Sometimes jobs/careers ask for every fiber of your being in exchange for money. I am not interested in sacrificing my peace and sanity for anyone. It's a poor reflection of self love. I think it's good to be invested but I also believe there is a cut off time. What are some work boundaries you have in place?

We are relational beings. We were literally made for each other but I know all of us at some point have been in unhealthy relationships with either friends, co-workers, or significant others. God has set boundaries for us, so we should be able to feel safe and empowered, setting boundaries for others. What does setting boundaries look like for you? How has having them helped or limited you?

I have noticed that when it comes to family, some of the members think they are entitled to every part of you. You know? Because you guys are family. Some of them want free daycare, they want to be in your business by any means necessary, respect is absent for you but better be present when you speak to them. It is almost as if they feel like, since they have seen you as a baby, a baby you remain to them. Well that is until they need something from you. Well, family members are not exempt from respecting your boundaries and you are not exempt from respecting your families boundaries. What are some boundaries you have seen crossed by your family? What are some boundaries you have decided to set?

Annoyed and Unworthy. These are just a couple of words used to describe how Christian’s make some people feel. Personally, I can relate, because not only have I experienced this from other fellow Christians, but more importantly I have used these words to describe how I feel about myself. In “A Tried Woman of God”, I invite you to walk with me or watch me from the side line as I share with you the highlights, the high-lows and the Hell no’s of my walk with God. I am here for the hard conversations, goofy bible interpretations and sharing stories about falling into temptation. 

Sincerely, Destiny.