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Flamy Grant is a San Diego-based drag performer, and yes, that name is an homage to the queen of Christian pop herself, Amy Grant. Flamy sings, writes, and hosts a podcast about spiritual deconstruction called Heathen. When she's not blessing TikTok with her signature 60-second sermons, this polygender preacher is taking on toxic religion by turning looks and tearing down shame.

(I grew up extremely conservative, fundamentalist Bible-belt evangelical. Nowadays I champion spirituality that focuses on inner work/intuition/divine self. Probably best described as universalist.)

Drag & Spirituality w/Flamy Grant

You may have seen her recent TikTok with nearly 269K views, if not watch it here https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMeyFdMqh

Also check here out on YouTube at

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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Isaac Simmons (He/Him/His) is a 23 year old Drag Queen named Ms. Penny Cost (She/Her/Hers) based in Bloomington, IL.

Isaac is a United Methodist Certified Candidate for Ordination and serves as the Director of Operations at Hope United Methodist Church.

Through his Drag as Ms. Penny Cost, Isaac seeks to reclaim the power of religious language while simultaneously braking down the perceived mutual exclusivity of Queerness and Faith.

Recently, Ms. Penny Cost's work has been published at Progressive Christianity, Hacking Christianity, and the Reconciling Ministries Network.

Drag & Spirituality w/Ms. Penny Cost

a conversation about Drag & Spirituality with hostess B0NNi33 Vi0L3T, a queer chaplain

Ms Penny Cost

https://www.instagram.com/mspennycost

a queer chaplain

https://taplink.cc/aqueerchaplain

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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each day on my way to work, I will be sharing my experience with whiteness from childhood until now on Facebook LIVE.

todays mask by Megan Spain in Portland

#blacklivesmatter​ #whitefragility​ #transisbeautiful​ #socialrecovery​ #aqueerchaplain​ #bestillandknow​ #allwhoarethirsty​ #silenceequalsdeath​ #sfdrag​ #chaplain​ #queer​ #whiteness​ #silenceisviolence​ #queerspirituality​ #blacktranslivesmatter

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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each day on my way to work, I will be sharing my experience with whiteness from childhood until now on Facebook LIVE..

(interactive session ask ?'s and comment)

todays mask by @olivermakesthings in Chicago


#blacklivesmatter​ #whitefragility​ #transisbeautiful​ #socialrecovery​ #aqueerchaplain​ #bestillandknow​ #allwhoarethirsty​ #silenceequalsdeath​ #sfdrag​ #chaplain​ #queer​ #whiteness​ #silenceisviolence​ #queerspirituality​ #blacktranslivesmatter

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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each day on my way to work, I will be sharing my experience with whiteness from childhood until now.

todays mask by IG @olivermakesthings in Chicago

#blacklivesmatter​ #whitefragility​ #transisbeautiful​ #socialrecovery​ #aqueerchaplain​ #bestillandknow​ #allwhoarethirsty​ #silenceequalsdeath​ #sfdrag​ #chaplain​ #queer

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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each day on my way to work, I will be sharing my experience with whiteness from childhood until now.

todays mask by Megan Spain in Portland

July 2020

#blacklivesmatter​ #whitefragility​ #transisbeautiful​ #socialrecovery​ #aqueerchaplain​ #bestillandknow​ #allwhoarethirsty​ #silenceequalsdeath​ #sfdrag​ #chaplain​ #queer

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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Episode 4 : Fonda Koxx

I am a National LGBTQIA Mental Health Advocate. I currently host Queen & Sober, a Facebook live series that covers all things LGBTQ and mental health. I am also an actor and comedian in Chicago.

Series Description

Drag & Spirituality : Named & Known, a conversation about Drag & Spirituality with hostess B0NNi33 Vi0L3T, a queer chaplain sponsored by Urban Village Church Chicago with Saya Naomi, Mick Douch, Stargirl, Fonda Koxx, Willa Vawisp & Milani. Capped off with a spiritual drag brunch, with co-host Cleo Pockalipps.

All events will air LIVE at Urban Village Church, a queer chaplain and the artists YTube & FBook and be uploaded on IG and wherever you listen to podcasts at a queer chaplain.

 Saya Naomi - 6pm CST on Jan 13th
 Mick Douch - 6pm on CST on Jan 20th
 Stargirl - 6pm CST on Jan 27th
 Fonda Koxx - 6pm CST on Feb 3rd
 Willa Vawisp - 6pm CST on Feb 10th
 Milani - 6pm CST on Feb 17th

The Finale Spiritual Drag Brunch will take place on Feb 27th at 2p, bring your own Brunch and watch LIVE. More details to come.

In each conversation B0NNi33 Vi0L3T will guide a conversation around dr

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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Announcement of new Drag & Spirituality Series and words from a queer chaplain on why and how she does her ministry. Juan Pablo from Urban Village Church interviews, Bonnie Violet on the details of the upcoming series and get a little more background on a queer chaplain, why it began, what is it trying to achieve and how did B0NNi33 Vi0L3T pick her drag name. 

*Interview on Instagram LIVE, unedited audio. Apologies for the echo. 

This series of 6 interviews take place a week apart and is recorded and simulcast LIVE via Stream Yard on a queer chaplain Facebook & YouTube, Urban Village Church Facebook and YouTube, and the socials of the drag artist that week. 

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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xoxo Bonnie Violet 💋

a queer chaplain
https://taplink.cc/aqueerchaplain

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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James is a coach, advocate and activist for the queer community. James’ mission moving forward is to build community that advocates for self-love, inclusion, mental health and spiritual health for all people. James believes in the power of healing when we own and share our stories. He is currently building community through his podcast This Little Light Of Mine where he shares his story of spiritual abuse, religious trauma, sexual abuse & addiction. By sharing his personal story, James hopes to bring to light the hidden psychological, spiritual, emotional and mental abuse that continues to be inflicted on LGBTQ+ children in religious communities. When we know better we have a responsibility to be better and do better.

Podcast - This Little Light Of Mine https://link.chtbl.com/Light

Beloved Arise
https://www.belovedarise.org
Beloved Arise is a movement to fight for the lives of queer youth of faith.
We build relationships, offer support, and inspire youth to embrace life to the fullest.

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Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

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