AM I TOO LOUD?! with The Odditty

PODD FAM!!

Today on Am I Too Loud?!, we’re talking about the pressure to have it all before 30 beacuse my 29th birthday was just last week and we need to talk!

From the dream career, to wanting all the money in the world, that dream body, the relationship, the purpose, the dream life… everything!

In this episode, I’m unpacking my solo birthday trip, some pre-birthday anxiety and just general thoughts on aging and being almost 30!

Let’s talk about getting older, running out of time, and maybe giving ourselves a little more grace before we lose our minds completely.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Welcome Back & I'm Officially 29!
04:45 Birthday Trip to Civana Wellness Resort in Arizona
24:01 Top Three Birthdays Ever & Why This Trip Was So Special
25:38 The Pressure of 29: Running Out of Time Before 30
30:37 Aging Naturally: No Botox, No Filler, Just Existing in My Body
32:18 Maybe a Few Maybes But Definitely No Regrets: Missing Forbes 30 Under 30
35:03 My 30th Birthday Party is Going to Be INSANE
38:13 You Cannot Come and Kill Yourself: Pour Into Yourself More
39:04 Live Your Life For You Baby & Weekly Episode Updates

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PODD FAM 💚

Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, our guest is Olive Okoro, better known as @digital.olive, Founder of Queer Motherland, creator, advocate, and community builder.

In this special PRIDE MONTH episode, Olive joins the PODD for an honest conversation about being African, queer, and still choosing to belong fully to yourself. You know those conversations you’ll remember for a long time and that would change lives… this is one of them.

This conversation explores what it means to exist loudly in a world that often asks queer Africans to shrink and what it actually takes to choose freedom, softness, community, and self-acceptance.

Olive Okoro is on Am I Too Loud?!

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CHAPTERS

00:00 Welcome Back & Happy Pride Month!
00:53 Birthday Plans
05:19 Coming Out & Being Queer as an African Woman
11:58 Meet Olive Okoro: Founder of Queer Motherland
17:26 Colonization, Religion & being gay
17:55 FIFA World Cup
22:48 Using Queer People as Scapegoats in African Politics
24:47 Growing Up Nigerian in America: Olive's Story
27:33 Coming Out to Family
31:39 Fear, Hope & Strength in Being African and Queer
34:10 Religion, Shame & Deconstructing Christianity
36:17 Praying to Be Gay
39:27 Islam, Christianity & Organized Religion
44:25 Radical Imagination & Fighting for a World That Doesn't Exist Yet
44:47 Legalization Across Africa & A Safer World for Queer Africans
48:38 South Africa's Pride Journey & Hope for the Future
50:27 Queer Joy & The Dream of Holding Hands in Public
52:12 Dating as a Queer African: Meeting on Hinge & 11 Days to Girlfriend
54:04 Why Olive Only Dates Out People & The African Dating Pool
56:09 Green Flags: Smart, Kind & Emotionally Regulated Partners
57:24 Lies, Omissions & Emotional Irregularities: The Red Flags
1:00:48 Podd Fam Q&A: How Do I Support My Gay Friend?
1:02:47 I'm Christian & Can't Support Gay People: Our Response
1:08:22 My Parents Love Me But Won't Accept This Part of Me
1:10:40 Culture vs Children: Who Do You Choose?
1:12:49 Dating Someone Who's Not Out: When to Walk Away
1:18:23 Follow Queer Motherland & Final Thoughts

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PODD FAM 💚

After two weeks away, Am I Too Loud?! is back and better. This week, The Loud Report has moved to FRIDAYS and on today’s episode we have commentator, creator, and writer Simone Umba.

We talked about Simone’s background, finding her voice online, and what makes good commentary in an internet culture where everyone has a take. Then they get into OUR FYP’s: Love Island USA and UK, Emma Grede discourse again, the FIFA World Cup, viral trends, creator economy drama, and the stories making everyone ask, “are we okay?”

Podd Fam, I missed you.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Welcome Back & The Loud Report Begins!
02:20 Meet Simone Umba: Pop Culture Commentator & Creator
07:58 From Bio Major to Full-Time Creator: Simone's Journey
11:15 Love Island USA Deep Dive: Sincere, Melanie & Soul
17:31 KC & Anaya: Different Backgrounds, Different Love Languages
21:09 Kenzie & Corbin: Just Horny & Mixed Baby Dreams
26:57 Love Island UK vs USA & Treating Black Women Like Trash
29:00 Patrick Ta, Emma Grede & Painted by Esther: The Blush Drama
36:18 Black Women Can't Win: Resources, Capital & Systemic Barriers
43:35 Children of Blood and Bone, Black Movies & Representation Matters
48:27 Sprinkle Dot Cake, Sugar Overload & Expensive Dental Bills
50:45 Michelle Obama Disrespect, Trans Panic & Who Decides Womanhood?
55:26 19-Year-Old Child Bride Married to 28-Year-Old Man
58:10 Tourist Thrown Off Bridge in Brazil & Vacation Discernment
1:01:24 World Cup 2026: Congo vs Nigeria & Messi vs Ronaldo

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It’s the 6 month mark of the year and, PODD FAM… we need to talk. not in a “my life is falling apart” way, but in a “wait, am i actually becoming the person i keep saying i want to become?” way. this episode is about growth, limbo, discipline, disappointment, ambition, self-love, and the very rude realization that being busy is not the same thing as being aligned. i talk about feeling like i’m growing in multiple areas of my life at once, why that feels so uncomfortable, what i thought this year would look like, what it actually looks like, and how i’m trying to stop romanticizing my potential and start becoming her for real. ENJOY :)

00:00 IT'S ALREADY JUNE?!
03:19 Life Updates: Apartment Hunting & Almost a Year Without a Home
04:48 Six Month Reality Check: Am I Living My Dream Life?
18:11 Trigger Warning: Feeling Suicidal & Mental Health Check-In
20:16 Regulating Your Emotions & Making Your Thoughts Reality
23:10 My 45% Performance Rating: Breaking Down My 2026 Goals
26:31 Fitness & Health: Running Three Times a Week & My Struggles
34:10 Career & Social Media: The Things I'm NOT Doing
35:58 Busy Does NOT Mean Aligned: The Hard Truth
37:13 Passive Living vs Active Living: Choosing Your Life
39:47 Self-Love is Discipline: Following Through on Promises to Yourself
40:31 Your Dream Life Needs Boring Structure
46:19 Freedom Without Structure is Chaos: What I've Learned
47:15 I Want to Win: Choosing Myself & Prioritizing Me First
51:28 Starting Over at the Six Month Mark & Birthday Month Plans

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PODD FAM 💚

Today on Am I Too LOUD?, we’re flipping the TikTok trend “reasons why you wouldn’t be my friend” into a full episode: reasons why you shouldn’t listen to my podcast.

In this solo episode, I’m talking honestly about what this podcast stands for — queerness, womanhood, feminism, honesty, loudness, and creating a space where we can tell the truth without shame. We are also talking about Patrick TA, Painted by Esther and Jackie Aina!

This might be my favorite episode yet!!

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00:00 IT'S ALREADY MAY!!
07:38 Hot Topic: Patrick Ta & Painted by Esther Drama Explained
12:26 Am I Too Loud If I Say He Didn't Owe Her Anything?
18:12 Cancel Culture, Accountability vs Crucifixion & Jackie Aina
22:40 We Need All Types of Black Women: Messy to Perfect
25:21 Why You Should NOT Listen to This Podcast
30:22 Don't Listen If You're Homophobic
34:17 I'm a Feminist & Women Don't Need to Be Perfect
40:07 Don't Listen If You're Judgmental or Want Perfect Advice
42:32 Culture Should Be Questioned & Life Updates

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Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re finally having the money conversation. In this episode, I’m talking about my complicated relationship with money: growing up in Lagos, watching my mom give even when she barely had enough, learning to see money as a blessing instead of a tool, coming to America as an immigrant student, surviving college on basically fumes and prayer, and then suddenly making influencer money that completely changed my brain.

We’re getting into the guilt of sending money home, the pressure immigrant kids carry, why boundaries are necessary even when you love your family, and how social media can warp your relationship with money when everyone online looks richer, younger, softer, shinier, and more booked than you. I’m also talking about my first brand deals, going from $150 a month to getting paid thousands for content, learning about savings, taxes, investments, financial responsibility, and why financial freedom is really the soft life.

This episode is personal, funny, honest, slightly chaotic because your girl was sick, and also sponsored by SENDWAVE — my first official podcast sponsor,

Use my code “ODDITTY” for $10 credit off your first time transfer or click this link https://try.sendwave.com/kjap/qxalfv1s with that being said, Let’s talk about money, PODD FAM.

00:00:00 First Podcast Sponsor
00:04:30 Sendwave Ad Read
00:08:45 Life Update: Sick, Still Recording & Still Yapping
00:15:20 Why We’re Talking About Money
00:19:00 Growing Up in Lagos & My Mom’s Money Philosophy
00:28:35 Money as a Blessing vs. Money as a Tool
00:36:50 Coming to America as an Immigrant Student
00:44:10 College, Class Differences & Feeling Broke Around Rich Kids
00:53:00 My First Brand Deal & Influencer Money Changing My Brain
01:02:30 Learning Financial Responsibility the Hard Way
01:10:45 Sending Money Home, Guilt & Boundaries
01:20:15 Social Media, Black Girl Luxury & Comparing Wealth Online
01:29:40 Rich vs. Wealthy: Financial Freedom Is the Soft Life
01:36:10 Advice Column: Making Money as a Young Adult
01:42:30 Saving Habits, Paychecks & Money Boundaries
01:49:00 Immigrant Guilt, Family Pressure & Enjoying Your Money
01:56:20 Women, Relationships & Separate Money
02:00:10 Comparing Yourself to Rich Women Online
02:06:00 Closing Thoughts

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Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we're getting into ALL the tea from the past few weeks because your girl has been MIA and I'm back with opinions, gossip, and so much pop culture chaos. Trying out this new series where I share my loudest opinions around all things POP CULTURE! From Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson's breakup to the Met Gala 2026 fashion, the Rihanna vs Tyla vs Ayra Starr drama, James Charles dragging an unemployed fan, and Kevin Hart's controversial roast, we're covering it ALL.

I'm also getting real about mental health, lack of discipline, and why I've been inconsistent with the podcast. We're talking about monogamy, dating culture, colorism in the music industry, why the AMVCA and Met Gala shouldn't be compared, the hantavirus cruise ship conspiracy theories, and why the Ayra Starr vs Tyla discourse is rooted in pitting women against each other. Plus, I'm breaking down why Kevin Hart's roast was uncomfortable but necessary, and whether we're all just too sensitive now.

This episode is messy, unfiltered, and exactly what you need. Let's get into it, PODD FAM!

00:00:00 Welcome Back & Life Updates
00:09:25 Mental Health Check-In & Lack of Discipline
00:10:54 Megan Thee Stallion & Klay Thompson Breakup
00:21:15 Met Gala 2026 Recap & Fashion Commentary
00:24:50 Rihanna vs Tyla Drama Explained
00:33:21 Ayra starr vs Tyla: Colorism & Pitting Women Against Each Other
00:37:02 AMVCA vs Met Gala: Why the Comparison Doesn't Work
00:39:45 Hantavirus Cruise Ship Conspiracy Theories
00:41:39 James Charles Drags Unemployed Fan
00:47:48 Kevin Hart Roast: Too Far or Perfect Comedy?
00:54:21 Closing Thoughts & What's Next for the Podcast

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PART 2!!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down to finish the conversation from last week on sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud. In this part 2, we dive into relationships, dating and so much more.

From our first boyfriends, to halal dating and to arranged marriages? They're unpacking first crushes, living authentically, dating experiences and what it means to truly reclaim your choice as a woman.

This is the finale Part 2 of a two-part series. 

00:00 Welcome to the Crossover: Dating as Black Muslim Women
03:40 First Crushes & Early Dating Experiences
09:35 Rejection, Unrequited Love & Learning Patterns
11:47 Dating After Trauma & Reclaiming Choice
15:50 Age Gaps, Coercion & Things That Happened To Us
20:26 Sexual Assault, FGM & The Consequences of Choice Being Taken
23:58 Marital Rape, Blue Balls & The Double Standard
36:00 Religion, Queerness & What the Texts Actually Say
41:57 Sinners Judging Sinners & Living Authentically
52:22 Fear of Family Reaction & What We're Really Risking
1:01:46 Boundaries, Intentionality & Choosing Yourself Always

Content note: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, FGM, and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

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PODD FAM 💚

Today on Am I Too LOUD?!, we’re getting into Coachella chaos, so much internet drama from BRAN FLAKES and STARBUCKS to OLANDRIA, and Children of Blood and Bone and so much more!!

From the reality of being a creator and losing friends, to why some conversations around sex, shame, patriarchy, and Black Muslim womanhood still feel so radical, this episode goes there. I’m also breaking down what Coachella actually is, why it’s called the influencer Olympics, my own experience with VIP vs. artist guest passes, and why I’m not there this year. We get into influencer hate, bran flakes, performative activism, Justin Bieber’s performance choices, Davido at Coachella, Revolve Fest drama, toxic fandoms, Black fantasy finally getting its moment, the Harry Potter reboot discourse, and why moving in silence is feeling more necessary than ever.

Enjoy PODD FAM!!

00:00 Welcome Back & WITWIS?
02:46 The Reality of Being a Creator & Losing Friends
03:20 Crossover Episode with Ismatou & On Our Terms Podcast
07:41 The Sex Episode: Black Muslim Women Breaking Silence
09:41 Women Still Have So Much Work To Do
11:36 Surnames, Patriarchy & Unlearning What We've Been Taught
13:31 What is Coachella? The Influencer Olympics Explained
17:22 My Coachella Experiences: VIP vs Artist Guest Pass
23:27 Why I'm NOT at Coachella This Year
25:37 Influencers at Events: Stop the Hate
28:40 Bran Flakes, Starbucks Drama & Performative Activism
34:04 Justin Bieber's Performance & Artistic Choice
36:15 Davido at Coachella & Celebrating Afrobeats
31:03 Revolve Fest Drama & Not All Influencers Are Rich
41:01 Love Island Fandom Toxicity: Olandria & Nick
44:19 Children of Blood and Bone: Black Fantasy is HERE
46:10 Harry Potter Reboot, JK Rowling & Fantasy Casting Discourse
51:00 Moving in Silence: When People Know Too Much
57:41 Alex Earl vs Alex Cooper Drama & White Girl Tea
1:00:12 Final Thoughts & What's Next for the Podcast

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IT’S ABOUT DAMN TIME!! In today’s episode, Ismatou (On Our Terms) and Sofi (Am I Too Loud?!) sat down for the conversation they've both been circling for years. The one about sex, silence, shame, and everything Black Muslim women were never supposed to say out loud.

From the sex talk that never happened to the cultural double standards that shaped how they learned about their own bodies, this episode is raw, honest, and long overdue. They're unpacking what happens when religion gets weaponized, when silence does more damage than the thing everyone's afraid to name, and what it actually takes to start unlearning all of it.

This is Part 1 of a two-part series. 

00:00 Content Warning & Welcome to the Crossover
01:12 Why This Conversation Terrifies Us
10:46 When Did Sex Become Forbidden?
17:05 Boarding School, Boys & Early Experiences
28:34 The Silence vs The Shame
39:43 Virginity, Religion & What We Were Actually Taught
51:08 Blue Balls, Guilt & Sexual Coercion
58:47 Trigger Warning: FGM - Taking Away Choice
1:09:46 Control Disguised as Culture & Religion
1:16:55 Your Body, Your Choice - Closing Thoughts

Content note: This episode includes discussions of sexual assault, FGM, and trauma. Listener discretion is advised.

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