A Voice for Men

Shrink4Men Radio is back this Monday, December 12, 2011 at 9pm EST with your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, and special guest, Ben Vonderheide aka Daddy Justice.

Recently, Mr. Vonderheide and his video camera exposed the violence, bigotry, sexism, arrogance and hypocrisy of NOW attorney, vice president of Legal Momentun (a syndicate of over 2,000 domestic violence organizations), and VAWA chief counsel and DV spokesperson, Lisalyn R. Jacobs. Ms. Jacobs physically attacked Mr. Vonderheide in the hallway of the U.S. Senate outside of the VAWA judiciary hearing. Jacobs has since been charged and arraigned for her violent crime.

Mr. Vonderheide will discuss his brand of in your face activism and dogged commitment to exposing the corruption of U.S. Family Courts, the dishonest, hate-fueled, feminist driven and privately and publicly funded multibillion dollar Domestic Violence Industry, the multibillion dollar spousal support and child support industry, and much more.

Please tune in to hear how one man is fighting to make a difference in the lives of men, women and children. The telephone lines will be open (+1 310 388 9709). Hope you can make it!

Do you find it strange that a 6 year old boy was charged with rape for playing doctor? Or that a 9 year old boy was suspended for school for “sexual harassment” after calling his female teacher “cute”?  How about the 13 year old boy that just recently burped in class, and was arrested for it?

Combine that with the fact that there is currently an unchecked epidemic of fully grown school teachers sexually molesting their students, and you get a reality that could only come to you courtesy of a stout dose of LSD, or perhaps George Orwell.

Tonight on AVfM Radio we examine how what Christina Hoff Sommers called “The War on Boys,” is sinking to depths that Sommers herself could not have imagined when she penned that book.

And of course all this is happening in a culture where our supposed leaders are either whistling and looking the other way, or fully participating in the abuses.

Join co-hosts John the Other and Paul Elam tonight at 8:00 Central Time U.S. for another foray into the increasingly bizarre world of feminist-chivalrist governance. This program, like all the others, will demonstrate why the evil twins of Feminists and White Knights never muster the courage to call in.  The red pill is poison to them, and so is the truth.

Dr. T will be screening calls.

We have a humdinger lined up for you on this Thursday,  December 1, 2011.

What is the problem with Sweden? Is it meatballs? ABBA? Volvos? Bergman films? Bjorn Borg? Well, how about the golf club swinging Elin Nordegren? No? Ericsson phones, maybe?  Nope. Actually, aside from ABBA and Nordegren, not too much bad can be said about the lengthy list of Swedish icons.

That leaves the matter of gender politics, which we are starting to understand are so corrupted by feminism that the country may soon rename, reshape or do completely away with Swedish meatballs as they might be oppressive artifacts of the patriarchy.

Come Thursday, your cohost John the Other and I will be talking about the land of frozen vaginas a little bit. Actually, we will be talking about it a lot, along with a few tidbits from the States and other parts of Europe that highlight why we may not be near as far from Sweden’s model of feminist governance as we would like to think.

Join us for the return of A Voice for Men Radio now that we have taken a much needed break.  We will be back with enough heat to grow palm trees in Stockholm.

Do you experience an impending sense of doom when Walgreen’s sets up their Christmas displays?

Do you wish you could settle down for a "long winter's nap" on Halloween and wake up on February 15th?

Do you brace yourself for your wife’s inevitable tantrums, tears, rage outs, the cold shoulder and other forms of abuse directed at you and your family as the winter holidays approach?

Does your wife or girlfriend sabotage every holiday and then blame you for ruining “her” holiday?

Does your wife or girlfriend demand that you spend the holidays with her family and give you grief if you spend time with your family, that is, if she’ll even let you?

Does your wife, girlfriend or ex make shopping lists and expect you to buy every item for her and the kids on Santa's List™?

Does your wife, girlfriend or ex throw more tantrums at Christmas and New Year’s than an actual 2-year old?

Does it seem like your wife, girlfriend or ex ruins every holiday and special occasion?

If so, tune in to Shrink4Men Radio on Monday, November 27, 2011 at 9pm EST when your host, Dr. Tara J. Palmatier of Shrink4Men, will explore the question, why does my wife, girlfriend or ex ruin every damn holiday?

The phone lines will be open, so if you have a story to share about how your wife, girlfriend, ex, partner's ex, mom, sister or aunt tries to ruin every holiday, please call in (+1 310 388 9709) or Skype.

Do you remember the first time you saw behind your wife's, girlfriend's or ex's mask and saw her true abusive nature?

Do you remember the first time you wondered, "Who is this person?"

Do you remember the first time you realized, "Something is very wrong in this relationship and it's not me?"

If so, please tune into Shrink4Men Radio this evening when Dr. Tara Palmatier will discuss relationship stages, abuse (particularly men who are abused by women) and the WTF moment. The WTF moment is when you see behind your abusive partner's mask for the first time and finally realize there's a problem in your relationship and it's not you.

The telphone lines will be open, so if you have a question or story to share that pertains to this episode's topic, please call in (310 388 9709) or Skype.

Does your wife, girlfriend or ex regularly blow up your phone with needy, hostile, delusional and menacing texts, emails and voicemails?

Does your ex or a woman in whom you have no romantic interest "accidentally" turn up whenever you go out?

Are you being stalked by your ex, your girlfriend, wife or a woman you never dated, but who has developed an obsession for you nevertheless?

Do you know that men are just as likely to be the victims of stalking as women?

If you're a woman, is your partner's ex stalking you?

Do you know that many of your girlfriend’s, wife’s or ex’s nuisance, clingy, possessive, angry, threatening, Internet searches, social network, text/telephone/email and/or destructive behaviors qualify as stalking and harassment? 

Do you know that many women often use Family Court and negative advocate attorneys to stalk and harass their ex-husbands and/or fathers of their children? 

Do you know that stalking and harassment are abuse? 

Do you know that stalking and harassment are a form of domestic violence? 

Do you know that stalking and harassment (and cyberstalking and cyber-harassment) are crimes?

This Monday, November 7, 2011 at 9pm EST  Dr. Tara J. Palmatier of Shrink4Men will discuss women who stalk, the seriousness of this issue and what to do if you're currently being stalked.

If you've been the target of a female stalker and have questions or a story you'd like to share about being stalked, or if you're a member of law enforcement with advice to share, please tune in and Skype or call in +1 310 388 9709.

So why, you may ask, would I be making the show announcement for next Tuesday’s episode of AVfM Radio on Friday afternoon, instead of on show day, as is customary?

Because we are seizing the opportunity to promote and further a much needed discussion about AVfM, the MRM and how all this fits into the arenas of Game and PUA, and also the ways it doesn’t.

For the uninitiated, this is an extension of a debate challenge that was issued by Frost in reaction to a piece I did on Game and PUA. That debate will start running this Monday night with my first response to Frost, who now has a contributor level account at this website. The debate will conclude on Saturday.

We are going to run the show up to a full three hours, depending on the number of phone calls that come in. MRA’s, MGTOW, PUA’s and Game advocates are all welcome to call in and have your unbridled voices heard.  Only one rule: This isn’t Fox News so no shouting matches. I give my word that you will be allowed to have your say and the only constraints put on you will be to accommodate other callers that wish to speak.

Also, it will help both our causes if everyone keeps it reasonably civil.

This should be a very interesting show. With the exception of a couple of borderline personalities, who don’t know any better, feminists and white knights lack the guts to call in and put their ideas on the line publicly.  I don’t think this is true of PUA’s and Gamers, and expect they will support their side of this well.

So mark your calendars for Tuesday, November 1, 2011 at 8:00 PM Central Time for what out to be a few hours of really thought provoking material.

Does your wife, girlfriend, ex or partner's ex have a Dr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde personality?

Does she have a "good mask" that she shows the outside world while subjecting you and/or the kids to her cruel and abusive side?

Does she have little to no empathy or selective empathy?

Does she throw a temper tantrum, rage, pout or allege "Abuse!" when you try to hold her accountable for her bad behaviors?

Does she value you (and others) based on what you can do for her or what she can get from you? In other words, does she see people as objects of utility?

Does she lie, cheat, use violence and other forms of intimidation and manipulate to get her way or to "win?"

Does she have scorn and contempt for the people she victimizes or "pulls one over on?"

Has she ever threatened to destroy you and/or tried to make good on her threats?

Does she only recognize her rights and believe she's entitled to violate the rights of others?

Does she have a gross sense of entitlement?

Does she blame others for her own failures, bad decisions and bad behaviors?

If so, your wife, girlfriend, ex or partner's ex may have sociopathic traits or be a full-blown sociopath.

Historically, men have been diagnosed with Antisocial Personality Disorder far more than women. Female sociopaths exist, it's just that we use different terminology to identify them.

It's time to rethink the qualifiers of female sociopathic behavior, which Dr Tara J. Palmatierof Shrink4Men will be discussing during this Shrink4Men Radio episode.

The telephone lines will be open, so if you have questions, stories or thoughts on this topic, please call in (310 388 9709) or Skype in. And Happy Halloween!

Join hosts Paul Elam and JtO for this show examining the modern political White Knight. Historically this has come in the form of men like Vice President Joseph Biden, who authored VAWA, the Violence Against Women Act, a massive piece of legislation that has resulted in egregious amounts of government waste, deception of the public and a significant negative impact on civil rights and due process.

But there are surprises coming down the tubes from other governement officials right now. The proposed plans you will learn about on tonights show will shock you more than you can possibly imagine.  And you know we don't say these things lightly.

You will definitely want to tune in to this one. But be sure to take your blood pressure medicine and be prepared to breath deep and count to 10 a few times over.  

If you think that misandry in American politics is already bad, you have not heard anything yet.

On a slightly more cheerful note, Paul talks about his trip to the barber shop and take some shots at DV shelters, aka government sponsored bordellos. JtO delivers his usual slash and burn rant.  

The call in number is 320-388-0709 and registered users can skype into the show.

Do you fancy yourself a knight in shining armor? Are you a sucker for damsels in distress? Do you like coming to your partner's "rescue?" Do women with a sob story make you feel protective? Do you have a pattern of getting involved with waifs and distressed damsels du jour and set out to prove that "you're not like all the other guys?"

Do you believe that your crisis-ridden partner "can't live without you?" Do you need to feel like a "hero?" Are you a woman who has a pattern of getting involved with men who have crazy, unstable and abusive exes? Do you try to show these men "you're not like all the other women who hurt him?" Are you a rescuer of rescuers?

If so, tune into Shrink4Men Radio on Monday, October 24, 2011 at 9pm EST when Dr Tara Palmatier of Shrink4Men will be discussing the unhealthy relationship patterns in which many white knights, heroes, knights in shining armor, rescuers, fixers, professional caretakers and rescuers of rescuers find themselves stuck. We'll also touch upon the concepts of hostile dependency, codependency, and parentified children.

If you have questions or a story to share, please tune in and call or Skype in +1 310 388 9709.