Abide and Abound: Battle Burnout & False Beliefs with Biblical Truth, Christian Mindset & Self-Care

Do you ever fall into the traps of pride or despair? Do you ever feel the pain of not belonging? Today we study the third and fourth "I Am" statements of Jesus and see Him as both the Lamb of God and the Good Shepherd.

Key verses: John 9+10, Isaiah 40:11

Key takeaways:

1. Because Jesus is the Lamb you can trust Him as your Shepherd.

2. Both pride & pressure are unhealthy responses to feeling like you don't belong

3. You are seen, known, loved, & wanted by the God of the universe (& nothing you do or don't do will change that Truth!)

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

Do you ever feel shame, like you aren't enough? Today we study the second "I Am" statement of Jesus and examine what that means about Jesus' character. We see Jesus as the Light in the Darkness of our sin, shame, and brokenness.

Key verse: John 8:1-12, Nehemiah 9:11-15, John 7, John 9:5

Key takeaways:

1. Give yourself permission to be both broken AND loved

2. Shift I'm too broken TO I'm loved even in the midst of my brokenness

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

Do you ever feel like you don't have enough? Do you feel the fear and worry associated with lack and scarcity? In today's episode, we take an honest look at the areas where we don't have enough & we see the power of Jesus to meet us with abundance! We'll practice shifting our mindset from one of fear to one of trust.

Key verse: John 6, Matthew 6:33, Ephesians 3:20

Key takeaways: 1. See the areas of lack/scarcity/fear 2. Abide with Christ in the midst of those feelings 3. Shift our mindset to remember that "Jesus provides more than enough" & ultimately "Jesus IS more than enough" 4. Rinse and repeat as needed

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

When you're met with grief, frustration, or a change of plans, how do you react? Do you tend to lash out, isolate, & get stuck in unhealthy cycles OR do you bounce back with God's grace, care, & power? In today's episode, we look at the difference between a bowling ball reaction and a basketball response with the understanding that both grief & growth take time.

Key verse: John 16:33 & 17:14-19 ESV

Key takeaways: 1. Expect setbacks 2. See your patterns & reactions 3. Shift with truth

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

Today we ask: Who are you running to?

When challenges or fears inevitably arise do you run off on your own, run to others or run to God?

We walk through Psalm 55 and how David illustrates going to God even with our biggest fears and feelings.

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

In this way, we look to ourselves to create what only God's Word can do. Let's dive into the power of the Bible to provide us with comfort, provision, satisfaction, and transformation.

• (8:39) - Comfort beyond your circumstances, Psalm 119:50

• (11:54) - Provision for your needs & Satisfaction for your longings, Matthew 4:3-4, John 6:35

• (17:18) - Transformation of the internal not just the external, Isaiah 55

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.]

Do you ever fall into the trap of people pleasing or comparison? Do you ever look to your routines and circumstances as your source of hope? Oof today's episode hits hard... talk about conviction!

This is part 2 of the Living Among the Dead Series, examining the ways we look for the things only God can give us in unreliable places. Today we zero in on the topics of Life, Living Hope, & Freedom and our tendency to have an earthly perspective rather than a heavenly one.

We look at:

LIFE

Ephesians 2:4-10 and the immeasurable riches of God's grace (even in our cycle of falling short!)

How people pleasing and comparison are traps of earning and obligation

God's Hesed love is the perfect source of safety, belonging, and approval

HOPE

1 Peter 1:3-5 and the living hope we have in Jesus & His promises

If we hope in our circumstances or our own expectations we are hopeless

FREEDOM

John 8:12, 31-36 and the freedom we find in Jesus' light & Word

Our tendency to look to our own willpower (routines, schedules, plans, tools, diets, etc) to find freedom

If we look for freedom anywhere but Jesus we will always stay stuck!

& How to SEE, SHIFT, & SHINE to trade our earthly, stuck perspective for a hopeful heavenly one!

CONNECT: hesedheart.com, [email protected], https://www.youtube.com/@hesedheart, @hesed.heart on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook

GO DEEPER: Grow&Glow is a 1:1 coaching container that helps Christian women cultivate a soul-care system to trade their heavy burdens for enlightened peace & joyfully pursue their kingdom calling. If that sounds like something God would use in your life you can find more info at hesedheart.com/grow

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

Do you feel stuck & stagnant? When Christians feel a lack of growth or shame and fear, we are often relying on the unreliable instead of on God in our day-to-day needs.

Whether we are looking for love, freedom, hope, joy, provision, or satisfaction... Jesus is the only living and lasting source! In this series, we'll see the sneaky false beliefs that we can find any of this lasting goodness anywhere but Christ.

Over and over again in the Gospels, Jesus identifies our earthly perspective and transforms it into a heavenly one. In the same way, we will see how we are looking in all the wrong places, sometimes twisting good things and blessings into our top priority and the things we rely on.

We'll take a look at Luke 24:1-9, Jeremiah 2:12-13, John 4:13, & Isaiah 45:18-21 ESV and the idols that show up in our own lives as we turn away from the Living Water of Christ to our own cisterns that are full of nothing-ness or nastiness.

Life and our spiritual destination is assured for us through faith in Jesus, but day-to-day we can turn our blessings into our safe place... but good things without God are always unreliable. Relying on these unreliable things always results in shame, fear, hurt, and staying stuck as the enemy tries to discourage us, distract us, and cause us to doubt our truly faithful and loving God.

CONNECT: hesedheart.com, @hesed.heart on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, & Facebook

GO DEEPER: Grow&Glow is a 1:1 coaching container that helps Christian women cultivate a soul-care system to trade their heavy burdens for enlightened peace & joyfully pursue their kingdom calling. If that sounds like something God would use in your life you can find more info at hesedheart.com/grow

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

How do we cope after trauma? When the enemy uses shame to keep us silent, God's Truth gives us freedom. Today my friend Anné Bates opens up to share her story, focusing on God's redemptive power after sexual assault and the message He impressed on her heart: It's Not About You!

This is truly an incredible story of God's redemptive work, of wrestling with the evil in this world, & embracing boldness as we, new creations in Christ, live for God's glory!

This conversation touches on why God allows evil, the concept of free will, how we can share when we don't feel prepared, replacing lies with Truth in Christ, and how God is our light even in the midst of deep darkness. This is a powerful example of how we can identify and dismantle the lies and false beliefs of the enemy and instead abide with Christ & His Word.

We also discuss Ephesians 6:12-13 & Romans 12:1-3 ESV and how we can be living sacrifices, willing to be uncomfortable for God & the Kingdom because ultimately it's not about us or our comfort. Christians are called to be bold and willing to be uncomfortable in a culture that idolizes comfort. When we obey (in God's strength never our own) we are able to see His purposes & fight the spiritual battles waging against us.

CONNECT: hesedheart.com, @hesed.heart on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, & Facebook

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GO DEEPER: Grow&Glow is a 1:1 coaching container that helps Christian women cultivate a soul-care system to trade their heavy burdens for enlightened peace & joyfully pursue their kingdom calling. If that sounds like something God would use in your life you can find more info at hesedheart.com/grow

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Scripture quotations are from The ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.