Alex Solves It

Are you starting think that marrying your partner might be a good idea, but just for tax or insurance benefits? Hold on a minute! Be careful getting married for purely financial reasons! Let's talk about it.  

Are financial reasons a big motivator for you when deciding to get married? Leave me a comment. 

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Lasting change is 100% selfish, so you need to accept that your partner will not change for you. You can't reform them. They will not make lasting changes just because you desire it. So before you think about jumping into marriage and enacting some reform program on your unsuspecting boyfriend or girlfriend, watch this video.

What changes do you want your partner to make? Can you live with their imperfections and still be happy? Leave me a comment.

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You marriage decision-process depends 100% on honesty. So as you think about marrying a person, remember that you don't need to AGREE, but you do need to be HONEST with your partner! If you're honest, then you can smooth out any rough points and agree later. But if you hide your true thoughts, feelings, opinions, and intentions, then you're not only lying to yourself, you're deceiving your partner and robbing them of the chance to honestly decide if they want to marry you. Let's talk about it.

Are you having trouble being honest, with yourself or your partner? Leave me a comment.

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Nobody is perfect, but you do need to SETTLE on someone to get married. There will be things you like about each other and qualities you hate (hopefully not too many of those!), but the only way to move forward and get married is to settle.

Are you afraid to settle down and get married? Leave me a comment.

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Are YOU prepared to COMMIT to a human being? In what way? To have and to hold, forever? This may sound like a scary proposition, but YOU need to put on your 'adult pants' and figure this out before YOU decide to get married. Let's talk about commitment.

Are you scared to commit? Leave me a comment.

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Do YOU want to get married at all? Why? Is it because YOU want to? Or are your friends, family, boyfriend, girlfriend, etc. pushing you into a marriage you may not be comfortable with? Let's take a moment and reflect on this amazingly important question that could change the course of your life!

What are you reasons for getting married? Leave me a comment. 

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It can be a scary process when you're deciding to get married. In this video, I introduce my Deciding To Get Married 101 playlist. Full of short, simple, easy-to-use videos, this is the place to start when you're thinking about getting married. Enjoy!

Are you ready to make the right marriage choices? Leave me a comment.

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