Adversity to Advantage

Adversity to Advantage

By Petra VelzeboerHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Adversity to Advantage episodes

  • 146. Do I have a Drinking Problem with Sam Church
    “I  remember laying face down shirt ripped, phone gone, money gone and thinking if I lay here long enough il just die”

    Totally relating to Sam’s story of his descent into alcoholism and the shame associated with it, I just  HAD to get Sam Church on the A2A podcast to share his journey with me.

    Sam is a Mental Health Advocate, Sales Professional and Co-Founder of MENtality.

    Having lived the majority of his life with poor mental health and still having to work on this on a daily basis Sam knows first-hand what it’s like to feel the pain of poor Mental Health.

    Battling addiction, not sleeping, poor nutrition and closing off from the world was a daily routine for over a decade. Essentially Sam could not see a way out and fundamentality didn’t know how.

    Today Sam leads a different life. Overcoming this adversity and changing his life completely Sam now wants to give others the education that he didn’t have.

    We go deep on topics such as:

    • MENtality
    • Self-isolation
    • Fascination of alcohol from a young age
    • The Trauma trigger
    • Path to alcohol
    • Masking the addiction
    • The catalyst moment for change
    • Genetic predispositions
    • Growth mindset
    • Changing the habit and replacing the urge
    • Non- negotiables to maintain being your best self
    • Mediation & journaling
    • Aligning your environment
    • Connect with Sam and learn more about MENtality  Instagram , Linkedin

      45 min
    • 145. Becoming Superhuman with Gavin Johnson

      “When you fail, its just a moment, it’s not permanent, it doesn’t define you as a person”

      Gavin Johnson has always been a keen sportsman, he started as a decathlete and moved into the javelin winning various national medals.

      When Covid-19 hit, Gavin decided to change a few things in his life, focusing on writing, art and other business ventures with the hope of coming out of the pandemic better than he went in. He set about developing skills and began training to be a Life Coach which inspired him to write no less than 3 books!

      We discuss the driving force behind his achievements as well as going deep on the importance of cognitive distortions and the impact it’s having on society and people.

      Such a great conversation in which we touch on topics such as:

      • Covid-19 and pivoting our intentions
      • The path to athletic achievement
      • Having the belief that you can achieve anything
      • Knowing when it is time to quit or keep going
      • Visualisation & mindset hacks
      • Placing your energy in the right places
      • Optimising your environment for success
      • Breaking down goals to make them achievable
      • The no-hope illusion
      • Inner peace our greatest goal
      • Racism in today’s society
      • Connect with Gavin and learn more about his book  The Little Book of Empowerment  at: gavinlisene.com and on  Instagram 

        46 min
      • 144. Addiction Recovery with Enton Barefoot

        “If I drink now, there’s no point carrying on. I’ll just go and kill myself”


        A passionate and avid sportsman, Enton played semi-professional football and was on track to follow his dream of playing as a career when a sliding doors moment changed everything. He fell gradually into a whirlwind life of addiction and homelessness.

        Enton is now twelve years sober, he is a qualified Drugs and Alcohol counsellor and has worked as a support worker for local charities. His passion is now to support people and offer them opportunity and hope through sharing his journey.

        Enton shares with me the experiences and influences that shaped the choices which would threaten to ruin his personal relationships and the life he once knew.

        An honest and open conversation about addiction, homelessness and life in recovery.

        We go deep on topics such as:

        • Is addiction rooted in trauma
        • Childhood anxiety
        • First love break-up
        • The appeal of alcohol
        • Escapism through music
        • Experimenting with cocaine
        • Refusing to admit there is a problem
        • Burning personal relationships
        • Becoming homeless
        • Lack of personal responsibility
        • The changes since the start of recovery
        • Rebuilding one step at a time
        • Replacing addictions with addictions
        • Suicide attempts
        • Self-acceptance
        • Connect with Enton and learn more about his book  Laid Bare  at: therealbarefoot.co.uk  Instagram , Twitter

          47 min
        • 143. Living with Schizophrenia with Wesley Alston

          “A lot of people that knew me could sense that something strange was going on”

          I feel so privileged to speak with Wesley Alston as he opens up to me about his experience of living with Schizophrenia.

          Wesley is 29 years old, from Greensboro, North Carolina, U.S.A. and started to experience symptoms of schizophrenia in 2011 at the age of 20. It was later that same year he was diagnosed. Through mentorship and support from a number of people including his family, psychiatrist and day program "Sanctuary House" Wesley has been able to regain stability over the last ten years.  He now finds himself waking up every day feeling joyous and confident about his life.

          We go deep on topics such as:

          • The effects of Covid-19 on mental health
          • First symptoms of Schizophrenia
          • Being hospitalised
          • Navigating the first few years after diagnosis
          • The struggle of finding a compatible medication
          • The stigma of mental health and the distancing of friends
          • Reintegration into the workplace and education after diagnosis
          • Battling the voices within
          • Coping mechanisms to keep the best state of mental health
          • Feeling of purpose and looking to the future
          • Benefits of a good support system
          • Practicing patience
          • The importance of talking
          • Connect with Wesley more at:  Instagram 

            37 min
          • 142. Practical tips for Elite Performance with Dr Philip Hopley

            Dr Phil Hopley helps me re-think entrepreneurship and the cult of busy!

            This felt like a private advice session and so timely while scaling my business during one of the most challenging times globally.

            As entrepreneurs we are excited about our work and presume that working flat out is the only way through!  Dr Phil works with elite performers and challenges this idea explaining  the 1 non-negotiable when it comes to sustaining high performance: RECOVERY!

            Dr Phil’s training in forensic, general and sport psychiatry combined with a career playing premiership rugby has enabled him to develop his passion for the mental health of elite performance in sport and business.

            We discuss:

            • Cognitive Intervention Techniques
            • Building competence around exposure and opportunity
            • Modelling work Ethic
            • Resilience and being prepared to fail
            • Pursuing things that give you joy
            • The resilience gene
            • Covid-19 resilience & pressures
            • Embedding Recovery behaviours into our lives
            • Achieving balance
            • Promoting the correct mental culture in the workplace
            • Turning catastrophisation into looking for opportunity
            • Connect with Dr Phil and learn more about his work at: cognacity.co.uk, linkedIn , Twitter and Instagram 

              33 min
            • 141. Lessons for Life with Matthew Zinman

              I’m very excited about this episode from a man who has been through an enormous amount but has channelled everything into passion and progress!

              Matt Zinman is a personal success trainer whose varied experiences as an entrepreneur, athlete, single parent, caretaker, consultant and nonprofit founder drive him to be a difference-maker.

              Matt suffered from depression since his early teens. Losing his Mother to HIV contracted from tainted blood during surgery and the loss of a brother to suicide, has forced Matt to develop coping skills and resilience throughout his life. Matt now lives each day to fulfil his goal to positively impact as many people as possible.

              Matt opens up about his past catalyst moments and how he strengthened his mindset.

              We discuss:

              • Childhood defining moments
              • Traumatic loss of a Mother & Sibling
              • Managing depression through self-care
              • Staying open through grief and finding support
              • Depression misconceptions
              • Recognising the signs
              • Managing grief and moving forward
              • Law of attraction & amplifying gratitude
              • Post trauma parenting advice
              • Connect with Matthew and learn more about his work at: Z-isms.com , linkedIn , Twitter and Instagram Amazon author Page

                41 min
              • 140. De-stress Your Body with Geeta Sidhu-Robb

                “Your power your strength your confidence , comes from your physical state

                Finding a cure for her sick son led ex lawyer Geeta Sidhu-Robb to be a successful Health Entrepreneur. She is a  health & stress specialist who provides specialist health programmes for the over 40.

                As well as explaining how stress impacts us, Geeta shares her inspiring story with me and details how she went from being homeless to creating her multi award winning empire.

                We go deep on topics such as.

                • Habit changing over 40
                • Choosing to invest in ourselves
                • Being conditioned throughout our lives
                • Understanding Drive vs Stress
                • Recognising Burnout
                • Physical symptoms of stress
                • Planning non -negotiables
                • Meditation & Journalling
                • Creating self-awareness
                • Gender differences around stress
                • Connect with Geeta and learn more about her work at:  NoshDetox.com , linkedIn , Twitter and Instagram

                  32 min
                • 139. Starbucks Finance Director on Mental Fitness

                  “There’s lots of ways we can show kindness, I think that goes a long way to supporting our mental health and wellbeing during these times”

                  Jonny Jacobs is the Financial Director of Starbucks, a Trustee for the Mental Health Foundation and an Advisory Board Member for Mental Health summit Mad World.

                  Jonny is passionate about engaging with businesses on the topic of mental health, challenging stigma and ensuring leadership is inclusive and purposeful, creating psychological safety in times of upheaval.

                  We discuss his childhood and how he became an advocate for Mental Health and his history raising awareness on the subject.

                  We touch on topics such as:

                  • How mental health conversations have evolved over the years
                  • Childhood adversity and influences
                  • Building resilience and resourcefulness
                  • Businesses and mental health
                  • The need for businesses to be authentic
                  • Line Management & mental health
                  • Leading by example in companies
                  • Encouraging kindness
                  • Remote working and supporting healthy cultures
                  • Psychological safety points and the need for empathy
                  • Connect with Jonny and learn more about his work at:  Mental Health Foundation , linkedIn , Twitter

                    37 min
                  • 138. The Bucket List Guy Travis Bell

                    “A Regret free life rather than a regretful life”

                    Travis Bell has had a Bucket List since the age of 18, but it wasn’t until he did his first seminar that he realised that this was not something that was common  practice. From this realisation the ‘Bucket List Guy’ was born.

                    Spreading his message through keynote speaking, blogging, his podcast and a Tedx talk, Travis Bell revels in helping people to live a life of more meaning , more purpose and more fulfilment.

                    Travis takes me through how he became known as ‘The Bucket List Guy’ and the motivation behind inspiring others to realise their potential.

                    We discuss topics such as:

                    • The Bucket list concept
                    • Re-prioritising what matters in life
                    • Covid-19 - Moving from Confusion to Clarity
                    • Living by design instead of default
                    • Not playing small
                    • Articulating a bucket list
                    • Realising & Meeting our potential
                    • Entrepreneur DNA
                    • Self-development
                    • Changing the narrative around depression
                    • Finding purpose & meaning
                    • Connect with Travis and learn more about his work at thebucketlistguy.com , linkedIn , Instagram & Twitter

                      38 min
                    • 137. The Legendary Geoff McDonald on Mental Health

                      “What really saved my life during that time was my ability to talk”


                      I am SUPER excited to have gotten the chance to interview the Legendary, Mental Health Power House that is Geoff McDonald!

                      Best known as a global advocate, campaigner and consultant who is passionate about addressing the stigma of mental ill health in workplaces, and about helping organisations embed purpose as a key driver of business performance. His sense of purpose to his work was catalysed by his diagnosis in 2008 of Anxiety fuelled depression.

                      Geoff shares with me his experience with mental health and his journey to recovery as well as the importance behind correct health and wellbeing initiatives within the workplace.

                      We go deep on topics such as;

                      • Diagnosis of anxiety fuelled depression
                      • The ability to talk
                      • Taking responsibility for balance
                      • Health & Wellbeing in the workplace
                      • Coming to terms with a diagnosis
                      • The stigma and associated shame of depression
                      • Taking accountability in order to get better
                      • The blessing of love during recovery
                      • The science of Love & Gratitude
                      • Returning to work and reintegrating
                      • The importance of a support network
                      • Transition of employment into purpose
                      • Tools that contribute to maintaining recovery
                      • Connect with Geoff and learn more about his work at geoffmcdonald.co.uk , linkedIn & Twitter

                        35 min

                      About Adversity to Advantage

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                      Adversity to Advantage is Petra Velzeboer's original interview podcast (2018 to 2020). Nearly 100 honest conversations with people from all walks of life about turning their hardest moments into strength: trauma, addiction, grief, anxiety, burnout and mental health at work.