Absolute Trust Talk

Absolute Trust Talk

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  • 184: From One Direction to No Direction: What Liam Payne's Estate Teaches Us About Planning

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe examines the estate complications following One Direction member Liam Payne's tragic death in Argentina in fall 2024. At just 30 years old, Payne left behind a $32 million estate—but no will. His complex assets include performance income, solo artist earnings, brand deals, music publishing rights, and venture investments. Without estate planning, his 8-year-old son Bear becomes the sole intestate heir, inheriting the full amount at age 18. Kirsten analyzes the cascading problems: massive probate fees (at least $376,000 in California), no designated asset management for the minor child, potential displacement of Payne's live-in girlfriend, substantial estate taxes on $18 million (a 40% rate), and no provisions for parents or siblings. This case illustrates how even young, successful individuals require comprehensive estate planning to safeguard their loved ones and preserve their wealth. The key lesson: don't die intestate—unexpected death can happen at any age, making proper planning essential for anyone with assets and people they care about.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    0:57 Listen as we discuss the untimely passing of Liam Payne and his $32 million estate with complex assets and no will

    2:16 While Liam is a citizen of the UK, we're going to analyze his case as if it were under California law, and why probate is problematic for large estates

    3:19 The massive cost of probate: $376,000+ in statutory fees alone for complex assets such as those like Liam's

    4:33 Estate Planning Lesson #1: No chosen asset management for minor child - court appoints ex-girlfriend and music lawyer

    5:52 Estate Planning Lesson #2: 18-year-old inheritance age - few parents think this is appropriate for $32 million

    6:35 Estate Planning Lesson #3: No provisions for other family members - parents, siblings get nothing

    7:24 Estate Planning Lesson #4: Live-in girlfriend faces potential eviction with no inheritance rights

    8:16 Estate Planning Lesson #5: Massive estate tax liability - 40% on $18 million could have been minimized

    9:16 Key takeaway: Estate planning is essential at any age when you have assets and loved ones

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    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

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    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

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    11 min
  • 183: Beyond Borders: International Estate Planning Essentials for Families (Part 3)

    In this final installment of Absolute Trust Talk's international estate planning series, host Kirsten Howe concludes her conversation with estate planning specialist Janet Brewer, addressing one of the most common cross-border scenarios: U.S. citizens who own property abroad. Janet, with over 30 years of experience serving Silicon Valley's international clientele, explains why simply leaving foreign property to your US trust won't work, since most countries don't recognize trusts at all.

    This episode highlights the crucial distinction between countries that recognize trusts (primarily former British colonies) and those that don't, and examines practical solutions, including the Hague Convention on International Wills and strategic "situs wills," which can prevent costly intestate succession. Janet shares how to navigate the complex process of probating wills in multiple countries and introduces listeners to STEP (Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners), an invaluable resource for finding qualified international estate planning professionals worldwide. Whether you've inherited a cottage in England, own investment property in India, or have family assets in China, this episode provides essential guidance for protecting your foreign holdings and ensuring your wishes are honored across borders.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    2:27 Janet explains the fundamental problem: Most countries don't recognize trusts, making standard US estate planning ineffective for foreign property

    3:04 Discover which countries DO recognize trusts: primarily former British colonies like England, while Germany, China, and France do not

    3:08 Learn about the Hague Convention on International Wills - a treaty that allows properly formatted wills to be honored across participating countries

    5:57 The reality check: Most clients have their primary assets in the US but own that "little pocket of assets" overseas

    6:07 Janet walks through the practical challenge of having one original will needed in two different countries

    7:03 Strategic will drafting: How to structure wills to handle both US trusts and foreign property distributions effectively

    10:07 Why you MUST work with an attorney in the foreign jurisdiction - forced heirship laws and other local requirements can override your US planning

    11:10 Meet STEP: The Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners - your go-to resource for finding qualified international estate planning professionals

    12:53 How STEP membership requirements vary by country, with stricter vetting in the UK compared to more relaxed US standards

    13:56 Closing thoughts and appreciation for the three-part international estate planning series

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

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    15 min
  • 182: Beyond Borders: International Estate Planning Essentials for Families (Part 2)

    In this second installment of Absolute Trust Talk's international estate planning series, host Kirsten Howe welcomes back estate planning specialist Janet Brewer to explore advanced strategies for families with cross-border connections. Building on their previous discussion of guardianship challenges, this episode focuses on critical tax considerations and financial hurdles faced by international families. Janet, a certified specialist with over 30 years of experience serving Silicon Valley clients, explains the unique tax opportunities available to visa holders with stock options and RSUs, which could result in savings of hundreds of thousands of dollars in estate taxes. The conversation reveals why appointing trustees who live abroad can trigger costly "foreign trust rules" and explores practical obstacles, such as banking restrictions, that complicate international wealth transfers. Janet and Kirsten also discuss the unexpected documentation requirements that can delay inheritance distributions to beneficiaries across borders, including the little-known "transfer tax certificate" that can hold up distributions for 6-9 months even when no tax is owed. Whether you're working in the US on a visa, have family members overseas, or are a US citizen living abroad, these expert insights could protect your hard-earned wealth from unnecessary complications and taxation.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    1:22 Janet introduces a common scenario: Visa holders with stock options and RSUs who need specialized planning.

    2:54 Did you know? US citizens enjoy a nearly $14 million exemption, while non-US domiciliaries face estate tax after just $60,000.

    4:56 Discover the key "planning opportunity" for visa holders: Gifts of US stock aren't subject to gift tax, but the same stock in their estate would face up to 40% tax at death.

    8:53 Janet explains the critical distinction between "residence" and "domicile" for tax purposes, and how visa holders can legally leverage this difference.

    11:31 Find out why appointing a foreign trustee can trigger costly "foreign trust rules" that reduce funds available for beneficiaries.

    13:42 Learn about the growing practical challenge of US banks refusing accounts for trustees who don't have US addresses.

    16:17 Next, Kirsten and Janet discuss why hiring a US-based professional fiduciary might be the most cost-effective solution despite the emotional preference for family trustees.

    18:49 Obtaining an ITIN (International Taxpayer ID Number) can delay distributions by months, another documentation hurdle that foreign beneficiaries face.

    22:09 Janet shares a recent discovery about US citizens living abroad: their US assets require a "transfer tax certificate" that can take 6-9 months from the IRS, even when no tax is owed.

    25:44 Here's a workaround for the transfer tax certificate delay: Opening a probate proceeding can allow distributions to proceed more quickly.

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

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    25 min
  • 181: Beyond Borders: International Estate Planning Essentials for Families

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe welcomes estate planning specialist Janet Brewer to explore the unique challenges faced by immigrants and international families when planning for their future. Janet, with over 30 years of experience serving clients throughout Silicon Valley, brings her vast knowledge to address the specific concerns of non-resident aliens, visa holders, green card holders, and other international families with U.S.-based assets. As a member of the invitation-only Society of Trust and Estate Practitioners (STEP), Janet regularly prepares estate plans for foreign nationals who own property or live in the US and for US citizens who own property abroad. During this discussion, they examine the critical considerations for guardianship of minor children across international boundaries, practical solutions for emergency situations, and financial strategies to protect loved ones regardless of where they call home. The conversation highlights how international estate planning requires careful attention to both legal requirements and practical implementation across different jurisdictions.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    3:41 Learn about the biggest concern for international clients: ensuring their children can return to family in their home country if something happens to the parents.

    4:43 While California allows foreign guardians, it does vary by state.

    6:40 Understand the critical distinction between technical jurisdiction and actual enforcement power when children leave California for another country.

    7:54 Janet highlights that challenges with out-of-state guardianship exist even within the United States, creating similar concerns to those found in international guardianships.

    9:41 Find out about temporary guardianship arrangements needed to bridge the gap when appointed guardians live far away.

    11:51 Hear Janet's insightful perspective that international guardianship is "a question of degree, not difference" compared to distant domestic guardianships.

    12:17 Start listening now to learn about potential complications when children are taken across borders without judicial approval.

    14:31 Janet shares a clever software analogy to explain why trust documents need specific instructions for authorizing payments to guardians for travel expenses.

    16:36 Discover why life insurance is a crucial financial solution for international families, providing quick liquidity without market timing concerns.

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

    Visit https://absolutetrustcounsel.com/scheduling/ or call 925-943-2740 to schedule your free discovery call today.

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    19 min
  • 180: Divorce in Progress: Safeguarding Your Estate Plan Before It's Final (Part 2)

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert continue their discussion on estate planning during divorce proceedings with practical solutions. Following their previous episode on the potential problems that can arise if someone becomes incapacitated or dies during divorce, they now focus on preventative measures. The attorneys explain how to ensure your soon-to-be ex-spouse doesn't maintain control over your healthcare decisions or inherit your assets contrary to your wishes. They discuss the creation of new healthcare directives, powers of attorney, wills, and trusts—all while navigating the automatic temporary restraining orders (ATROs) that restrict asset transfers during divorce. This episode, part two of their divorce series, provides clear guidance on proper timing of estate planning updates during divorce to protect yourself legally before the process is finalized.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    2:03 How to avoid having your spouse be responsible for you if incapacitated

    2:26 Next, Kirsten and Jessica discuss options for those who have never created estate planning documents

    2:48 What should you do if you already have documents naming your spouse?

    3:16 Now, let's talk about how to prevent your spouse from inheriting if you die before the divorce is final

    5:23 What are the next steps for clients who already have a joint trust with their spouse?

    6:07 Let's clarify the importance of following trust-specific revocation methods and requirements during divorce

    7:44 Finally, listen as Kirsten and Jessica talk about why accepting potential probate may be necessary and worth it

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

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    2. Answer questions about our services
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    10 min
  • 179: Divorce in Progress: Safeguarding Your Estate Plan Before It's Final

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe and associate attorney Jessica Colbert discuss critical estate planning considerations during divorce proceedings. They explore what happens if someone becomes incapacitated or dies while their divorce is still pending, revealing potentially unwelcome consequences if proper planning isn't in place. The discussion highlights how existing estate plans typically name a spouse as the primary decision-maker and beneficiary—a designation most divorcing individuals would want to change immediately. Without written estate plans, the situation becomes even more complicated, potentially requiring expensive and contentious conservatorship proceedings for incapacity or following intestacy laws upon death that would likely favor the soon-to-be ex-spouse. This episode, part one of a two-part series, emphasizes that you remain legally married until a judge finalizes your divorce, meaning all existing estate planning designations remain in effect unless proactively changed.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    2:10 What happens if you become incapacitated during divorce with a written estate plan

    2:52 The consequences of becoming incapacitated without a written estate plan during divorce

    3:28 Brief explanation of the conservatorship process and why it should be avoided

    5:03 What happens if you die before your divorce is finalized

    5:12 Death without a written estate plan during divorce: intestacy and its complications

    6:29 How existing written estate plans remain in effect until the divorce is finalized

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    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

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    9 min
  • 178: 3 Critical Estate Planning Lessons from Richard Simmons' Legacy Battles

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe examines the estate complications following Richard Simmons' death in July 2023. She details the ongoing legal dispute between Simmons' brother Leonard (named trustee) and Teresa, his housekeeper of 30 years who briefly served as co-trustee before a contested resignation. The conflict centers around approximately $1 million in personal property—primarily jewelry—that Teresa allegedly took when evicted from Simmons' home. While Teresa claims Simmons gifted her the jewelry in 2014, Leonard argues documentation proves otherwise. Kirsten extracts three valuable lessons: first, avoid naming co-trustees, especially in complex estates where a professional trustee would be more effective; second, document valuable lifetime gifts to prevent future disputes; and third, include specific provisions for non-owner residents in your estate plan to prevent eviction complications. This case study highlights how proper estate planning can prevent family conflicts, protect valuable assets, and ensure thoughtful treatment of longtime household members after death.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    1:30 Meet the central figures in this estate drama: Teresa, the housekeeper, vs. Leonard, the brother.

    2:05 From co-trustee to eviction, let's talk more about the shocking timeline after Simmons' death.

    3:15 The million-dollar mystery: where did Richard Simmons' valuable jewelry disappear to?

    4:20 Next, we'll discuss the number one estate planning lesson this case reveals: why co-trustees can transform estates into battlegrounds.

    5:45 Estate Planning Lesson #2: Gifting jewelry? Why documentation might be your best accessory

    6:30 And last but not least, estate planning lesson number three, the critical provision that could have prevented a housekeeper's

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    2. Answer questions about our services
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    9 min
  • 177: Inside the Heated Padres Inheritance Feud: What It Teaches Us About Sound Estate Planning

    In this all-new episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe and her associates, Jessica Colbert and Ariana Flynn, delve into the complex estate battle surrounding the late San Diego Padres owner, Peter Seidler. The MLB team finds itself at the center of a legal dispute as Seidler's wife, Sheel, contends with his brothers over control of the franchise. With allegations of breached trust, fraud, and self-dealing, the case highlights the intricacies of estate planning for high-net-worth individuals and the potential pitfalls of ambiguous or informal documentation. While largely speculation, the conversation also explores the crucial role of trustee selection and the challenges of navigating ownership agreements in the context of professional sports. Tune in for expert insights on safeguarding your legacy, minimizing the risk of litigation, and ensuring your estate plan is as airtight as your favorite team's defense.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    1:08 To kick things off, let's dive into the complex estate battle of the late San Diego Padres owner, Peter Seidler. Listen in for a discussion of how Seidler's wife, Sheel, takes on his brothers in a heated legal fight to control the MLB team.

    1:20 Breached trust, fraud, and self-dealing - the hosts break down the allegations and their implications for estate planning.

    3:00 Next, let's examine the role of the Padres' "control person" and how it complicates the case and its potential outcome.

    4:06 The function of a trustee is vital in estate planning. Here are some tips on how to avoid family feuds and ensure impartiality in estate administration.

    7:05 Learn how Major League Baseball's unique ownership regulations can complicate estate planning for team owners.

    7:59 Handwritten wills and informal estate documents: Why they often lead to legal disputes and how to avoid them.

    9:12 Tune in now for what you need to know about recognizing the importance of following proper legal procedures to ensure estate plans are legally sound and enforceable.

    10:36 Gain insights into how emotional reactions and unexpected human behavior can significantly impact estate disputes and learn strategies to mitigate these risks.

    11:03 Key takeaways from the Padres' estate battle for creating effective and resilient estate plans.

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    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

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    11 min
  • 176: Behind the Headlines: Gene Hackman's Estate Plan and What We Can Learn

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, Kirsten Howe, managing attorney at Absolute Trust Counsel, and associate attorney Jessica Colbert examine the estate of beloved actor Gene Hackman. They meticulously analyze the available court records from Santa Fe County, New Mexico, and contrast them with California's probate procedures. The attorneys skillfully debunk sensationalized headlines about Hackman's will, explaining the mechanics of pour-over wills and why media claims about his children being "cut out" are potentially misleading. While much of the discussion is speculation, they provide valuable insights into how proper estate planning anticipates contingencies like beneficiaries predeceasing the trustor. This episode demonstrates why understanding the difference between public court filings and private trust documents is crucial for anyone planning their estate.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    2:39 Unraveling the court filings: What exactly was submitted in Santa Fe County after Gene Hackman's death?

    3:46 Who is Julia Peters, and how did she become the personal representative of Hackman's estate?

    5:00 California vs. New Mexico: Next, let's dive into how "informal probate" creates a dramatically different process.

    7:03 Separating fact from fiction: What headlines get wrong about Hackman's estate planning.

    8:05 "His children are cut out." Here, Kirsten and Jessica debunk the sensational claims about Hackman's will.

    10:00 The unexpected twist: What happens when a primary beneficiary predeceases the trustor?

    11:44 The mysterious "GEBE" trust is revealed. Listen in as Kirsten and Jessica explore Hackman's power of appointment.

    13:32 Why Hackman's true wishes may remain private forever - Unless litigation changes everything.

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

    If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to help you with your own estate planning needs in California. Schedule a complimentary discovery call with our team at Absolute Trust Counsel. During this no-obligation conversation, we'll:

    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
    3. Determine if we're the right fit to work together

    Visit https://absolutetrustcounsel.com/scheduling/ or call 925-943-2740 to schedule your free discovery call today.

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    Episode Credits: The Absolute Trust Talk podcast is brought to you with the help of Q2Mark, led by Chief Marketing Officer Susie Hays. Since 2016, Q2Mark has partnered with Absolute Trust Counsel on all marketing communications—from brand development and website design to this podcast series with over 192 episodes, social media management, video production, and more. If you're business owner looking for comprehensive marketing support, visit Q2Mark.com.

    14 min
  • 175: The Valuation Puzzle: What Your Assets Are Really Worth: Part 2

    In this episode of Absolute Trust Talk, host Kirsten Howe continues her valuation discussion with expert Alex Spaete from Bridge Forensic CPAs, exploring the intricacies of asset valuation. The discussion focuses on how privately held assets are valued, particularly examining discount factors applied to LLC interests based on control limitations and marketability constraints. Alex explains how family dynamics influence valuations, especially when implicit control exists despite limited ownership percentages. The conversation covers valuation approaches for unusual assets like promissory notes and accounts receivable, with Alex sharing real-world examples, including commercial rag manufacturing and Weather Derivatives. This show highlights why professional valuation expertise is essential when dealing with complex assets during estate planning, business transitions, or divorce settlements.

    Time-stamped Show Notes:

    0:00 Introduction

    2:48 Diving back into the discussion, Alex breaks down the two main components of discounts: control factors and liquidity considerations that affect final valuations.

    4:10 Here, we explore how operating agreements significantly impact valuation and what control considerations you should be aware of.

    4:49 Gain insights on the fascinating impact of family dynamics on valuations, mainly how they come into play in divorce scenarios.

    8:17 Find out whether the IRS requires taking discounts when available and the tax implications of valuation choices.

    11:06 Alex explains the complexities of valuing promissory notes and how changing interest rates can dramatically affect their worth.

    12:27 Before signing off, you must hear more about Alex's most interesting case studies, including an unusual rag-making business and complex weather derivatives.

    Take the Next Step in Your Estate Planning Journey

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    1. Learn about your unique situation and goals
    2. Answer questions about our services
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    Episode Credits: The Absolute Trust Talk podcast is brought to you with the help of Q2Mark, led by Chief Marketing Officer Susie Hays. Since 2016, Q2Mark has partnered with Absolute Trust Counsel on all marketing communications—from brand development and website design to this podcast series with over 192 episodes, social media management, video production, and more. If you're business owner looking for comprehensive marketing support, visit Q2Mark.com.

    17 min

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