Sometimes it seems like life is going to be difficult for ADHDers, no matter Wharton we, as parents do. But ADHDers are not brain damaged or stupid or crazy. They are however,different and have different brains from their eurotypical friends. It’s importrent to recognize that ADHDers have a lot of talents and abilities and they tend to be more successful if they are in situations in which they can use these talents and abilities.