All Things Bray

No, it’s not a worship song lol

Ever thought you were not good enough? that you were a failure waiting to happen, that you were one bad luck away from being discovered as a fraud?

In other words, Have you ever considered yourself to be an imposter only succeeding because of a streak of luck?

That’s a shame because I know for a fact that you are worthy and that you deserve every good thing that comes your way.

To my sisters, this episode confirms the irrefutable fact that you can be the head too and you’d do a mighty spiffing job.

Listen to this weeks episode and let it remind you in case you have forgotten that you are worthy!!!

💜Bray

This year really did a number on me and I’m not referring to 2020.

This doesn’t happen often but I’m lost for words to describe its impact on my life.

However every situation life throws our way is an opportunity to learn and missing the lesson in any situation is an open invitation for life to teach you all over again, often times with more intensity.

Do yourself a favour and learn the lesson the first time around and make sure you don’t forget.

Listen to the lessons I learnt this year and and don’t forget to wish me a Happy Birthday 😊

💜 Bray

Finding the courage to live true to your dreams or the plans you have set for yourself is hard.

Especially in Nigeria, where it seems the forces of the universe form an alliance to keep you from actualizing your vision.

From convincing your loved ones that your plans are worthwhile, to the discipline you’d have to inculcate and the backbreaking work you’d have to do if you are to stand a fighting chance, it is a battle every single step of the way.

Carving your own path is never easy but what good thing ever was?

Listen as Bray delves into details of this often lonely but rewarding journey.

It’s easy to fall into the slippery slope of comparing yourself to others. Some use it to feel good about themselves and their achievements while for others, it leaves them feeling unaccomplished.

Questions race through their minds like am I good enough? What is different about me? What do they have that I don’t? Do I have what it takes? Yadayadayada... Just hush, take a deep breath and listen to today’s episode

We live in a dysfunctional world where systems are not working and people are rarely held accountable for their actions.

We have a choice, we can choose to be part of the problem by promoting hate and oppressing others or we can be the change we need to see even if it might seem like a just a drop in a large ocean.

One way to go about that is by unlearning whatever bias or prejudice we might have. Quite frankly, just cut it out. The world does not need it.

Can You speak it? Your language, can you speak it? If yes, Congratulations you’ve made it in life. Lol, that’s what they like to think and feel like. If you’re like me that can not, don’t worry we go dey alright.

...One conversation, a simple moment

The things that change us if we notice, When we look up, sometimes...

These are the words of Alicia Keys in her song Underdog.

There are certain joys we would never experience if we do not take a moment to breathe and just be. These moments are RARE, so why waste any?

We all have fears. From little phobias to great terrors, we feel them. Listen to some of mine and maybe, just maybe you’ll find the courage to face yours.

Are you Asthmatic? Do you know anyone who is ? What do you think you know about Asthma? I’d bet it’s wrong. Join be on this episode where I debunk some of the myths surrounding asthma especially in the Nigerian society.

You should never have to shrink yourself to be accepted by others. This is to Living and Living Loudly.