A Quiet Divorce

This was the episode of all episodes as I confront my feelings and confess them to my closest friend, Jeff. Have you ever had to confess your feelings before? See how the story of Jeff and I begin and how he learned about my feelings for him. 

How do you handle your true feelings about a relationship or friendship. Do you do what others want or what makes you happy? Tune into this episode as I work through my feelings about one of the most important people in my life. 

Welcome to Family Culture and the dynamics of Asian Culture and Stigmas when it come to marriage and divorce. I found myself on the other side of the family when I got divorced and even though I was of Chinese decent. I felt more culture shock within my own circle than outside that circle. Tune in to hear how and why?

What do you think of when you think of confidence? Your appearance, your capabilities or your ability to attract another person after a break-up? I definitely had many confidence issues that I had to work through to get to where I am today. Tune into this episode to learn how I got my self confidence back!

It's a New Day and now a New Year!!! What does a "a new day" mean to you? 

For me, I had to listen to that particular phrase repeated over and over by my EX, each and every time we would get into a fight. He would use this phrase to temporarily fix whatever argument we were having, only it didn't fix anything at all. Learn what this phrase means to me today as I start to rebuild my life back and gain back the confidence that I once lost. 

It has been an amazing 5 months since I started AQD back in August 2021. Every time I recall an event or think about a lesson that I have learned, I am even more grateful for how far I have come since the divorce. It is not an easy road but YOU are worth the effort. Tune into this episode as I recap the greatest lessons of Season 1 and get a glimpse into Season 2, coming out in January 2022. 

Going on date? Meeting someone new after a divorce can be the hardest part of life after a divorce. We get so use to our EX partners that it is very hard to see ourselves with someone else or putting yourself out there. I was very fearful of trusting someone with my heart and my time. I was married for 9 years and it ended suddenly in divorce so how and where would I even begin to date? 

The new normal, The new normal...what does that really even mean? Since my divorce, I kept having so many people tell me that everything will be fine and we will soon adjust to the new normal. Not really sure what they meant by that but I had my own interpretation. Tune into this episode and learn what my new normal turned out to be. 

We all have questions for others and questions for ourselves, and when you cannot get the answers from the other person then we have to figure them out for ourselves. In my marriage, I had alot of unanswered questions and since my EX husband refused to participate, I had to figure out the answers for myself to be able to move on and move forward. Don't let unanswered questions hold you back, be your own answer key.

When a relationship or marriage ends and there is nothing left to fight about or fight for, what do you do when you still have so many unanswered questions?

Tune into this episode to learn my unanswered questions and how I finally got the answers.