A Mouthful Podcast

In this episode,We talk about about sobriety and the impact its having on our mental clarity and happiness. we unpack why birthdays hold such significance for women, especially within the black community -the birthday outfit debacle and dealing with  jealousy and comparison in friendships. THEN, We unpack all the parasocial celebrity drama of the past week: From Jamie Vs Nikki , DDG and Halle's maybe baby to the potential end of the receipts podcast, the fabulous pod that sparked the idea for this very show. It's honestly A Mouthful!

(05:41 - 06:50) Embracing Sadness to Appreciate Happiness

(16:35 - 17:52) The birthday outfit, competition and girl friendship dynamics 

(20:56 - 22:13) Why do birthdays hold such significance for Women 

(23:04 - 33:55)  The Receipts Podcast broke up and Charity is not well 

(34:07 - 58:10) Jamie VS Nicki, the challenges of internet relationships  and DARVO

(01:02:57 - 01:03:52) DDG and Halle, Parasocial Relationships With Social Media Influencers and reaching  

It's honestly A Mouthful!

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In this episode...

(0:00:03) - Reflecting on life after graduation and surviving the new  Job Market

(0:07:56) - Soccer Vs Tennis and the Kardashian konundrum

(0:13:43) - Sibling Drama, Loyalty and Being the First-Born in An African household

(0:27:57) - Resentment and Parental Expectations

(1:00:58) -  Boy Math and The Pleasure Gap!

It's honestly A Mouthful! 

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In this episode, we spill the tea on our toxic traits and how we cope, giggle about that one TikToker who's always "broke," but keeps buying fancy stuff, dive into the Miss Zimbabwe controversy and get real about race, history and our own naivety when it comes to racism.  We explore the toxicity lurking behind the screens, Twitter fingers , getting dragged and get vulnerable about the struggles of online visibility, and why it's so intimidating to share your thoughts online. Things get spicy as we tackle the internet's newest dilemma, the "credit card saga" and  the age-old debate of splitting bills and money etiquette. #It'sHonestlyAMouthful 

Toxic Traits and Coping Mechanisms

• Voxx's sister's matric dance and missing home
• Spending when you're sad
• Fall is back bring the coats out

Misunderstandings and Naivety on Racism

• The Miss Zimbabwe controversy 
• Underrepresentation of Black women in the beauty industry 
• The need for education and content to broaden our world views.

Miss Zimbabwe, Colonization and Getting dragged on twitter

• The elephant in the room: Race and body representation in beauty pageants
• Getting dragged on twitter
• Colonization's effects on indigenous populations
•  land acknowledgements in Canada are awkward and not enough 

Another Social Media Rant 

• Social media is fun but also toxic 
• The blessings and curses of online visibility
• Be kind, read books, and avoid negative online interactions.

Splitting Bills and Money Etiquette

• Money Pet Peeves
• We debate the pros and cons of paying for individual orders, and discuss the complexities of money and friendship, as well as the recent "credit card saga" on social media.
• Money beliefs and upbringing

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We're back! with a casual chitchat , we're catching up on the end of summer and venting! about the crazy expensive lives of women who have to braid our hair,  skyrocketing rental prices in Canada and double standards and identity issues with examples from our favourite source, Twitter. We get into "The brick" incident - a Black woman hit with a brick for turning down a mans advances and compare it to another viral video of a white woman celebrated for her violent behavior at a music festival.  Last but certainly not least, we tackle some AITAs from Reddit and a dilemma submitted by one of our lovely annonies. From boundary-crossing in relationships, the pain of ghosting, societal pressures on women's appearances and wedding planner drama  #ItsAMouthful !

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Ever felt like you're tiptoeing through a relationship minefield, dodging boundary bombs left and right? Or got caught up in the tangled web of therapy-speak, where your words seem lost in translation?  Licensed therapists might be dropping wisdom on social media, but watch out for the therapy buzzwords like 'boundaries' and 'triggers' and 'trauma'  – that could be building walls where you need bridges. We get into how guarding your boundaries can lead to ending up solo with the viral story of a Bridezilla vs her bridesmaids in a real life boundary showdown. 

The spiritual realm's got power, but we ask the question, is the devil really the n

 And Last but not least we're tackling your personal dilemmas too! #ItsAMouthful

Misusing Boundaries and Gaslighting Conversations 

• Buckle up, because we're diving into how 'boundaries' and 'therapy jargon' can be sneaky tools for manipulation.
• Ever wondered about platonic friendships with the opposite sex? We're decoding the wordplay that can twist them.
• Hold on tight for a story where boundaries went MIA, reminding us why setting them from day one is crucial.

Balancing Self-Care and Community 

• Get ready for a rollercoaster ride on the self-care express – but are we forgetting to punch a ticket for community?
• Unmasking the not-so-pretty side of 'boundary' and 'self-care' misuse, turning self-focus into a one-person show.
• Let's chat about the perks of solitude, but spoiler alert: it can get pretty darn lonely.

Community and Boundaries in Relationships

• Community's in the spotlight, and we're pondering whether being a boundary boss can sometimes lead to relationship dropout.
• Plot twist: differing opinions in friendships could be the glue that holds 'em together. 
• Sexual liberation's got our attention too, and we're decoding how it's a bit like getting a reminder on your phone.

Sexual Liberation and Boundaries 

• Buzzword alert! 'Boundaries,' 'trigger warning,' and 'trigger trauma' – are we tossing these around like confetti without a clue?
• Hold onto your hats for the story of a bride-to-be and how one bridesmaid dropped the mic on her big day.

Answering your Dilemmas 

• What's the deal with partners who ghost on convo initiation?
• Is age just a number? We're breaking down high school vs. university romances, and how to dodge the loneliness trap.
• Witchcraft and Ouija – is dabbling dangerous or just a spiritual game?

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This week, Charity and Voxx explore Ariana Grande's rollercoaster of toxic relationships and dive into the concept of purity culture; discussing its effects on self-esteem and relationships, they challenge the double standards in Christian relationships and navigating it all with some grace and self-awareness and individuality huny. It's honestly a mouthful!

Show notes:

Ariana Grande's Toxic Past and Present

• The "Break up with your boyfriend" singer's drama-filled history of toxic relationships
• Social media, Original thoughts and negativity

Navigating Christian Relationships and the pressure to marry quick!

• The Culture of early marriage and parenting in Christian communities
• Impact on individual growth and happiness
• Hasty decisions and implications
• The "one and done" mentality and its drawbacks
• Navigating purity culture's double standards
• Reflections on Relationships and Sex and God

Unraveling the Purity Paradox

• Flaws in purity culture and societal pressure
• Impact on self-esteem and relationships
• Harmful effects on women's sexuality
• Double standards in purity culture
• Navigating Relationship Labels and Societal Expectations

The Purity Paradox and Women's Liberation

• Harmful effects of purity culture on women's sexuality
• Sensitivity around sex within marriage and pressure on women
• Emphasizing the importance of choice, grace and self-acceptance

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This week we're talking nicknames, Fragile male egos, single dad superheroes, and breaking down biases and racial microaggressions are also on the agenda.

In this episode, We share stories about the origins of our own nicknames and spill the tea on how social media trends are shaping names like never before.

Darius ,Keke, and Usher to Halle Bailey and DDG; We couldn't shy away from discussing the underlying power dynamics and boundaries in relationships, especially when it comes to clothing preferences, the insecurities that often plague men when their partners outshine them.

And last but not least, we talk bout our girls trip to Kelowna and confront karens, biases and racial microaggressions head-on  Trust us, #It'sAMouthful 

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Are billionaires pushing boundaries because they feel invincible, or are they just wired differently? Charity and Voxx venture into the realm of conspiracy theories, Oceangate, TransLink and the alleged! death of Tupac. We promise to challenge your perception of reality, stimulate your mind, and maybe even provoke a little laughter in this short and sweet one. Ever found yourself in a moral dilemma where doing the right thing could potentially shatter relationships? We've all been there, and today, we get real about these tough decisions. and explore the controversial idea of being a snitch, the weight it carries, and how it tests our morals shifts our loyalties. Lastly, we continue last episode's discussion on the dynamics of friendships and romance, and give you a taste of the realest advice on maintaining friendships during the seismic shifts a new romantic relationship can bring. Its honestly a mouthful!

SHOW NOTES: 

1. Translink, Navigation and Conspiracy Theories

• I helped a lost bus driver, reflecting on economic issues and advocating for people of colour.

2.Conspiracy Theories and Billionaires

• We explore the mystery of the billionaire's submarine, our own conspiracy theories, and the value of a billion dollars. 

3.Morality and Snitching in Crime

• We discuss morality, tough decisions, implications of not snitching, and a put each other to the test in a fun scenario.

4. Navigating my friend's new relationship

• Maintaining strong friendships while in a relationship, understanding and supporting friends in relationships, and keeping the same energy in friendships.

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In this episode of A Mouthful Podcast, we dive deep into the world of female/ adult friendship. Drawing from our personal experiences, we get real about the surprising gap between our assumptions about life as grown-ups versus the actual ride, the joys, and struggles that come with building meaningful relationships that stand the test of time, and we celebrate all the friendship warriors out there working on their friendships like we are, we're proud of you!

Episode Notes:

Over-romanticizing romance and expecting perfection without communication:

• The Importance of communication and setting expectations in adult relationships

Friendships vs romantic relationships:

• Giving friendships more grace
• Projection of romantic relationship issues onto friendships
• Society's emphasis on the value of having a romantic partner
• Friendships being viewed as replaceable compared to romantic relationships

Personal value and investment in friendships:

• Learning to forgive and grow in friendships
• Overcoming insecurities and valuing friendships more
• Treating friendships as valuable and addressing issues openly.

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Personal Experiences:

• Voxx shares her frustrating encounter with a draining manager at work.
• Charity discusses her struggle with anemia and getting back into a regular workout routine.

Navigating Cultural Expectations:

• The complexities of cultural expectations and setting boundaries in relationships.
• Balancing respect for traditions and asserting personal values.

Idolized Couples:

• Exploring the stories of Savannah James and the intriguing Skepta.
• Discussing the pressures and challenges couples face in the spotlight and  social media.

"Difficult Makoti"

• Examining the concept of being a "difficult Makoti" (daughter-in-law).
• Reluctance to participate in certain cultural activities, such as traditional ceremonies involving animal sacrifice.

Thoughtful Reflection on the challenges of work, health, cultural identity, and modern relationships.

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