What does it take to figure out who you really are when race, gender, culture, family, relationships, and society are all telling you who you’re supposed to be? In this book club discussion, we explore Fairest: A Memoir by Meredith Talusan and its examination of transgender identity, immigration from the Philippines to the United States, growing up with albinism, attending Harvard, gender transition, queer identity, body image, privilege, belonging, and ultimately self-acceptance.
Marisa Serafini and Phil Svitek discuss how Meredith’s childhood in the Philippines shaped her identity, why moving to America created both freedom and new forms of pressure, and how Harvard simultaneously became a place of liberation and exclusion. We also explore the memoir’s complicated relationships, the difference between changing yourself for another person and changing because it reflects who you truly are, and the photograph that helped Meredith see herself differently.
Rather than treating Fairest simply as a story about gender transition, we look at the larger question underneath it: how much of our identity belongs to us, and how much is shaped by our desire to be accepted?
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