Allo and Ace

TW - General Sex Talk

In this Episode, we discuss clarifications from Episode 19 and on top of that, discuss what it looks like to make clear agreements in a relationship especially when it comes to understanding each other better in an asexual relationship but also how that can strengthen communication in your relationship too.

TW - SEX and Substance Use

Look. We get it. Monogamies isn't a word. That's fine. This episode is about both Ethical Non-Monogamy and Ethical Monogamy. Most people don't consider the fact that their monogamous relationship may not be ethical. Who decides that? Well the answer is the both of you.

Lately, Jessi has been feeling guilty because she feels like she is forcing celibacy on me and we compare the relationship to the Cost Suck Fallacy and is that the only reason why I am afraid to say I need more?

Well, tune in and find out.

TW - Sex

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Today Jessi wanted to continue her discussion about looking back to few days before realizing she was Asexual and what that looked like. Along with that, realizing the masks that we wear for good or bad and why the sexual persona is such a difficult persona to shed and what that means in a relationship. That can be hard for both the Asexual partner and Allosexual partner.

TW - Sex talk and compliance

Today we talk more about Compliance and clarify some of the things we talked about in Episode 16. We talk about the boundaries needing to be clear to help prevent sexual compliance and we talk about what getting behaviors are and when they might be good but when they certainly are not good.

TW: This whole episode is about SA in the form of Sexual Compliance and Sex

We discuss the various forms of asexuality including the level of Favorability or Repulsness of sex and how Sexual Compliance can sneak into the relationship.

Importance of Consent and Boundaries as well as societal pressures, and miss-information when it comes to asexuality being psychological or a hormone imbalance.

We discuss communication and issues around communication as well as boundaries and how difficult this episode was for Jessi.

TW - General sex talk - Not Graphic

Today we discuss a few education moments that Jessi had one being a trigger and one being with her Asexual son.

We then discuss Rejection going both ways for not only the Allosexual partner with sex but also the way that the Asexual partner is not only rejected by society but also by their partner.

TW - Sex experience discussed

In this episode, we go back to discussing boundaries like in Episode 3 but talking about being nice to yourself as an asexual for making mistakes when trying to figure out your boundaries as well as for the Allosexual to have patience and being kind to yourself and your Asexual partner when it comes to boundaries and reactions that happen.

TW - Sex, Kissing, Touching etc.

Today we discuss live some boundaries that have come up recently.

We read a negative review that says they don't know a single "sexual" (they refuse to say Allosexual) person who views sex as a higher form of intimacy and that there isn't a hierarchy to intimacy. And we discuss the perceived sexual hierarchy.

We also discuss more in depth where we ourselves may place our own requirements to stay in a relationship.

TW - Sex Talk

In this episode of our podcast, we start off with some clarification and a story about a sexual intimate experience before we dive into the main part of the podcast which we get into the intricate interplay between ego, identity, and personal growth within the asexual community. This episode explores how a balanced and healthy ego can empower asexual individuals to navigate their unique identities and experiences with confidence and resilience.

We start by defining ego and its role in shaping our sense of self, highlighting the positive aspects of a healthy ego in affirming one's asexual identity. Our discussion then moves to the challenges that asexual individuals often face, such as societal misconceptions and pressure to conform to sexual norms, and how a robust sense of self can act as a shield against these external pressures.

Throughout the episode, we emphasize the importance of personal growth and how if not checked, an inflated ego can be harmful.

TW - Sex

Today we talk about a couple take aways that Jessi had from her therapy session today and then we dive into imposter syndrome and how that affects Asexuals in negative ways by society, expectations and ways to over come them. We talk about Allosexual people and some of the imposter syndrome they can have in an Asexual relationship and how that it can possibly lead to negativity in the relationship.