In this episode, Gabriel sits down with listener Mashka for a thoughtful conversation about gender. They dig into what it’s been like to mask up after COVID, explore the pressure of gender expectations in ballet and figure skating, and share stories about changing your name within your own culture. Along the way, they touch on family, identity, and more.

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In this episode, Gabriel Gara Lonning cracks open his journal and shares the painfully mundane details of his life as a twenty-something writer stumbling through New York City. He’s desperate for your approval. Tune in for existential oversharing, and catch the full episode on Patreon.

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In this episode, Gabriel (@unitedstatesofgara) sits down with listener Scarlet (@scarle7hues) from Massachusetts to talk about polyamory, staying mindful while dating, following what genuinely brings you joy, trans freedom, and more. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about navigating relationships and living authentically.

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Join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) as he dives into the latest stories shaping conversations around gender. In this episode, he unpacks headlines about transgender rights, explores the significance of lavender graduations, breaks down the recent UK Supreme Court decision, and shares his take on state-level debates. Expect sharp insights and thoughtful discussion on the issues that matter most right now.

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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Mars, living in Rome, Georgia, who shares their deeply personal journey of growing up queer in the American South. Our conversation touches on both the challenges and resilience of LGBTQ+ life in Georgia, and includes a moving reflection on the tragic loss of Scout Schultz in 2017. Mars offers a firsthand account of how Scout's death impacted the Georgia Tech community, remembering them as an influential leader who helped shape the campus's queer community. Through intimate storytelling and honest dialogue, this episode explores themes of identity, community, and the ongoing struggle for understanding in the modern South. Mars on instagram (@extraterrestrial_ash) 

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 Gabriel Gara Lonning peels back the layers of his identity – starting with the story of choosing his own name. Growing up with a twin brother added a fascinating twist to Gabriel's journey, creating a unique mirror that reflected both who he was and who he wasn't. Gabriel weaves together a narrative that's both deeply personal and universally human. It's about more than just changing a name – it's about becoming who you've always been, even when your reflection tells two different stories. Catch more of Gabriel's insights @unitedstatesofgara.

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Join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) for a vibrant episode as he takes you through the streets of his new home - New York City. After years of fantasizing about life in the Big Apple, Gabriel shares his raw, honest, and sometimes hilarious experiences of finally making his dreams reality. Recorded on Trans Day of Visibility, this special episode captures the electric energy of both personal transformation and city life. Want more? Catch the full episode exclusively on Patreon, where Gabriel dives even deeper into his NYC adventures.

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Raw, unfiltered, and straight from the heart — join Gabriel Gara Lonning (@unitedstatesofgara) in this episode as he peels back the layers of identity and self-discovery. With striking candor, Gabriel shares his journey through understanding his homoromantic attractions, recalls the transformative moment of his first testosterone treatment, and explores the nuances of embracing his non-binary identity. This unedited conversation captures the complexity of gender expression in ways rarely discussed in mainstream media. For the complete, uncensored episode, visit Gabriel's Patreon community.  https://www.patreon.com/garalonning

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In this episode of "A Podcast About Gender," host Gabriel (@unitedstatesofgara) tackles the challenging topic of transphobia in online spaces. He shares his experiences with discriminatory comments and offers valuable insights on responding to anti-trans rhetoric. Drawing from a recent interaction on YouTube, Gabriel delivers a powerful and articulate response that not only addresses misconceptions but also empowers listeners facing similar challenges in their own lives.

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