All Things Human with Adele Wang

Have you been raised to be ashamed of being angry? Have you been told it's unspiritual?

If you've been raised to feel that anger is bad and you are on a spiritual growth or personal development path, this clip is for you.  Anger is a natural emotion that people are often scared to feel. But ignoring anger or trying to meditate it away can carry a heavy price. Disease, abuse,  depression, and a life unfulfilled -- these are often the result of people afraid to feel and tap into the messages their anger is sending them.

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A lot of the helping professions can be put into 4 basic quadrants. Most people are aware of 3 but there is 1 that is often missing that can add value if you're feeling stuck. And this one missing quadrant used to be more readily accessible in previous eras in man's history. It may be why many people feel lost today.

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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

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Many women find themselves attracting men they end up mothering. Whether it's on the dating scene or in more committed relationships, this dance can leave women feeling resentful, exhausted and frustrated. Even when there is plenty of love, women often don't understand why this pattern repeats itself.  In fact, women sometimes assume there is something within them that attracts needy men,

Like anything, the answer is often found on both sides of a relationship, and it's often hard to identify because so much lives in peoples' blind spots. Typically we only notice blind spots in others, and it is hard to see our own.

A mothering dynamic in partnership is not very sexy.  It can hold both people back from a more fulfilling relationship. The first step is to notice what is happening. That way you can take steps to change the subconscious dance that is going on between you and your partner.

Listen to this clip to see if you find what might be happening in your relationship. There are some basic patterns that tend to happen, even if the specifics are different for each couple. Tune in and get a sense of the difference between a mothering energy and a true fulfilling peer-to-peer relationship. 


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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out https://adelewang.lpages.co/linktree

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By far the number one challenge my clients face in relationships is this dance between the fear of being too independent and too dependent on others. Whether someone is hyper- independent and feeling lonely or codependent and needing constant support from other people, these issues are actually opposite sides of the same coin, the dance between independence and codependence.  It also results in either:

• Feeling exhausted and "strong" for everyone else but lonely inside
• Difficulty in letting people "in" and keeping a wall up
• Worry that they'll burden other people by sharing what bothers them
• Feeling resentful from always giving to others but not having people around who reciprocate back
  
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• Needing validation from other people to feel strong 
• Fear of being alone
• Fear of being "too much" for other people to handle, feeling like they have to tone themselves down somehow

Often people talk about the need for "balance". But what they tend to mean is a certain meeting in the middle of not-too-independent and not-too-codependent as being the solution.

But in my experience, an approach that invites people to be fully independent AND codependent helps people step into who they truly are, with no holds barred.  It often surprises people how resistant they are to an energy of what they don't want to be but already are.  The best intimacy comes from the freedom of being able to express both ends of the spectrum, and everything in between.

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If you're serious about a fun and awakening experience, don't miss this upcoming experience:

Next Spark Your Feminine Presence group: https://adelewang.lpages.co/spark-your-feminine-presence-notify-me/

I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out https://adelewang.lpages.co/linktree

Book a complimentary Discovery Conversation: https://my.timetrade.com/book/3MDN1

Or grab a free gift from me here, "The Ultimate Women's Stress Relief Guide":  http://usrg.safehavenhealing.net/

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Popular psychology and personal development thought leaders tend to emphasize the importance of qualities such as compassion, understanding, nurturing and unconditional love. If we could just be more of these things, our lives should be more manageable, right?  And yes,  these things are wonderful. BUT....

If you happen to be dog lover, you may recognize that these energies come from what mama dogs instinctively know are the "milk mom" energies of life. It's the energy they exude when they're tending to their young puppies. But there's another side of healthy momma dog energy that humans have sometimes lost touch with, a side that is equally important and instinctive. It's the  "push back/boundary" energy.

Without this "push back" energy, unhappy momma dogs and puppies result, as well as unhappy and dysfunctional humans.

Humans have lost the ability to wrestle and scuffle like pups to learn what boundaries feel like. People think boundaries is a technique or a concept more than a feeling. As a result, anytime there is a conflict in life, things feel emotionally scary. Everything feels like a fight to the death, and we lost our milk teeth a long time ago.

Today, learn from the wisdom of mama dogs everywhere and start to change your life. 

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Next Spark Your Feminine Presence group: https://adelewang.lpages.co/spark-your-feminine-presence-notify-me/

I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

Book a complimentary Discovery Conversation: https://my.timetrade.com/book/3MDN1

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Everyone wants a life of purpose, but what does that mean? And how do you figure it out? Purpose is one of those words that people intuitively feel is big and important in life, but it's hard to fully understand it at the same time.

Purpose goes beyond just consuming and living a life of leisure, which many people assume would be fabulous. But just consuming is rarely enough. People are wired to also have a natural impulse to create, contribute and connect.

But we don't have good guides to help us figure this part out. No one's purpose is to sit around and only relax every day for the rest of their lives. But what would it be? What would you do, once you had enough rest, all the money you needed, etc?

We'd want it to be enjoyable. But not in a passive consuming way, but one of active engagement.

"Wouldn't it be amazing if..."?

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If you're serious about a fun and awakening experience, don't miss this upcoming experience:

Next Spark Your Feminine Presence group: https://adelewang.lpages.co/spark-your-feminine-presence-notify-me/

I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out https://adelewang.lpages.co/linktree

Book a complimentary Discovery Conversation: https://my.timetrade.com/book/3MDN1

Or grab a free gift from me here, "The Ultimate Women's Stress Relief Guide":  http://usrg.safehavenhealing.net/

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Judgement can feel gross. What do you do if someone is judging you and you wish they really understood your side of things? Sometimes you have to be OK with being the villain in someone else's version of what happened.


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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

Book a complimentary Discovery Conversation: https://my.timetrade.com/book/3MDN1

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If you've ever privately wondered how and why modern life has become so disconnected, maybe this story will help. It's the story of man and how we got here. And it's based on what anthropologists have been saying for a while... 

Once upon a time, people lived in small bands and chased large game. 

Then one day someone discovered you could grow things from seeds, and everything changed...

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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

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The inner critic of a perfectionist is brutal.  It can make it hard for the perfectionist you love to feel supported the way you wish they did.  Tune in to this clip for tips on how to offer appreciation to a perfectionist in a way that doesn't accidentally feel like a back-handed compliment...

And if you're a perfectionist, this clip might help you better understand why you feel the way you do when people try to support you!

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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

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Many career women are exhausted. What can be done to make things a bit easier and less overwhelming? How can women be successful in business without sacrificing their happiness?

Join me as I discuss these issues with Cynthia Good. Cynthia is the owner of LittlePINKBook.com, the #1 magazine for career women. She is an international award-winning journalist, a popular speaker, and a voice for diversity and inclusion projects with many corporations.

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I've helped thousands of professional, spiritual, perfectionist women (and some amazing men) create happiness and success in an imperfect world. Clarifying and honing in on your life's purpose is essential for reaching your full potential. What is it you're meant to be doing? You have one life. Make it glorious, bodacious and fulfilling. For more information on me, check out linktr.ee/AdeleWang

Book a complimentary Discovery Conversation: https://my.timetrade.com/book/3MDN1

Or grab a free gift from me here, "The Ultimate Women's Stress Relief Guide":  http://usrg.safehavenhealing.net/

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