop dating wrong? Tune in!

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Turns out, dating apps don’t lie—and neither do the cold, hard stats. In this episode, Alexandre uncovers what really makes you swipe-right material: hotness helps, height matters, and your job title might beat your salary. From sexy names to firefighter fantasies, it’s a data-driven reality check with a side of sarcasm. Spoiler: Your vibe still beats your bank account.

Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a question you've been dying to ask?
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This second episode with dating coach Danny Very touches on essential elements of personal development and dating success. Danny emphasizes the importance of operating at a higher frequency by eliminating low-frequency habits and adopting healthier daily routines. They explore the significance of filtering potential partners, recognizing red flags in texting, and analysing post-date behaviours to gauge interest. The conversation also touches on the role of physical attractiveness in dating dynamics and the necessity of effective communication skills for building romantic connections.

Danny's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@itsdannyvera
Instagram: @itsdannyvera

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: [email protected], or DM me on my Instagram profile agg_podcast.

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In this episode, Alexandre welcomes dating coach Danny Vera to discuss the challenges young men face in today's dating landscape. They explore the decline of traditional masculinity, and common pitfalls in communication and first dates. Danny shares insights from his coaching experience, emphasizing the importance of understanding male-female dynamics and the need for self-development in navigating modern relationships.

Danny's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@itsdannyvera
Instagram: @itsdannyvera

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Listen to Alex dive into some harsh truths about modern dating. Some of the things revealed are timeless truths, others have to do with recent changes we've seen in society. Listen to the episode and make up your own mind. Do you agree with most points?

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: [email protected], or DM me on my Instagram profile agg_podcast.

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When it comes to dating and relationships, a lot of advice centres around creating attraction and how to spark positive emotions. But there's another important force at play that could move the needle just as much, if not more. Listen to Alex talk about how you can increase your dating success by changing your circumstances.

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: [email protected], or DM me on my Instagram profile agg_podcast.

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Ever wondered what happens to your dating profile after you match with someone? Turns out, women have entire Facebook groups where they share profiles, swap stories, and warn each other about red flags. In this episode, Justine returns to break down how these groups work, what behaviour gets called out, and whether guys should be worried. If you’re dating online, your reputation might be traveling faster than you think!

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: [email protected]

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Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.
In this follow-on episode we talk about why he finally let go of his player lifestyle, and what made him commit to his now wife.

Paul's book 'Attraction Formula: Dating Technology for the Modern Man':
https://tinyurl.com/Attraction-Formula

Paul's online course:
https://no-man-left-behind.teachable.com/

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: [email protected]

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