What did the Stoics, the Buddhists, and the ancient Mexicans all know about death that we've forgotten?
Drake and Holly explore humanity's oldest spiritual practice: the conscious contemplation of mortality. Far from being morbid, memento mori was understood across cultures as a technology for becoming more alive. This episode traces death awareness practices from Marcus Aurelius writing by candlelight to Buddhist monks meditating in charnel grounds, from the vibrant celebrations of Día de los Muertos to the vanitas paintings of medieval Europe. Along the way, they examine why modern psychology is confirming what ancient wisdom knew all along: that our relationship with death fundamentally shapes our relationship with life.
Marcus Aurelius and Stoic death practiceSeneca's teachings on the preciousness of timeBuddhist charnel ground meditation and the nine cemetery contemplationsTibetan Book of the Dead and preparation for dyingDía de los Muertos and Aztec attitudes toward deathThe ars moriendi tradition and medieval memento mori artTerror Management Theory and Ernest Becker's insightsModern death denial and its psychological costsPhysical practices that invoke mortality awarenessHow to begin working with death awareness safelyFeatured Concepts: Memento Mori: Latin phrase meaning "remember that you will die," used as a spiritual practice for cultivating presence and proper priorities Maranasati: Buddhist mindfulness of death practice, including formal contemplation of corpses at various stages of decay Premeditatio Malorum: Stoic technique of visualising potential misfortunes, including death, to reduce their power and increase gratitude Ars Moriendi: Medieval "art of dying" manuals that prepared people for death as a spiritual passage Terror Management Theory: Psychological framework explaining how awareness of mortality shapes human behaviour and culture
Essential Quote: "Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now take what's left and live it properly."
Practical Takeaway: Try a simple evening reflection this week. Before sleep, review your day and ask: if this had been my last day, would I be satisfied with how I spent it? Not to create anxiety, but to let mortality clarify what actually matters. The question does the work.
Marcus Aurelius, MeditationsSeneca, Letters from a StoicErnest Becker, The Denial of DeathThe Tibetan Book of the Dead (Bardo Thodol)Philippe Ariès, Western Attitudes Toward DeathSheldon Solomon et al., The Worm at the CoreRelated Listening: For a complete deep dive into Marcus Aurelius, check out our sister podcast The Primary Texts, currently exploring the Meditations book by book.
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