Afternoona Asks

We invited along fellow members of the Patreon to discuss our 2023 year in dramas - this is a bumper three episode edition, which we are releasing on the last three days of 2023. This is part 2 and here we have Erin, who is here to chat to us about her favourite dramas, performances and underrated dramas of the year. Then Grace goes through what 2023 in drama land has been like for her. Be sure to check out the other 2 episodes in this mini-series!

We invited along fellow members of the Patreon to discuss our 2023 year in dramas - this is a bumper three episode edition, which we are releasing on the last three days of 2023. First up is Katie, who is here to chat to us about her favourite dramas, performances and underrated dramas of the year. Then Sarah goes through what 2023 has been like for her. Be sure to check out the other 2 episodes in this mini-series!

Sarah is flying solo for this episode and was delighted to welcome Liliana from Tea and Soju Podcast for a chat about Chinese Dramas, what 2023 has been like for CDramas and get a shedload of recommendations for you all on your next CDrama. We hope you enjoy!

Show Notes mentioned in the pod

KDramas vs CDramas Podcast with Tea and Soju Podcast - guest host spot with Sarah and Lia from Afternoona Delight:

Follow Liliana on her social links which are all here:

Five Dramas to get to know Liliana
•Till The End of the Moon 
•Go Ahead
•Hidden Love
•Maiden Holmes
•Under the Skin

Recommendations/Comps:

Xianxia:
•The Starry Love
•Back From The Brink
•Feeling Brave- Ashes of Love

Romcom:
•Once We Get Married
•The Day of Becoming You 
•The Romance of Tiger and Rose 

Slice of Life:
•Meet Yourself
•Go Ahead
•Memory of Encaustic Tile 

Thriller
•Reset
•Under The Skin
•The Bad Kids
•The Long Night

Classics - Nirvana in Fire, Joy of Life, Story of Ming Lan

Hosts Sarah and Grace tackle the first in a multi-episode series on Confucianism, a topic that has been on our minds, and planning spreadsheet, since the beginning of the pod. We give a brief primer on what Confucianism is and how it impacts numerous aspects of life in Korea. We also discuss how it has influenced our lives and where we see it pop up in the Asian dramas we watch. In the language section, we talk about pesky romanizations and how to pronounce Yoo Teo's name, plus a refresher on how to say Lee Minho's name.

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Love BTS? Or curious what all the fuss is about? Check out our sister pod Afternoona Army for "thinky, thirsty and over thirty" takes on Bangtan life.

And don't forget about the newest member of our network, It's Bananas, because life doesn't make a lick of sense, but licking fruit does.

Our latest episode of Afternoona Asks ND is covering Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), which just like Autism, is a neurotype with a lot of prejudice and stigma attached to it. In this podcast episode Sarah and Fran sit down to chat about ADHD traits and Fran shares her own personal experiences with them. They talk about the struggles of living with time blindness and executive dysfunction, the magic of hyperfocus and feelings of shame and frustration at the inability to regulate attention effectively. We also mention a few ADHD coded characters in preparation to future episodes on ADHD characters in asian dramas.

Below some links for further reading/referred to in the show:

Dirty Laundry: Why adults with ADHD are so ashamed and what we can do to help" by Richard Pink and Roxanne Emery 
Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ADHD_love 

18 Signs you might have ADHD
https://health.clevelandclinic.org/adhd-symptoms-in-adults/

A Different name for ADHD
https://www.additudemag.com/attention-deficit-disorder-vast/ 

We are delighted to welcome Jess, host of the fabulous Daebak K-Rambles Podcast for a fun chat about KDramas, some OG dramas, which actors are her faves and a slew of underrated KDrama recommendations! We had a blast talking to her and we hope you enjoy this one too!

To listen to Daebak K-Rambles Podcast and check out some of the episodes we discuss on the pod please check out Daebak K Rambles podcast.

For her socials and fun posts, check out @daebakpod on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and TikTok. The Patreon feed is www.patreon.com/alwayscriticpod.

Here's a list of shows mentioned during this episode:

Jess's Five to Get to Know Me:

Goblin (Guardian the Lonely & Great God)

Happiness

Save Me

The Princess's Man

Our Beloved Summer

Underrated Dramas:

Temperature of Love

It's Okay That's Love

Master's Sun

Love All Play

Because This Is My First Life

Cruel City

Fight for My Way

Queen Inhyun's Man/Queen and I

The King2Hearts

9 End 2 Outs/9 In 2 Out

Cain and Abel

The Crowned Clown

The Forbidden Marriage

Join Sarah, Fran and J as we deep dive It's Ok To Not Be Ok from an autistic lens. What did they get so right about Moon Sang Tae's character and why does it still hold up as one of the best portrayals of Autism in KDrama? Along the way we discuss and refer to what really rang true for us with his character and explain why. You might discover parts of his character you hadn't discovered before!

Podcast Timeline:
We thought it would be useful to have an outline of what we’re going to cover this episode, with time stamps. 🥳
Our pre-episode catch up (mostly about Agust D): 1:14
A quick summary of the drama: 15:53
Sang-tae’s autistic traits and what resonated for us, including why some of us love to rewatch our favourite shows so much: 17:14
Why this drama always gets recognised for having a well written and well portrayed autistic character (hint, because the depiction works): 33.33
What struck us about the relationships Sang-tae had with the people around him…this is so multilayered and intriguing: 41:47
An in-depth and fascinating discussion of the interplay of trauma and autism as depicted in this drama (hint: autism plays a huge role in how we may experience trauma and CPTSD): 53:04
The weighty and emotional issue of the responsibility of caregiving and of raising children with mixed needs and capabilities: 63:00
A quick take on the depiction of violence in the relationship between the brothers and why it occurs and our perspectives on it: 70:30
What didn’t work for us or what seemed off: 80:20

Podcast Notes:
Link about Naoki Higashida and his books https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/175207/naoki-higashida/ 
Unmasking Autism by Dr Devon Price https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/688819/unmasking-autism-by-devon-price-phd/ 

Sarah went to see Jung Hae In at a fanmeeting in Hong Kong and is here to tell us all about it. Grace has lots of questions, including where North American fans can catch Jung Hae In in Nov 2023 and whether the fanmeeting was worth it. And we all learn how to shout out "we miss you!" and "you're so good looking!" at our next fan meeting for our favourite KDrama Oppas and actors.

Show Notes:

Daebak Podcast where Sarah guest hosted to discuss Jung Hae In's drama D.P. and D.P. 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/d-p-ep-55/id1576157542?i=1000630413794

Actors on the Road Scotland - clip of Jung Hae In getting shocked by a cannon shot: 

https://youtu.be/FkrnwwCVKCo?si=TYA_L2X7T-wvVgfN

Instagram - follow Jung Hae In @holyhaein 

Fan account: @haeinheart

Please follow our instragram @afternoonasks for more clips from Sarah of the fan meeting

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A KDrama fan? Listen to our sister podcast, Afternoona Delight - three best selling American novelists explore the wonderfully wacky world of K-Romance through a writer’s lens. Join them as they fangirl over the best characters, debate favorite tropes, and nerd out through K-drama deep dives. 

Or are your family and friends sick of you talking about K-drama? We get it...and have an answer. Join our AfterNoona Delight Patreon and find community among folks who get your obsession. And check out www.afternoonadelight.com for more episodes, book recs and social media goodness. 

Love BTS? Or curious what all the fuss is about? Check out our sister pod Afternoona Army for "thinky, thirsty and over thirty" takes on Bangtan life.

And don't forget about the newest member of our network, It's Bananas, because life doesn't make a lick of sense, but licking fruit does.

Hosts Sarah and Grace are back to talk about Grace’s summer trip to Korea, including her favorite experiences, learnings from traveling there with her family for the first time, a discussion on wheelchair accessibility, and plans for future trips. 

Attractions:

Changdeokgung 

Namsam Tower

Gangchon Rail Park

Spa Land Centum City (Busan)

Jongro 3-ga Pocha Street 종로 3가 포차거리

https://thesmartlocal.kr/pocha-streets-seoul/

Myeongdong shopping street - this guide is useful: https://preparetravelplans.com/myeongdong-shopping-street-guide/

Seoul Wheelchair Accessibility:

https://english.visitseoul.net/accessibility

https://wheelchairtravel.org/seoul/

http://www.koreawheelchairtour.com/?fbclid=IwAR1vYDWbwut-4fAZWywwdQsxrIfty8Etfxow878goctCREMp908w47suLew

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A KDrama fan? Listen to our sister podcast, Afternoona Delight - three best selling American novelists explore the wonderfully wacky world of K-Romance through a writer’s lens. Join them as they fangirl over the best characters, debate favorite tropes, and nerd out through K-drama deep dives. 

Or are your family and friends sick of you talking about K-drama? We get it...and have an answer. Join our AfterNoona Delight Patreon and find community among folks who get your obsession. And check out www.afternoonadelight.com for more episodes, book recs and social media goodness. 

Love BTS? Or curious what all the fuss is about? Check out our sister pod Afternoona Army for "thinky, thirsty and over thirty" takes on Bangtan life.

And don't forget about the newest member of our network, It's Bananas, because life doesn't make a lick of sense, but licking fruit does.

Is Ji Chang Wook’s Suspicious Partner lead character, autistic coded? In this podcast, Sarah (@kdramthis) is joined by co-hosts Franziska (@wanderingfranzi) and J (@theflowerthatbloomsalone) for another episode of their autistic-coded mini-series.

Here we discuss a character you may have never considered autistic - Noh Ji Uk from Suspicious Partner. Maybe all those aish’s were his frustration at living as a neurodivergent person having to deal with the neurotypical world he lives and works in? Is his strong sense of justice and ethics an autistic trait? 

Join us as we deep dive his character and all the reasons why he may be autistic coded as well as chat about some other lesser understood autistic traits.

Show notes:

Franziska’s Tumblr post: https://www.tumblr.com/treesswayinginthewind/694954106303938560/noh-ji-uk-suspicious-partner-as-an-autistic?source=share

Autistic coded characters - Christa Mullis

https://cjds.uwaterloo.ca/index.php/cjds/article/view/495/744

Introducing Autistic Imposter Syndrome

https://embrace-autism.com/introducing-autistic-impostor-syndrome/

Autistic Functioning Labels being problematic:

https://graymattersmd.com/functioning-labels-autism/

https://neuroclastic.com/the-journey-begins/?amp

Simple post: https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb2ykmTM0TN/?igshid=MTIyMzRjYmRlZg%3D%3D

Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD5jAwPlSDY

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Ready to download your first audiobook? Don't forget to click here for your free Audible trial: http://www.audibletrial.com/afternoona*Audible is a sponsor of Afternoona Delight Podcast*

A KDrama fan? Listen to our sister podcast, Afternoona Delight - three best selling American novelists explore the wonderfully wacky world of K-Romance through a writer’s lens. Join them as they fangirl over the best characters, debate favorite tropes, and nerd out through K-drama deep dives. 

Or are your family and friends sick of you talking about K-drama? We get it...and have an answer. Join our AfterNoona Delight Patreon and find community among folks who get your obsession. And check out www.afternoonadelight.com for more episodes, book recs and social media goodness. 

Love BTS? Or curious what all the fuss is about? Check out our sister pod Afternoona Army for "thinky, thirsty and over thirty" takes on Bangtan life.

And don't forget about the newest member of our network, It's Bananas, because life doesn't make a lick of sense, but licking fruit does.