In this episode, Aly chats with Rachel Wainz and Arielle Kaplan Of Balls Deep Podcast about de stigmatizing the conversation surrounding masturbation and self pleasure for people with vulvas. They touch on the orgasm gap, the pressures of cumming as a cis heterosexual woman having sex with men and what their own self pleasure practices look like, including vibrators, ethical porn and silk kimonos.
Rachel is a Brooklyn-based writer and comedian. She is a co-host of Balls Deep, a weekly sex and comedy podcast that helps normalize conversations around sex by talking candidly about her own experiences and breaking down the latest in sex news.
Arielle Kaplan is a Jewish writer, speaker, and media personality. She co-hosts Balls Deep, a weekly sex news and comedy podcast, creates sex memes on the popular @whoregasmic Instagram account, and hosts And God Was Like, a raunchy comedy Torah series. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram: @buffyfangirl94
*Please note that Aly said the Forbes article statistic incorrectly: "A study found that 39% of women said they always orgasm when they masturbate, compared to 6% during sex. Link to article: https://www.forbes.com/sites/alicebroster/2020/07/31/what-is-the-orgasm-gap/?sh=6f5e231360f8