Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.
In this episode, we’re going behind the scenes. If you’ve ever wondered what separates the guys who ‘get it’ from those who don’t—this one’s for you.

Paul's book 'Attraction Formula: Dating Technology for the Modern Man':
https://tinyurl.com/Attraction-Formula

Paul's online course:
https://no-man-left-behind.teachable.com/

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Recent studies have shown a decline of all kinds of romantic relationships, and it seems to be a worldwide trend. More alarmingly, people also seem to engage in less casual sex than they did before. In this episode, Alex offers an explanation for this phenomenon.

Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481d

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In this episode, Alex dives deeper into the reasons why men and women tend to have different communication styles. In the second part of the episode, he gives examples and ideas on how to improve how you engage with women to get better outcomes.

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In this episode, Alex takes a semi-humorous, semi-serious jab at understanding female expressions. Gentlemen, if you've ever been left scratching your head after talking to your girlfriend or date, this episode's for you.

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Seriously guys! 2025 is going to be an amazing year, full of new possibilities and exciting dates. In the first episode of the year, I go over some lessons that I learnt over the past 12 months, and share an ancient tale of zen wisdom with you at the end. Please dive in!

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The city of Medellin in Colombia has become very popular in the last few years, not least amongst men looking to meet Latinas and have a good time. But looking for love in this city can potentially be dangerous. Let my story be a cautionary tale of what can happen if you're not careful enough.

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What do you do if a girl doesn't respond to your first text or doesn't agree to go out on a date? In this episode, we'll go into some troubleshooting and show a fun and playful way to help you recover the interaction.

This is the last episode in our series on texting (started with episode Nr. 26).
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In this episode, Alex offers some examples of good initial text messages to send her, and how to ask her out in an attractive way. It builds on the previous episode (Nr 28), so make sure to check it out! Here's the Spotify link to it:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/0niMzCDi55z6RGMne0lnJe?si=e50e8af877f34075

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.

Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to [email protected]

Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.


Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to [email protected]

Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series of episodes will be dedicated to the art of good messaging.
Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to [email protected]

Hosted by Audion. Visit https://www.audion.fm/privacy-policy for more information.