AHA Moments with Coach KA

The truth be told, the inner self is a truth seeker. The inner journey is a path that is a long and challenging path of entering into the eternal paradox that exists between your ego and your soul. The outer you is driven by the personal illusions we all create for ourselves, illusions we will do anything to maintain, especially if you have religious beliefs. The outer you fear looking at the truth whereas the inner you cannot rest until it sees the truth. When you enter into the inner journey and you return to your ordinary five sensory world, you will see it for what it is: illusions built upon temporary illusions. Then how will you now exist in a world that you so clearly understand to be driven by fear? No guru is going to save you. Reading about Jesus, Krishna or Lao Tzu is one thing, but following their examples and living your own life is another. Come join Coach KA as he shares in his personal experience in how he had to learn how to overcome his dark night of the soul along with understanding that a spiritual awakening comes with friction and separation from close friends and family alike, but the journey is a journey that is liberating to the soul.   

Religion, more than politics and economics, kills and cripples’ human evolution. More human beings have been murdered, tortured, discriminated against, humiliated, hated on, and even scorned because of religion. It’s not to say some individuals haven’t grown or benefitted from religion, but it’s to say looking at the bigger picture it was never meant to free humanity. If anything, it divides us because it never tells you the full story. Nonetheless one thing the rulers of this world couldn’t take away was God within ourselves. That's the spark that has us here, however having a pulse is one thing and having an awakening of the God impulse is another. There’s an ancient saying that says “For many are called, but few are chosen – Matt 22:14.” Since nobody can kill God there’s an invite that is transmitted within yourself, but for some reason only a few answer the invitation. There’s a reason why.  Let’s explore why with Coach KA - "The God Impulse" awaits you.

What does it mean to love? You cannot love what you do not see. Life does not come with a rulebook or deadlines for accomplishing certain things, however People high in self-love nourish themselves daily through healthy activities. Remember your value doesn't lie in how your body looks, but your body can reflect how you take care of yourself on the inside. Come explore with me the "Keys To Loving Yourself" first and make peace with anything that causes you self doubt or worry. Never assume you are only what you think you are. You are more than that. 

Do you know if you’re spiritually maturing or not? Do you get angry easily? Do you have self-control issues? Do you complain all the time? Have you been spiritual abused by religious leaders or leaders alike? Many of life’s implosions and explosions happen because you have learned to dismiss your own heart. In today’s episode we will talk about 7 ways to know if you’re NOT growing spiritually. There are more ways to know if you’re not growing, but I chosen these 7 ways because their common issues that can cause any of us to be stagnated in our development in growing and evolve into human beings. Without growth how will you ever know why you’re here? Growth is the process and everything else is secondary. It may not always feel good, but it’s worth the journey into self-discovery. 

If you're like most people, you probably associate courage with fearlessness, but that is not always the case. In fact, courage is taking action in spite of the fear you may feel. There are many people who have a fear to succeed than they do of failure, however it still takes courage to succeed. Being courageous can make you more successful in life because you're more likely to pursue your dreams, goals and seize opportunities as they present themselves. Both failure and success are teachers of life. You never really lose, but you can always learn from both sides of the spectrum. Both start in the mind, but as you embrace courage and incorporating it into your life you can increase your sense of happiness and fulfillment. The ancient text once said, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he” (Proverb 23:7a).

Have the thought every occurred to you that you have been lied to for just about everything in the world we are living in? They lied to us about sex, food, religion, school, politics, our bodies, God, history, and the list goes on. Money is neutral, however the bible mentioned that the love of money is the root of all evil (1 Timothy 6:10). Can loving money be too much? Is being poor exalted over having a love for money? Coach Ka wants you to know that out of all the lies being said about you and the world we are living in today that YOU MATTER!  

Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last Part II? If you are a guy, do you feel underappreciated or undervalued in your relationships? Do you feel disrespected when you are giving your ALL to your family, friends, and colleagues? Study shows that being a nice guy is a desirable trait in a long-term partner and even more desirable than good looks, however you must set the standard and not wait for others to set the standard for you. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment if you’re not being true to yourself. Let’s explore deeper into the collective mindset on “Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last.”

Imagine someone pointing out to you that you have a spot on your shirt or pants. A comment like that would probably make most of us self-conscious. Would you agree?  Nonetheless you’d probably be thankful for the heads-up if you were about to head into an appointment or meeting. Now imagine that situation, but with higher stakes, like your attitude at work or the way you behave with your spouse, partner, or friends alike. What would happen if we went through life unaware of how we treat others and thus unaware of how we are perceived or understood? In today’s episode, coach KA talks about the keys to self-awareness. The meaning of it and what are some of the benefits of being self-aware. Never assume you are only what you think you are. You are more than that.

Booker T. Washington once said “Associate yourself with people of good quality, for it is better to be alone than in bad company.”   So how do you know who a person of character really is? How do you gauge the kind and quality of company you keep? In this episode, Coach KA is on a mission to help develop Men and Women of Strong, Outstanding Character, and one of them is YOU. Discover the 7 qualities of who you need to become to uplift your life and let go of the people, places, things, and traits that are weighing you down.

Why do nice guys finish last? If you are a guy, do you lose several casual romantic relationships because you are perceived as feminine? Though several studies point to women’s discrepancy and inconsistency in choosing the nice and considerate guy for the bad boy; many more conclude that for keeps; they always end up with the nice person.

I have always seen that as the goal as lessons about life, love, self, kindness and goodness will be learnt. It seems that nice people don’t get the reward of what they want because they are seen as doormats but not all of them are. People can be nice, but also set boundaries as I have seen this in both genders exhibit this. The key is to know your worth and set boundaries as needed. You really don’t need to compromise your values to please others; kindness gets noticed by others who has a soul and gets rewarded accordingly.