Before I met Larry, the love of my life, I definitely had a list of things that I would consider a no-go, and I wouldn’t even say that Larry necessarily checks all the boxes that I thought I was looking for. But now, I am in my ideal relationship, and I can tell you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is my person, and that list of checkboxes doesn’t even matter any more. So let’s look at your list and see where we can change your thoughts so that you can create the result of calling love in.