Today I am talking about how my relationship came to be with God. I had a lot of restarts but I invite you into what my spiritual walk looked like to what it looks like now. All in all I'm a hot mess that's gets better every day.

Praying for Your Enemies can be the most effective thing you can do for them. Now the results of praying for them you may never see or they may not get got the way you think God is going to deal with them but all in all, it will definitely help you each time you do it. It's humbling and rewarding. God throws hands better than we do. I promise.

I know I am not alone but there are times we have rough patches that makes us want to be mad at everyone instead of focusing on God. Don't let the circumstances distract you from His purpose. He has you but I keep it real with Him and express how much I don't like the discomfort.

I am team ENJOY YOUR SINGLENESS. If you can't stand spending time with yourself and getting to know yourself how do you expect others to do so. Find out who you are and whose you are. I absolutely love who I am becoming when I finally realized the purpose and the benefits of being single and I am still loving and learning. Didn't start off like that but it's never too late to see the blessings in your gift of Singleness!!

I dislike seeing poor communication in the work place. It almost seems like they give the title more power than their personality. This tries me. I constantly pray for God to fix my heart and thoughts because I am honestly ready to put someone to the test. What are some examples of poor communication that you see in your work place ? What are some ways you have the hard conversations with others ?

For a long time I felt like I had to have a say and a hand in everything that went on in my life. When things did not go my way, I let that pull me down. I let that keep me down at times. In life we have choices we have to make but for me I felt like I was the reason my life would be good or bad. I am not wrong but I took on too much that did not belong to me. I got to a point where I prayed the prayer and left it there while I walked in faith...a little reluctantly but I walked. I no longer wanted to be the center of my life, so I gave it to God.

Faith for many can mean many things. As it should be. It is both personal and intimate. Faith and fear cannot occupy the same space and a lot of the time for me, the fear comes from relinquishing control. I have the idea at times that I have to control it but my realities have been, I really need to give it up. Which for some reason feels harder than controlling my life. There have been many times where I have just finally gave it to God and relaxed. So tell me, what does Faith look like for you?

Touching on the 3 categories of life that can have boundaries in place. Family, relationships and work. Touching on scriptures to review and going over book suggestions. What are some books or scripturs you have read that have helped you implement your boundaries?

In the past, I have had my Bible study group challenge their thoughts of themselves with God's word. I found this to help me pull from my current situation and measure it next to God. He always stood taller. God is not small and there is nothing he can't handle however, we are limited and with the knowledge I allow God to take first dibs on any situation because I know he hits harder than I do. I challenge you today to fight your situation and your thoughts by meditating on God's love.

There are times I beat myself up for my failures instead of allowing myself grace. At times it keeps me from moving forward but I am working on ways to pull myself out of that funk. What are somethings you do to keep moving forward?