Extroverts and Introverts
Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes PhD, LPC-MHSP, LMHC,
Executive Director, AllCEUs
Continuing Education (CE) credits can be earned for this presentation at https://www.allceus.com/member/cart/index/product/id/615/c/
~ Define temperament
~ Examine how knowing your temperament and the temperament of those around you can
~ Improve communication
~ Enhance relationships
~ Reduce stress
~ Explore in-depth the Extrovert/Introvert dimension
~ Identify potential conflicts
~ Examine potential ways to help people on opposite ends of the spectrum collaborate.
Temperament
~ A relatively stable set of traits referring to
~ Preferred environments
~ Learning and problem solving styles and methods
~ Ways of conceptualizing and approaching the world
~ Philosophical approach to the world
~ Time management
~ Temperament occurs along a complementary continuum
~ Neither end of the continuum is better or worse
~ Most people are somewhere in between each point
Temperament
~ As stress increases, people gravitate toward their preferred temperament dimensions
~ Additional stress and vulnerabilities can be through
~ Awareness of personal preferences (Prevent your stress)
~ Awareness of the preferences of those around you
~ Knowledge of how to create an environment supportive of individual preferences
Temperament—Life Approach
Extrovert
~ Are expansive and less passionate (well rounded)
~ Tend to focus on multiple things superficially
~ Might be thought of as lacking focus
~ May have 6 half-finished projects
~ Find it easy to transition between multiple activities
Introvert
~ Are intense and passionate (well versed)
~ Will focus on one thing through mastery
~ Might be thought of as being too self-involved
~ Usually get immersed in a project or topic sometimes to the exclusion of other activities (Family time, chores, etc…)
~ Encourage each person to understand the other’s approach and avoid devaluing it
~ Encourage Introverts to set alarms or otherwise schedule in other activities (family/recovery) to avoid getting consumed
~ Sometimes Extroverts are hard to pin down—provide deadlines for specific tasks
~ Encourage partners to discuss their interests, goals (survey, mastery)
~ If it pertains to something like cleaning, recovery etc, clearly define what the goal is…observable, measurable, steps
Temperament—Social Support
Extrovert
~ Generally easy to get to know
~ Like meeting new people, have many friends
~ Know what is going on around them rather than inside them (chameleon-esque)
~ Tend to be very open and chatty
~ Since they think on their feet they often find reciprocal self-disclosure to be quite easy
Introvert
~ More difficult to get to know
~ Exert effort to meet new people, have a few close friends
~ Are more likely to know what is going on inside them than what is going on around them
~ Like to think before they speak which makes them seem more reserved
~ Often find connections with others during post-event processing
~ Encourage awareness of each other’s feelings in situations (excited vs. overwhelmed; bored vs. intensely fascinated)
~ Have each partner share what they need/want/envision as effective social support
~ Explore reasons for feelings of jealousy/inadequacy and normalize behavior
~ Extroverts may want feedback/support from multiple people