In this episode, Abigail is joined by two special guests — her sisters, Gwen and Emily Hornig. Together, they look back at the world they grew up in as sisters: the stories they were handed, the roles they stepped into, and the identities they built around birth order, life experience, and belonging. From the “rebellious middle child” to the responsible oldest and the free-spirited youngest, they talk honestly about how these labels shaped them into the people they are today.
Through the lens of triads — the Three Sisters planting method, the Triple Goddess archetype, and the psychology of Birth Order Theory — they explore why three-part systems feel so familiar and powerful. And they examine what happens when they begin to outgrow the roles that defined them for so long.
This is a conversation about sisterhood, selfhood, and the ongoing journey of seeing each other clearly.
Join us next week for Part Two of this conversation, where Abigail, Gwen, and Emily return to talk about holiday traditions — why they matter, how they hold families together, and the surprising ways birth order and old roles show up in the festivities.
For more on the ideas discussed in this episode, here are the links mentioned:
Three Sisters planting: https://www.nal.usda.gov/collections/stories/three-sisters
Triple Goddesses: https://sacredsource.com/blogs/the-triple-goddess-as-feminine-power/the-triple-goddess-a-symbol-of-feminine-power-and-cycles?srsltid=AfmBOooy4OFMK-xKMJ5i6lxmEO312jqHZy1vjaY5Fm7pJfq-tng3Iv8u
Birth Order theory: https://www.attachmentproject.com/psychology/birth-order-theory/#:~:text=Birth%20order%20theory%20suggests%20that,may%20not%20be%20for%20long.
Host: Abigail Sullivan
Producer + Editor: Gwen Hornig
Music Composer: Ryan Oldfield