“What did you help with today?” and “How did you fail?” These two simple questions—shared by Natasha Beck, also known as Dr. Organic Mommy—are meant for kids, but they apply just as powerfully to adults.
Instead of the routine “How was school?” or “How was work?”, these questions reinforce two essential values: caring about community and normalizing failure as part of growth. Helping doesn’t have to mean something grand—it can be as simple as supporting a friend or showing up for someone in a small way. And failure, when talked about openly, becomes a teacher rather than something to hide.
In this episode, I reflect on how these questions can deepen everyday conversations with partners, friends, and even ourselves through journaling. What we ask shapes what we notice—and these questions gently shift our focus toward contribution, learning, and meaning.
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