Much of the time the argument we hear is the second half. 

When we need a new language to understand which side of a line we stand on the lines not drawn all that well. Introversion as Trates is no were like as fixed as it are made out to be and they are not the most helpful boxes to put ourselves in. 

is episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2019/12/07/why-your-not-fixed-in-to-introversion-or-extroversion/

A generation and more of self-help teach us we need rags to riches story before we come out as the Victor. Many of us follow an easier path and the story isn't told because it risks being boring not much to tell if we just did the things we were taught and it all turned out okay. 

Can we forgive ourselves for the lack of struggle and seek out just enough challenge continue to grow?

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2019/12/03/the-school-of-mild-knocks/

Intentionality in our questions, what response are we hoping for? 

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2019/08/01/bad-questions/

Does who we think of ourselves as affect what we are capable of. 

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2020/01/23/how-identity-affects-caperbility/

Before we jump in and say not all Men before we leap to our counter-argument let's sit with the discomfort of asking if I am part of the problem what do I do next?

A little riff I am often drawn into on personality testing. the MBTI, DiSC profile and Strengths. 

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2019/12/18/which-is-the-best-personality-test-for-work/

Maybe we don't have to deny our desires and needs all the time. 

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://bnjh.wordpress.com/2020/12/09/the-one-about-the-wolves/