A GoodDid

I’ve come to learn that the further failures we experience in life, our inability to break out of a circle of “fails” and continues fall into that dark hole that’s synonymous with “ill-luck” is also down to how we respond to the challenges we’ve just experienced. Others punish you for your actions but how much of the punishment comes from those we have wrong? How much of it is self inflicted? How much of it is responsible for the current and constant misery and self abuse? What are the symptoms? How do we know it is responsible for our constant self degradation? When is it enough? How do we break out of that cycle? How do We know it’s time to grow forward? Is pain part of the process? How much of it is painful? What happens after ? Check out this episode for a guideline to empower yourself with the will to make a change #inyourlife

So, we often play down the importance of sex in our relationships not because it’s not all that important but because of our thoughts on the moral implications and what the topic represents. Men don’t want to even go there to dare think or even harbour the thought that they might not be able to satisfy you in bed and women (the emotional creatures that they are) don’t want to hurt their men’s feelings by telling them the truth about the sex they just had! Which explains the existence of such a thing as ‘faking it’. Who are we fooling? This and more on today’s podcast... check it out!

There is an old saying, and I am paraphrasing here; “we are a sum of the company we keep” our values, morals, beliefs, ambitions, views, opinions and projections are reflected in the people around us. Love, truth, support, strength, loyalty and oneness are only a hand full of what we look to those around us for. 40% of what we think and do can be influenced by the company we keep. A call to really examine ourselves and our relationships... we as humans are evolving into a ‘no bullshit’ era and you don’t want to be left behind.. Choose your friends wisely and if they chose you, make sure you are worth it!

“ I know what I’m doing” Do you really... “I it doesn’t look good” To who?, “I heard that” who from?; we have either heard or used one or all of these phrases at some point to justify our actions, choices and decisions both to ourselves and others... we probably still do but who are we really trying to impress? Ourselves/society? What do we tell ourselves is the reason we do what we do? Subscribe, and weigh in on the conversation. Leave a comment, rate and contribute if you feel like the message got through to you. You are not alone in this...

A closer look at the GoodDid podcast, where we are, where we’re going. How we got here, what’s to look forward to, a reminder of our resolutions and purpose... for 2019. I share one of my resolutions and where to get updates.

Your find yourself at the finish point of a bad decision. Filled with regret, pain and a bunch of “what ifs”. 9 times out of 10, your feelings lead you there. Life throws you a curl ball, good or bad ... one way or the other the feeling of ............... leads you down the tunnel to those “what ifs” You manage your feelings, you gain control, you gain control you better your odds of making the right decision... learn how!

We as humans are programmed naturally subconsciously to protect ourselves from emotional hurt when making decisions or choices. So we innately explore every possibility of failure in order to preempt any failure which may ensue. Preparing for the worst but instead of expecting the best, we take it as far as expecting the worst which defeats the purpose for taking that action hence the self sabotage! On this episode we attempt to identify those trends and figure out different ways of countering them.

Taking responsibility! It is in fact true that taking responsibility morphs into taking control once clearly understood or isn’t it?

You have made several new year resolutions year in year out but can’t seem to follow through. How do you break that cycle of consistently being stuck in the same spot.

A way of accepting, appreciating and taking advantage of where we currently are in order to get to where we want to be.