A Quiet Divorce

This is the week of all weeks, I’m going to be signing my divorce papers that will officially end my 10 year relationship. Not really sure how to prepare for this but we do what we need to do and find the strength to keep going. Deep breaths….

We are now a few months into the divorce process and so many things can happen and go wrong. Can we agree on a settlement? Tune in to find out. 

What do you think of when you think of the word, closure? I use to think closure with an EX meant that you would talk about the break-up, maybe even have an argument or some form of communication before you stopped communicating altogether.

In this particular case, my closure was in the form of a letter that I wrote and emailed.

Tune into this episode to learn about my letter and what it did for me. 

My "Divorce Process" was a very tedious one as there wasn't alot of property, money nor ties between my Ex-husband and I. Divorce becomes a long process due to lack of cooperation of one or both sides. In my case, it was my Ex-husband. You endure alot of loss when it comes to divorce. You can loose your friends, money, dignity and self-worth but it doesn't have to be this way. 

Become your own cheerleader! 

What do you think of when you hear the word, "FORGIVE"? Do you feel that you can truly forgive and forget?

Who is the most important person that you have to learn to forgive? and Why? Listen to this episode to learn my perspective on forgiveness.

It's moving day soon and I never thought I would be relieved to be moving on but so terrified at the same time. Find out what worries me the most and how I make it through my "First Night" in my new house. 

The time has come to move on to a new address and essentially a new start. I continue to learn more and more about how I got here, how my EX husband plays such a big role in my decision to move forward with the divorce. I also loose more than just my marriage in this episode. 

How would you handle getting the worse news you could possibly imagine? Or having to find a new place to live after almost a decade of marriage. In this episode, I talk about all the main events that led me to the final decision of separation. New address and new chapter.

What a year 2016 was for me, my marriage and my life! Learning about a dear friends illness, having to re-evaluate my marriage and making all these decisions about my life that I wasn't prepared to make. Life throws you all kinds of curveballs and how we handle them directly effects the outcomes. 

This week is all about my "Training Day”.

My baby boy is now home and I’m learning how to deal with all the different things that all mothers go through at some point. I tackle how to handle the judgement from others and from yourself. This episode really deep dives into all the issues that we as new moms face and continue to learn from every day. I also reveal a secret that was kept and was definitely the turning point of the entire relationship.