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  • #663: Why AI Misleads Investors and How to Fix It

    We’re living through the first era in which an investor can ask a machine to read a decade of SEC filings in seconds. That sounds powerful, but also a little terrifying. Can we trust it? And how do we use it without falling for hallucinations or built-in optimism?

    In this episode, we dig into the practical, real-world ways AI can strengthen our investing process while avoiding its biggest pitfalls. If you’ve ever wondered how to blend old-school fundamentals with new-school tools, this conversation will open up an entirely new mental model.

    Our guest is Brian Feroldi, an investor who has spent more than twenty years doing classic, deep-dive fundamental research. He reads SEC filings for fun, and he’s embraced AI not as a stock picker, but as a force multiplier that can turn days of research into minutes.

    We talk about the specific guardrails that make AI useful for fundamental investors, including restricting sources to trusted filings, designing step-by-step instructions, and assigning the AI a role so it knows how to “think.” We also explore how to stress-test optimism bias, how to analyze companies like a forensic accountant or a short seller, and how to build prompts that match your own investing personality. Is AI investing the future?

    Whether you’re an index-fund loyalist with a little “fun money” or a hands-on analyst, this conversation will expand the way you evaluate businesses and make decisions. 

    Key Takeaways
    • How a single prompt can transform AI from a loose generalist into a sharp, reliable research assistant.
    • The surprising way optimism bias shows up in AI tools, and how to flip it to your advantage.
    • Why limiting your data sources can make your analysis dramatically stronger.
    • The role-play trick that helps you see a company the way a short seller, value investor, or even Warren Buffett might.
    • A simple reframing that turns AI from a stock picker into something far more powerful for decision-making.
    • The moment in the demo that revealed a blind spot even seasoned investors often miss.
    • Resources and Links
      • Get Brian’s free business-analysis prompt
      • Check out Brian’s YouTube channel
      • Related Blogpost
      • Chapters

        Note: Timestamps are approximate and may vary greatly across listening platforms due to dynamically inserted ads.

        (0:00) Introduction

        (3:07) Pros and cons of using AI for stock research
        (4:43) Why Brian invests heavily in individual stocks
        (7:19) Guardrails for reducing AI hallucinations
        (11:22) How to write step-by-step prompts
        (14:58) Using roles to shape AI’s output
        (22:53) Running Brian’s prompt on Cava
        (37:10) Understanding pricing power and recession behavior
        (42:11) Evaluating management teams
        (51:10) Using AI to reflect your investing personality
        (1:02:58) Key take aways

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        1 hr 12 min
      • #662: What If Everything We Know About Hiring Is Wrong? with William Vanderbloemen

        Most teams hire for skills. The best teams hire for wiring. 

        What if the reason someone accelerates your organization, or quietly derails it, has more to do with their response time, processing style, or sense of mission than their résumé?

        This episode dives into the hidden patterns that shape how people work, make decisions, and handle pressure; the clues we often overlook, and the tiny tells that reveal who will thrive.

        We’re joined by William Vanderbloemen, whose firm has completed nearly 4,000 executive searches. 

        After reviewing years of candidate data, he discovered why some people create momentum everywhere they go and others struggle, even when they look perfect on paper. 

        We explore what “fast thinkers” and “slow thinkers” bring to a team, how to spot agility before you hire someone, and why some workers need a mission while others need a measurable win.

        Along the way, we reflect on our own tendencies and how understanding them can change the way we build teams, manage energy, and make long-term decisions.

        Key Takeaways
        • Response speed can signal mental wiring, not politeness, which makes it a powerful hiring clue.
        • The real interview starts long before the formal meeting, which means every informal interaction counts.
        • Agility shows up when plans change, so micro-tests can reveal how someone handles shifting conditions.
        • Many high performers are driven either by purpose or measurable progress, and knowing which matters.
        • Understanding our own lane helps us hire better, delegate better, and build systems that reduce friction.
        • Resources and Links
          • Start With Why by Simon Sinek
          • Vanderbloemen Group
          • Be the Unicorn by William Vanderbloemen
          • Related episode
          • Chapters

            Note: Timestamps are approximate and may vary greatly across listening platforms due to dynamically inserted ads.

            (7:21) What thousands of executive searches revealed

            (8:00) The nine markers of high performers
            (19:36) Fast thinkers, slow thinkers, and finding your lane
            (22:00) Why response time predicts performance
            (23:13) Testing agility in real-world scenarios
            (40:51) Why purpose matters more to younger workers
            (41:20) How adversity shapes motivation and drive
            (48:48) Why curiosity is a career superpower

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            1 hr 23 min
          • #661: Q&A: Rebuilding After Debt Overload and a Near-Miss Foreclosure

            When your income drops, debt spikes, and a rental property starts bleeding cash, it can feel like your entire financial foundation is cracking beneath you. Veronica, our first caller, is navigating all of it at once, from a near-foreclosure to a luxury car payment that’s strangling her budget. Her question is simple but enormous, how do you rebuild when you’re overwhelmed and out of margin?

            Once we work through her path forward, we shift to a listener on the opposite end of the spectrum. Daniel has maxed his Roth IRA, HSA, 401(k), and 457, and now sits on growing surplus cash. We talk about where extra money belongs when you’re aiming for early retirement and wondering whether to invest, save, or crush a low-interest mortgage.

            And to close, we take on a question dominating every financial feed right now, what if AI stocks really are in a bubble? We break down what it means to short the market, whether put options are actually a “safe” bet, and how to position a portfolio if you’re worried about tech valuations.

            Listener Questions in This Episode
            • Veronica asks: How do I dig out of debt, repair my credit, and stabilize my rental after nearly going into foreclosure. (2:06)
            • Daniel asks: What should I do with my surplus side hustle cash when I already max tax-advantaged accounts and have a 3.5 percent rental mortgage. (28:17)
            • Scarlet asks: If AI stocks are in a bubble like the dot-com era, is there any relatively safe way to profit from a crash, such as put options. (49:20)
            • Key Takeaways
              • Why tackling the right problem first can change the entire trajectory of a debt recovery plan.
              • How downsizing one major expense can unlock breathing room you didn’t realize you had.
              • The surprising factor that often matters more than interest rates when choosing between investing and debt payoff.
              • Why flexible money becomes essential when planning for early retirement.
              • What most people misunderstand about betting against a bubble, especially in fast-moving tech sectors.
              • The simple portfolio shift that can help calm bubble anxiety without trying to time the market.
              • Resources and Links
                • GreenPath Financial Wellness – nonprofit credit counseling and debt management support for people overwhelmed by payments and afraid of bad actors in the debt relief world.
                • Our course Your Next Raise – a deep dive on how to negotiate a higher salary at work, with a special comp offered in this episode.
                • Paul Merriman Four-Fund Portfolio – the simple, diversified investing framework Daniel uses inside his retirement accounts.
                • The Big Short by Michael Lewis and the film adaptation.
                • 1929 by Andrew Ross Sorkin – a historical look at bubbles and crashes.
                • Chapters

                  Note: Timestamps are approximate and may vary greatly across listening platforms due to dynamically inserted ads.

                  (0:00) Crushing debt, surplus cash, and betting against an AI bubble

                  (2:06) Veronica’s debt crisis and rental challenges
                  (16:46) Cutting car costs and rebuilding cash flow
                  (22:28) Debt relief programs and avoiding bad actors
                  (28:17) Daniel’s surplus cash and retirement strategy
                  (37:52) Brokerage vs mortgage payoff discussion
                  (49:20) Can you profit from an AI bubble burst
                  (1:00:40) Why shorting and puts rarely pay off
                  (1:08:18) Safer ways to position your portfolio

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                • #660 The Brutal Math of Caring for Aging Parents, with MarketWatch Columnist Beth Pinsker

                  Caring for an aging parent can morph into a second full-time job, and even the most financially savvy adults get blindsided. Bank accounts freeze, home sales stall, and family savings disappear faster than anyone expects.

                  In this episode, we dig into what really happens when you take over a parent’s financial life, from the first power of attorney to the final tax return. 

                  We explore the emotional and logistical realities of dementia care, Medicaid, trusts, probate, and why a single smartphone setting can determine whether you can access the information you need.

                  Veteran financial journalist and certified financial planner Beth Pinsker joins us to share the hard lessons she learned while managing her parents’ money, housing, and estate. She opens up about the “you don’t know what you don’t know” moments that hit even experts.

                  We look at why almost every caregiver reaches a breaking point, the two documents that can save a year of stress and tens of thousands of dollars, how a forgotten zero-balance home equity line nearly torpedoed a real estate deal, and why phone access now belongs at the center of estate planning.

                  We also confront the brutal math of long-term dementia care, the real differences between Medicare and Medicaid, how to evaluate facilities beyond brochures, and what happens when a parent dies without updated paperwork. Through it all, we focus on how clear conversations about wishes and values can reduce guilt and burnout for the people left steering the ship.

                  Key Takeaways
                  • Financial caregiving comes for almost everyone eventually, and even experts hit roadblocks, so the goal is not perfection but reducing avoidable chaos.
                  • Power of attorney and healthcare proxy documents are foundational, often more urgent than a will, and they need to be current, state-appropriate, and shared with the people who may need to use them.
                  • A locked smartphone without a legacy contact can become a financial brick, cutting caregivers off from essential clues about accounts, subscriptions, and bills.
                  • Long-term dementia care can run five to six figures per year, outlasting even solid nest eggs, so families need to confront the realities of Medicaid and state-specific safety nets before the money runs out.
                  • How assets are titled, from bank accounts to real estate, determines whether heirs inherit smoothly through a trust or spend years and thousands of dollars navigating probate.
                  • The most important “plan” is knowing a loved one’s wishes for quality of life and end-of-life care, so financial and medical decisions feel like honoring them instead of guessing in the dark.
                  • Resources and Links
                    • Beth Pinsker’s website: bethpinsker.com
                    • Beth’s retirement and financial planning columns at MarketWatch
                    • Beth’s book: My Mother’s Money, a Guide to Financial Caregiving
                    • Listen to a related podcast here.
                    • Chapters

                      (0:00) Why financial caregiving blindsides even the experts

                      (1:58) The hidden home equity line that almost killed a real estate deal
                      (8:32) Two documents every adult in your life should have
                      (12:18) The critical phone setting that protects access to accounts and memories
                      (19:04) What Prince’s estate taught us about wills and inertia
                      (29:22) Planning for a decade of dementia care without going broke
                      (33:48) How Medicaid really works and why “running out of money” is a process
                      (38:46) The menu of care options from in-home help to CCRCs and nursing homes
                      (46:05) The “smell test” for evaluating facilities in the real world
                      (49:39) What to do in the first weeks after a parent dies
                      (453:23) Trusts, titles, probate, and how one frozen account cost $5,000 to unlock
                      (58:28) Knowing their wishes so money decisions feel like honoring, not guessing

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                      1 hr 6 min
                    • #659: James Patterson Shows Why Comfort Can Be a Trap

                      Disruption is no longer a buzzword, it’s the new baseline. In this episode, bestselling author James Patterson and Vanderbilt professor Patrick Leddin explore how disruption reshapes careers, industries, and even personal identity. They share a framework for becoming a positive disruptor, someone who turns upheaval into opportunity. 

                      From reinventing the publishing industry to navigating AI and workplace change, this conversation is packed with insights on adaptability, values, and finding purpose through uncertainty.

                      Key Takeaways
                      • Disruption is everywhere. Whether in global events, technology, or personal life, change happens fast — and waiting for “normal” to return is a losing strategy.

                      • Positive disruption starts with mindset. Instead of resisting change, view it as fertile ground for creativity and growth.

                      • Know your fire. Passion, talent, and inner voice are the anchors of meaningful disruption.

                      • Leverage your strengths. Successful disruptors lean into what they do best and build teams that complement their weaknesses.

                      • Discern before you react. Positive disruptors pause, think, and choose their response rather than reacting impulsively.

                      • Relationships matter. Every connection is either a headwind or a tailwind — surround yourself with those who propel you forward.

                      • AI is the next great disruption. Don’t fear it; learn how to use it. Disruption creates new roles for those who adapt first.

                      • Values anchor change. When disruption hits, decisions rooted in integrity and purpose guide the right next move.

                      • Every job — and every person — needs disruption. Growth happens when you question the “rules” and experiment with new ways of doing things.

                        Resources and Links
                        • Disrupt Everything – and Win

                        • Vanderbilt University Positive Disruption Study

                        • jamespatterson.com

                          Chapters

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                          00:00 The Age of Disruption
                          01:20 Change vs. Disruption
                          03:00 Turning Setbacks into Opportunities
                          05:00 Finding and Following Your Fire
                          07:00 Positive Disruption in Career Moves
                          10:00 Internal vs. External Barriers to Change
                          13:00 Why Every Job Needs Disruption
                          15:00 Four Fundamental Facts About Change
                          18:00 How Positive Disruptors Think
                          21:00 The Power of Story in Reinvention
                          25:00 Knowing When It’s Time to Pivot
                          29:00 When Stability Is the Most Disruptive Choice
                          31:00 Values as the Anchor for Decision Making
                          34:00 Collaboration as a Creative Disruption
                          38:00 Purpose, Mission, and the Fire Within
                          41:00 The AI Frontier Fear vs. Adaptation
                          46:00 Staying Indispensable Through Change
                          49:00 Trusting Instincts and Leading with Courage

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                          1 hr 13 min
                        • #658: First Friday: When the Gov’t is Closed, Where Do We Find The Numbers?

                          An unusual First Friday episode because we don’t have a jobs report.

                          However, we do know that in October, U.S. companies announced more job cuts in a single month than they have over any single month of the last 20 years. In other words, October was peak job cut month.

                          By contrast, private payrolls, as reported by ADP, rose by 42,000 in October, so we have a little bit of conflicting data. Some pessimistic, some optimistic. We’re going to take a deeper look at that in today’s episode.

                          Timestamps:

                          Note: Timestamps will vary on individual listening devices based on dynamic advertising segments. The provided timestamps are approximate and may be several minutes off due to changing ad lengths.

                          (00:00) Conflicting Job Market Data

                          (03:40) Youth Unemployment and AI’s Impact
                          (10:16) Fed Rate Cuts and Housing Market
                          (20:23) New Job Postings Lowest in 4 Years
                          (20:54) Consumer Sentiment
                          (22:04) Social Security Payments Increase in 2026
                          (23:33) Rising Car Costs and Repossessions
                          (24:46) Good News for Prescription Drug Prices
                          (31:50) Government Shutdown Impacts

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                          40 min
                        • #657: Can You Really Beat The Market By Copying Members of Congress?

                          This week, Paula and Joe dig into a listener’s question about ETFs that track the stock trades of U.S. politicians — including the Democratic “NANC” fund and its Republican counterpart “KRUZ.” They explore whether this strategy is smart investing or just expensive entertainment.

                          Then, they shift gears to home ownership headaches. Another listener asks how to control ballooning maintenance costs, and Paula shares her best advice for finding trustworthy contractors, budgeting for repairs, and knowing when DIY doesn’t actually save money.

                          Finally, an anonymous caller wonders if starting a small business just for tax breaks makes sense. Paula and Joe explain the IRS rules — and why energy and purpose matter more than deductions.

                          From “fun money” investing to financial planning that actually works, this episode is all about balancing curiosity, caution, and common sense.

                          Key Takeaways
                          • Congressional-trade ETFs aren’t a shortcut to wealth. They’re speculative, lag behind real trades, and carry high costs.
                          • Home maintenance is predictable — plan for it. Create a repair timeline and build relationships with investor-friendly contractors.
                          • DIY isn’t always cheaper. Factor in time, tools, and opportunity cost.
                          • Never open a business just for taxes. If it doesn’t make a profit or bring joy, it’s an energy drain, not a strategy.
                          • Separate fun money from freedom money. Keep speculation playful, and build wealth with focus and purpose.
                          • Chapters

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                            0:00 – Introduction: The Age of Political Investing

                            01:15 – Should You Follow Congress’s Trades?
                            06:00 – The Lag Problem and Investor Bias
                            10:30 – The “Fun Money” Rule
                            11:20 – The Hidden Cost of Home Repairs
                            15:00 – Finding Investor-Friendly Contractors
                            18:00 – Planning Ahead for Repairs
                            22:00 – DIY vs. Opportunity Cost
                            26:00 – Starting a Small Business for Tax Breaks
                            29:00 – The IRS “3-of-5 Rule”
                            32:00 – Purpose Over Deductions
                            34:00 – Final Thoughts

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                            1 hr 4 min
                          • #656: Would You Shock a Stranger? What a 1960s Experiment Reveals About Your Money Decisions [Rerun]

                            What would you do if an authority figure told you to do something that felt wrong? Today’s episode dives into the surprising psychology behind why we often comply — even when our gut tells us not to.

                            Paula revisits one of her favorite interviews of the year with Dr. Sunita Sah, a physician-turned-professor at Cornell University who researches compliance, defiance, and how influence shapes our financial and ethical choices.

                            They explore:

                            • Why we trust authority figures even when it costs us

                            • The hidden social pressures that drive bad financial decisions

                            • How to strengthen your “defiance muscle” — and say no with confidence

                            • Why speaking up protects both your wallet and your well-being

                              If you’ve ever felt pressured by a financial advisor, boss, or salesperson, this conversation will help you make choices aligned with your values — not someone else’s agenda.

                               Key Takeaways
                              • Authority Bias Hurts Your Finances – We often comply with financial advisors, salespeople, or bosses to avoid seeming distrustful, even when our intuition says otherwise.

                              • Two Hidden Pressures: “Insinuation Anxiety” (fear of signaling distrust) and the “Sales Pitch Effect” (pressure to seem helpful) push us toward bad decisions.

                              • Defiance Is a Skill – Standing up to authority isn’t innate; it’s a learnable skill you can practice.

                              • The Power of the Pause – Creating distance before making a decision reduces pressure and leads to smarter financial choices.

                              • Quiet Defiance Works – Sometimes defying doesn’t mean confrontation; it means subtle, values-based resistance.

                              • Compliance Has a Cost – Saying yes too often drains energy, confidence, and integrity over time.

                              • Informed Consent for Money – Borrowed from medicine, this concept encourages truly understanding risks, alternatives, and having freedom to say no.

                              • Conscious Compliance – It’s okay to defer defiance temporarily when safety or livelihood is at stake — as long as it’s intentional, not habitual.

                              • Defiance Can Be Practiced – Recognize physical signs of discomfort, vocalize concerns, and move through the five stages of defiance to act with confidence.

                                Chapters

                                00:00 — Halloween update: Fed lowers interest rates and what it means for mortgages
                                00:46 — Enrollment extended for Your First Rental Property course
                                02:02 — Introducing Dr. Sunita Sah and the psychology of compliance
                                03:06 — The famous Yale shock experiment and why 65% complied
                                04:51 — How a financial advisor’s conflict of interest inspired Dr. Sah’s research
                                06:18 — The hidden pressures to agree — “insinuation anxiety” and the “sales pitch effect”
                                15:45 — Why we’re trained to obey — and how to unlearn it
                                18:36 — When defiance could save a life: nurses, pilots, and everyday moments
                                21:44 — How expectations shape career choices (and why many seek financial independence)
                                23:34 — Revisiting the Milgram experiment and what it reveals about human nature
                                37:15 — Practicing “quiet defiance” and the power of the pause
                                40:28 — How to make decisions privately — and why distance reduces compliance
                                44:11 — Gender differences in compliance and the pressure to say yes
                                47:13 — Why people don’t speak up at work (the “voice empathy gap”)
                                49:08 — The five elements of informed consent and freedom to say no
                                52:09 — Conscious compliance: when to defer defiance for safety or impact
                                55:21 — The high cost of compliance — emotional and ethical
                                58:22 — Whistleblowers, Rosa Parks, and the real price of saying no
                                1:02:05 — How to recognize tension as the first stage of defiance
                                1:04:27 — The five stages of defiance — from doubt to action

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                                1 hr 32 min
                              • #655: Q&A: How to Choose Between Financial Freedom and a First Home

                                What would you do if, at the age of 23, you found yourself with $70,000 a year leftover after expenses? Would you pour everything into retirement and coast to financial independence, or stockpile a down payment before life gets pricier with kids, a mortgage, and maintenance costs? 

                                This week, we dive into that real-life dilemma and explore how to strike the perfect balance between freedom now and security later.

                                Along the way, we question whether a 0.40% fee for automated tax-loss harvesting is really worth it, and debate if the rise of mega-corporations means small-cap value investing is dead.

                                Listener Questions in This Episode
                                • “Julio” asks: How should we split savings between Coast FI and a future down payment, and where should that down payment sit? (1:48) 
                                • Lindsay asks: Is 0.40 percent worth it for Fidelity’s tax loss harvesting and how do we unwind back to self managed index funds? (32:31) 
                                • Greg asks: If a handful of giants dominate, should we ignore history and tilt to only the top companies instead of broad markets and small cap value? (50:51) 
                                • Key Takeaways
                                  • The right savings balance may depend less on math and more on clarity about what “home” really means to you. 
                                  • Building a down payment might be the fastest way to reach Coast FI, but not for the reason you’d expect. 
                                  • Parking cash safely is trickier than it sounds, especially when the market tempts you with higher returns. 
                                  • That 0.40 percent fee could be either a silent drag or a smart trade-off, depending on one often-overlooked detail. 
                                  • The rise of mega-caps might look unstoppable, yet history has a way of surprising even the biggest players. 
                                  • True diversification isn’t about predicting winners, it’s about protecting future you from overconfidence today.
                                  • Chapters

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                                    (0:00) Are we headed for a dystopian future

                                    (1:48) A 23-year-old with a $125k income and a big savings gap

                                    (8:52) House price, down payment size, and the numbers that drive the split

                                    (10:47) The savings snowball case, match protection, and timeline trade-offs

                                    (25:14) Where to park the down payment, why cash beats stocks for readiness

                                    (32:31) Is 0.40 percent worth it for tax-loss harvesting

                                    (36:24) Fees versus claimed tax savings, turnover, and exit options

                                    (50:51) Should dystopia change our portfolio

                                    (54:36) Small-cap value beyond tech, acquisitions, and global opportunity

                                    (1:11:02) Optimism, innovation, and why investing still assumes progress

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                                  • #654: How to Stop Fighting About Money

                                    Fights about money are common, but they’re rarely about math. They’re about power, shame, vulnerability, and trust. And no amount of data or fancy spreadsheets is going to fix it.

                                    What you need is a better system for fairness, more open communication, and a shared ambition.

                                    In this candid conversation with Heather and Doug Boneparth, we explore how two partners rebuilt confidence, handled their six-figure student loans, and designed a rhythm for money talks that actually works. 

                                    Together they share how early money stories, law school debt, and the Great Recession shaped their dynamic, plus the tools they used to find fairness at home and in their finances

                                    Key Takeaways
                                    • Why 50/50 isn’t always fair and how to do it better. 
                                    • The small ritual that turned dreaded money talks into something they actually look forward to.
                                    • How borrowing a strategy from the office made household decisions way less stressful.
                                    • The surprising fix for resentment that had nothing to do with chores or budgeting. 
                                    • Why tackling six-figure student loans together became a turning point in their relationship. 
                                    • The mindset shift that helped them see debt not as a burden but as a shared opportunity 
                                    • Resources and Links
                                      • Money Together, the book
                                      • DoMoneyTogether.com, learn more about the book and project
                                      • The Joint Account, weekly newsletter on joint finances at ReadTheJointAccount.com
                                      • Fair Play by Eve Rodsky, a framework for dividing household responsibilities
                                      • Related Blogpost
                                      • Chapters

                                        Note: Timestamps will vary on individual listening devices based on dynamic advertising segments. The provided timestamps are approximate and may be several minutes off due to changing ad lengths.

                                        (10:20) Law school, six-figure debt, then the market collapses

                                        (14:51) Journalism dream, scarcity mindset, and choosing law for security
                                        (20:08) Taking a steadier in-house role so the business could grow
                                        (21:08) Refinancing, co-signing, and turning shame into teamwork
                                        (37:32) Working together and launching the Money Together project
                                        (55:10) How to run a money date and pick the right environment
                                        (56:10) Fair Play and owning whole activities to reduce friction
                                        (1:15:33) Where to find the book and newsletter, next steps

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