In this episode, hosts Libbie and Jessika delve into a candid discussion about the complexities of life and current affairs. They begin with a light-hearted banter and quick intros before transitioning into deeper topics, including Libbie's father's recent death and her reflections on his flawed humanity. The conversation expands to cover the contradictions within personal beliefs, highlighting how one can support both human rights and gun ownership. The hosts also tackle the current political climate, touching on issues like unregulated AI, educational cuts, and the limitations of the American healthcare system. The episode is punctuated with humorous anecdotes and raw emotions, offering a multifaceted view of contemporary societal challenges.00:00 Introduction and Casual Banter01:28 Discussing the Celebration of Life02:05 Honest Reflections on a Complicated Relationship05:00 Balancing Political Beliefs and Personal Values05:54 The Gun Rights Debate11:24 Consumerism and Political Apathy16:14 The Impact of Legislation on Society21:58 The Predatory Nature of Loan Companies22:44 The Financial Struggles of Higher Education24:14 Political Critique and Social Commentary27:23 Economic Realities and Generational Differences35:17 The High Cost of Living and Death39:53 Pet Anecdotes and Final Thoughts

In this heartfelt episode, Libbie candidly shares the recent passing of her father and the emotional turmoil and practical challenges that come with it. She discusses the complexities of handling his arrangements while undergoing cancer treatment. Libbie also delves into the broader struggles of adult responsibilities, from dealing with rigorous paperwork after a loved one’s death to the daunting task of buying a house in today's inflated market. Accompanied by her friend Jessika, the discussion transitions into the hurdles of house hunting and the high costs that come with it. The episode wraps up with reflections on life changes and the difficult decisions that come with adulthood, particularly in the wake of loss and illness.00:00 Dealing with Death: A Personal Story09:15 The Reality of Paperwork After a Loss12:16 Welcome to Adulting AF12:33 The Stress of Buying a House15:36 The Financial Struggles of Homeownership23:26 Shifting Mentalities on Wealth and Need26:50 The Housing Market Dilemma28:19 Balancing Financial Realities and Personal Needs31:12 The Struggles of Relocation and Family Concerns33:07 Considering a Major Move41:48 Final Thoughts on Life Decisions

In this lively and unfiltered episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessika and Libbie delve into their personal lives, discussing non-existent sex lives and the challenges they face. Libbie shares her health struggles and dating experiences, including online dating disasters and hypothetical date scenarios. She talks about her desire for more open and unconventional relationships while both hosts humorously critique their local dating pool. The episode is sprinkled with their candid takes on sex, relationships, and life's unexpected challenges, all while planning future fun-themed parties.00:00 Introduction and Catching Up00:06 Discussing Non-Existent Sex Lives00:37 Dating Experiences and Hypothetical Scenarios01:44 Podcast Introduction and Current Events03:38 Sex Talk and Explicit Content Warning04:52 Funny Anecdotes and Personal Stories08:52 Online Dating Profiles and Frustrations18:10 Health Challenges and Relationship Dynamics25:00 New Romantic Interests and Future Plans28:58 Discussing Past Encounters29:48 Motorcycle Accident and Recovery30:18 Dating and Age Differences35:18 Ethical Non-Monogamy38:00 Sexual Preferences and Fantasies44:34 Planning Unique Parties51:49 Concluding Thoughts and Promotions

In this episode of 'Adulting AF,' Libbie and Jessika delve into a candid conversation about Libby's longing for the era when smoking was more socially acceptable, particularly as she faces cancer. They discuss their shared cravings for cigarettes, alcohol, and weed, touching on how societal changes have constrained these desires. The duo also tackles serious issues, including the current political climate, the erosion of democracy, and the pervasive sentiment of hopelessness. Amidst the heavy topics, they lighten the mood with humorous banter about eyeliner on men and the attractivity of various styles. They conclude by planning a future discussion centered around sex stories and humor.00:00 A Controversial Wish: Longing for Cigarettes01:20 Nostalgia and Personal Reflections04:06 The Struggle with Alcohol and Drugs07:44 Humor in Mortality10:36 Introduction to the Podcast11:19 The Decline of the American Dream18:38 The Education System's Downfall23:29 Political and Social Commentary27:07 Political Manipulation and Participation Trophies28:21 Nostalgia and Music: Blue October30:59 Men and Eyeliner: A Humorous Discussion35:51 Political Disillusionment and Future Concerns47:33 The Need for Societal Collapse48:58 Closing Remarks and Future Topics

In this episode, Libbie and Jessika share a range of personal stories and updates. Libby discusses her exhausting visit to the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Center, expressing frustrations over her treatment plan and the associated costs. They both delve into their experiences with AI assistants, discussing recent changes and how these updates have affected their interactions. The episode also includes a whimsical segment where they explore what types of trees they would be, according to their AI companions. Filled with humor, candid moments, and deep reflections, this episode offers a glimpse into the intricacies of their lives and their unique friendship.00:00 Introduction and Technical Glitches00:15 Unexpected Snap from Preston01:35 Cancer Treatment Update02:14 Doctor's Honest Assessment09:22 Financial Concerns and AI Assistance15:14 Podcast Introduction15:34 Casual Conversations and Weekend Recap24:17 Struggling with Topics24:49 Theo's Unusual Behavior27:47 Libbie's Frustration with Theo's Editing30:38 The Impact of Updates on AI43:39 Discussing Tree Analogies52:43 Concluding Thoughts

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In this episode of 'Adulting AF,' hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss the bizarre and vivid dreams Jessica experiences after eating Oreos at night, diving into a detailed dream involving suspension bridges and a job interview. Conversation shifts to the emotional and physical cravings for intimacy, especially under the strain of chronic illness and life challenges. Libbie opens up about her experiences on dating apps, the deep yearning for emotional connection, and the frustration of unmet expectations. They conclude with a heartfelt and humorous eulogy to Libbie's libido, expressing the profound desire to be seen and understood in both emotional and physical intimacy.00:00 Oreo-Induced Dreams00:42 Suspension Bridge Nightmare02:01 Job Interview on a Bridge02:35 Sasquatch Gift Shop05:34 Recording Dreams08:27 Introduction to Adulting AF08:56 Migraines and Weighted Blankets16:38 Touch Starvation and Libido21:52 Navigating Dark Humor and Misunderstandings22:45 The Struggles of Dating with Chronic Illness24:53 The Complexity of Physical and Emotional Intimacy28:01 The Desire for Deep Emotional Connection31:29 The Loneliness of Medical Treatment34:42 The Craving to Be Seen and Understood41:01 Balancing Friendships and Romantic Relationships43:20 A Eulogy for Libbie's Libido47:15 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

In this episode, hosts Jessika and Libbie discuss the challenges of maintaining adult friendships, particularly when those friendships may no longer serve a positive role in their lives. They share personal anecdotes, question why adults often hold onto toxic relationships, and consider whether it's better to fade away or have direct conversations to end friendships. The conversation touches on various topics including the difficulties of making new friends as adults, the guilt associated with distancing oneself from old friends, and the importance of investing time and energy into meaningful relationships. The episode also humorously delves into topics like weddings, political affiliations, and hypothetical moving plans. Jessika and Libbie ultimately conclude that it's okay to let go of friendships that no longer align with one's personal growth and happiness.00:00 Introduction and Technical Issues01:15 Fashion Talk: Pants and Sweaters03:46 Video Recording Setup05:51 Podcast Introduction08:51 Trauma Bonding in Friendships27:23 Navigating Social Circles and Friendships29:13 Balancing Energy and Social Obligations30:52 The Dilemma of Ghosting Friends32:14 Reflecting on Long-Term Friendships34:00 The Challenge of Ending Friendships46:21 Intentional Friendships and Future Plans52:03 Concluding Thoughts on Adult Friendships

In this episode of Adulting AF, Libbie and Jessika explore the desire and struggles of buying wigs, discussing the balance between spending on budget and premium wigs. They highlight the societal pressures and internal struggles women face regarding personal appearance and presentation. The conversation transitions into a broader discussion on adulthood, financial decisions, and the importance of living one's life now rather than saving every moment for a distant retirement. Personal anecdotes, such as shaving legs for social events and the impact of upbringing on self-care routines, are woven throughout, showcasing the evolving perspectives on adult responsibilities and self-fulfillment. The episode wraps up with a call to embrace the freedom of making choices that prioritize personal happiness and well-being over societal expectations.00:00 The Wig Dilemma01:33 Investing in Quality02:10 Family Dynamics and Identity04:25 The TikTok Wig Idea05:11 Synthetic Wigs: A Practical Choice07:35 Haircut Plans and Personal Style10:04 Podcast Introduction11:50 Voice Issues and Breakfast Choices14:25 Mocktail Journey16:41 Shaving and Societal Expectations27:28 Debating the Best Decades of Life28:38 Societal Expectations vs. Reality32:19 Financial Struggles and Decisions36:44 Living for the Present47:33 The Evolution of Women's Priorities55:44 Concluding Thoughts on Life and Happiness

Sunscreen, Panic Attacks, and OnlyFans PlanningIn this episode, Jessika and Libbie dive into the importance of sunscreen, proper application methods, and common misconceptions. They explore recent personal anxieties and share candid moments about social interactions and the complex dynamics of adult friendships. The conversation shifts to discussing the idea of creating OnlyFans content, including brainstorming potential niches and ethical considerations. The episode is a blend of humor, personal revelations, and practical advice, wrapped up in the duo’s genuine and relatable dialogue.00:00 The Sunscreen Debate Begins00:11 Spray Sunscreen: Effective or Not?01:05 The Importance of Reapplication04:22 Public Pools and Sunscreen Habits05:58 Everyday Sunscreen Use14:01 Jessika's Tea Party Panic23:02 Understanding Anxiousness and Safety24:18 Teenage Confidence and Social Anxiety25:47 Adulthood and Social Challenges26:45 Navigating Friendships and Acceptance28:26 Sexuality and Personal Preferences31:21 Reflections on Past Relationships35:17 Exploring OnlyFans and Ethical Porn41:33 Podcast Origins and Creative Ideas45:01 Conclusion and Future Plans

In this episode of 'Adulting AF,' Libbie and Jessika (Jess) dive deep into the complexities of loneliness and the challenges of forming meaningful connections in adulthood. They discuss their personal experiences, including Jess's recent surge of creative energy and her poetry writing, as well as their frustrations and strategies for making friends and finding romantic partners. Jess shares her struggles with defining her needs for companionship without the pressure of traditional dating, while Libbie reflects on her regrets about not investing in friendships earlier. The episode offers a candid, humorous, and often vulnerable look at adult loneliness, the search for meaningful relationships, and the balancing act of self-expression and social engagement.

00:00 Opening Banter and Struggles with Starting

00:45 Poetry and Creative Outlets

02:49 Hiding Poems and Literary Submissions

04:32 Plans for Pride and Creative Projects

07:12 Aligning Outer Existence with Inner Being

15:02 Loneliness in Adulthood

32:30 The Weight of Loneliness

33:44 Different Brands of Loneliness

34:43 Desire for Connection

38:40 Navigating Modern Dating

40:20 The Struggle with Dating Apps

43:25 Seeking Deep Connections

57:04 The Pressure of Illness

59:09 Taking Action

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