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  • Phooey On Big Decisions

    Humans tend to make a big deal out of tiny problems. You've been trained your entire life — from your first homework assignment to your next job interview — to rely on fear to make decisions.

    You think that making the wrong decision means your life will crumble and wither away. And it makes sense — your ancestors needed this level of stress to survive in their times. But it only fills you with anxiety and dread in your modern life.

    In this episode, you'll learn why all decisions are equally important, how to recontextualize every decision you make, and how to live a more unshackled life.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • How ancient survival tactics cripple us with anxiety in our modern world (5:17)
    • The sneaky "S-word" that clouds your judgement and shuts down higher levels of reasoning (7:27)
    • The "Inventor's Secret" for effortlessly finding brilliant, life-altering insights (7:54)
    • The case for procrastinating on making life-changing decisions (9:36)
    • The single greatest oversight you make when trying to solve your problems (10:13)
    • How hiking helps you make dramatically better decisions (13:08)
    • How to improve your life doing nothing more than turning on your blinker (18:47)
    • The trick to instantly dwarf your biggest decisions (18:58)

    If you'd like to learn more about Doug's story I mentioned in today's episode, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/unshackled.

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    27 min
  • You're Not A Gun and You Don't Have Triggers

    Most addiction experts are flat out wrong. In fact, they usually trap you in a cycle of victimhood and helplessness that makes it impossible to ditch your addictions.

    This is especially true when "triggers" are brought up. But you're not a gun — so you don't have triggers. What you're doing is creating an excuse so you can feel better for falling back into your worst habits.

    In this episode, you'll learn the real cause of your triggers, how to eliminate them for good, and how to finally break free from any addictions you have.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • Why saying things in the dumbest way possible is the smartest decision you could make (1:58)
    • How thinking of your addiction as a disease is a guaranteed way to increase your suffering (3:13)
    • Why most addiction "experts" are brainless and incompetent noobs (3:23)
    • How you're "milking" your addiction to dupe the people around you to get what you want (5:33)
    • How modern science subconsciously tricks you into making excuses for your addictions (6:23)
    • The real reason you feel like a helpless victim to your addictions (8:19)
    • The trick for making all of your triggers completely disappear (9:54)
    • The unlikely source of all your suffering (14:00)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    24 min
  • The End of Relapse

    Relapsing is usually considered a bad thing. But is it really that bad?

    The problem is when you say "relapse," you've already placed a negative label on it.

    What if instead of labeling it as a negative event, you stepped back and saw it for what it truly was: Your brain signaling to you that your life could be improved.

    In this episode, I'm ending relapsing once and for all so you're never a prisoner to your habits and addictions again.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • The dirty "R-word" that is completely detrimental in your quest to find freedom (3:26)
    • This simple vocabulary tweak will help you finally dump your compulsive behaviors, bad habits, and addictions (3:40)
    • How your language brainwashes your perception of the world and makes life more difficult (5:02)
    • Why relapsing doesn't exist (15:24)
    • The real reason you're falling into a vicious cycle of your worst habits (17:47)
    • The case for celebrating "relapses" instead of beating yourself up (19:27)
    • How to stir up a tremendous amount of power to change your life without relying on willpower (21:10)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    23 min
  • The Illusion Of Control

    There are two main philosophies guiding all of our lives. You either try to take control of every aspect of your life. Or you trust in the cosmos that everything will work out.

    And both seem pretty silly on the surface. Trying to control everything never works and ends in anxiety, depression, and worry. But passively hoping that everything will work out is equally as dangerous to your success.

    However, trying to control everything is more dangerous than the other philosophy.

    Why?

    Because control is rooted in fear. It's true that you can't passively sit back and let life happen to you, but trying to control everything creates far more misery and destruction.

    In this episode, I'm sharing with you how to apply both of these philosophies in your own life so you can create a better, happier life instead of creating more agony and despair.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • Why relying on your intellect and reason will set you up for failure (9:16)
    • The hippy's profoundly powerful secret for living a life free of unnecessary problems, stress, and worry (11:15)
    • How logic and reason cage you in a rigid box without the key and deteriorates your life (12:13)
    • The sneaky way control sabotages your relationships (16:52)
    • Why trying to control every aspect of your life leads to anxiety and depression (19:50)
    • How thinking about your own death instantly evaporates most of your fears (26:25)
    • The trick to walk away free from addiction, suicidal thoughts, depression, and pain (27:13)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to thefreedomspecialist.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    29 min
  • The 5 masks Of Emotion, Part 2

    Most people don't realize there is only one true emotion. But you put masks over your true emotion and it makes you feel emotions that aren't actually there.

    Are you really struggling with anxiety or depression? It's usually more simple than that. All you need to do is look through the 5 masks of emotion to uncover why you feel the way you do. Hint: it's rarely because of a deeply held trauma you experienced before.

    In this episode, I reveal the last 3 masks of emotions so you can see through the facade of your emotions and start living a happier, more stress-free life.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • An admittedly absurd source of your gloomy emotions (4:09)
    • The trick for not being reactive to stressful situations life throws at you (9:43)
    • How to "tune in" to your body to eliminate anger and frustration before they bubble up (10:13)
    • One tiny "quirk" that helps you feel better in 60 seconds or less (11:42)
    • How society has hijacked your brain to poison your body every single day (13:43)
    • The danger with subconsciously stealing thoughts from others and interpreting them as your own (16:28)
    • How the position of your chin is the difference between the best and worst week of your life (17:52)
    • This is the only place every emotion you experience originates from (20:23)
    • The "TURBO and SNARL Method" for erasing your depression and anxiety (23:03)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    30 min
  • What If We're Wrong?

    When something goes wrong in your life, your first step is usually to figure out what happened and try to find a solution. And it makes sense — society has brainwashed us into thinking this is the only way to solve problems.

    But what you don't realize is that noticing a problem sets you up to create more problems in every facet of your life. What if there was an easier and better way to live your life?

    In this episode, I'm sharing the real way to eliminate all of your problems without going to war with them because you always create more problems for yourself by doing so. And I'll give you the framework to create more opportunities, freedom, and peace in your life than anything else.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • The #1 FBI Hostage Investigator's secret for creating win-win scenarios during tough times (9:56)
    • How an "us vs them" mentality deceives you into thinking you're solving a problem when you're actually making it worse (10:21)
    • The case for not trying to find and solve problems in your addictions, relationships, and life (12:04)
    • How you create enemies out of thin air without even realizing it (13:42)
    • Why always trying to win is the quickest route to defeat and disappointment (15:26)
    • The reason trying to attack your problems in life never works — even if you win (15:58)
    • The counterintuitive way to instantly eliminate all of your problems (18:05)
    • Why plants are better at solving problems than you (19:08)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to www.liberateaman.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    24 min
  • The Armor of God Part 2

    Life throws all sorts of attacks at you. Whether they come from life's circumstances, outside forces, or perhaps the most dangerous — internal thoughts that riddle your brain with doubt, insecurity, and fear.

    Too often, people let these attacks wear on them. The more you let these attacks happen, the more worthless you feel.

    But feeling worthless isn't a prerequisite to life. In fact, when you arm yourself with the Armor of God, it's possible to never feel worthless again. Your first step is to stop ruthlessly judging yourself and to realize you're already perfect, despite what life throws at you.

    In this episode, you'll learn how to cloak yourself with God's Armor so you can live a more free and productive life without an endless feeling of worry or doubt.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • What everyone gets wrong about living like Jesus that adds unnecessary suffering to your life (2:17)
    • Wrap yourself in this "F-word" and you'll become bulletproof to any internal or external attack (4:00)
    • Always feel like a victim to life's circumstances? Try doing this… (11:12)
    • The Navy Seal's secret for using failure to become wildly successful (11:43)
    • Harness this powerful "S-word" and you'll never feel worthless again (16:46)
    • This is the ultimate form of mental health protection (18:36)
    • The trick for not letting your thoughts run rampant and sabotage your life (19:07)
    • How to tap into your natural instincts so you can accomplish remarkable things with minimal effort (26:47)
    • The sneaky way your mind tricks you into analysis paralysis (27:24)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to www.liberateaman.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    32 min
  • The Armor of God? Part 1

    Imagine how much easier your life would be if you felt calm and at peace regardless of what life throws at you. Most of your internal battles with yourself would instantly vanish.

    Not only would this help you embody happiness, but it would make you more successful at any task you set out to achieve. Instead of having a vicious cycle of anger, anxiety, and worry you would create a cycle of peace, happiness, and prosperity.

    Then why don't more people live this way?

    They simply don't realize it's possible. And you don't have to look much further than Christian scripture to tap into the beliefs that make this probable.

    In today's episode, I'm sharing these scripture secrets with you so you can lead a better, happier, and more peaceful existence for yourself and every person in your life.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • Powerful and practical life lessons from Christian scripture that eliminates depression, anxiety, and addiction — even if you aren't a Christian (0:39)
    • The trick for protecting yourself from all of your invisible, internal struggles (3:37)
    • This is the surprising source for nearly all of your struggles… (4:10)
    • Why feeling happy robs your of true happiness (5:05)
    • How you're creating problems out of thin air (12:02)
    • The "P-word" that fills your life with peace and tranquility (18:08)
    • If you carry too much of this around, you're increasing your chances of heart disease and shortening your life (19:37)
    • Simple, easy, and straightforward routines you can do in 5 minutes or less that help you face any adversity with ease (21:05)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialists.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to www.liberateaman.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    27 min
  • The 5 Masks Of Emotion

    Are you a prisoner to the whims of your emotions?

    Most people are.

    Why?

    They struggle with cutting through the clutter of their emotions. Instead of taking action to change their emotions to a better state, they sit and dwell about what they're feeling.

    But it's easier to change your emotional state than you think. Because your emotions are usually wearing a mask — meaning they're not real emotions.

    In this episode, I'm sharing with you how to see through the 5 masks of emotion so you can take charge of your emotions and celebrate more freedom in your life.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • The surprising way your thoughts alter your body's chemistry (7:00)
    • How to finally stop being held hostage by your emotions (9:50)
    • The trick for completely changing your life by doing this simple and mundane task (22:03)
    • Why your emotional state isn't due to any deep-rooted issue most of the time (24:09)
    • Focus on these tiny shifts when you're feeling down and you'll be amazed by how much impact they make on your emotional state (24:44)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to www.liberateaman.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    26 min
  • The Problem With Problems

    Are your problems actually problems? Or are you creating problems out of thin air just so you can find a solution?

    More often than not, your problems are figments of your imagination you create so you can solve them.

    In this episode, I'm sharing how you've been conditioned to create problems out of thin air and how to change what you think about "problems" so you can have less struggle with your relationships and live a happier, more free life.

    Here Are The Show Highlights:

    • What the weather can teach you about your emotions (3:38)
    • Do you really know yourself? The answer might surprise you… (8:41)
    • Why judging yourself on your past behaviors, thoughts, and emotions is a recipe for self-loathing (8:44)
    • How you're trapping yourself in a cage of depression without even realizing it (10:40)
    • Here's where all of your problems come from (hint: it's not what you think) (14:30)
    • Remove this "P-word" from you vocabulary to instantly feel less anxious (15:22)
    • This is the absolute worst idea school brainwashed you into believing (15:42)
    • Why "problem-solvers" are the worst type of people on the planet (19:37)
    • What our entire society gets wrong that leads to unnecessary suffering (20:00)
    • The "hidden" addiction that's crippling all of your relationships (23:54)

    If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.

    If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the 'F' Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that's making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to www.liberateaman.com and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you've been missing.

    27 min

About Alive and Free

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It's time to rip the cover off what really works to finally ditch stress, anxiety, anger, addiction, depression, past trauma, chronic pain, and all other kinds of human suffering. No, not just relief, recovery, comfort, healing, or sobriety. We're talking the F word here — freedom — Happiness and well-being on autopilot.