Amazonian Talk

It's interesting how men expect there to be only 3 things we do for the vagina AKA the Pink Garden. There's definitely a lot more women have to consider and "take care of" besides keeping her clean, giving birth and sex. 

 

Sources: New Dimensions in Women's Health 3rd Edition

As complicated as it may seem, your hair is YOUR hair and Black women shouldn't be shamed into accepting their hair as unruly! Black and biracial women with kinky/coily hair were (and still are) tasked with "taming" the way their hair grows.  Why is that an expectation? How did that even come about in the first place? Was it because it was considered not manageable or was it because their hair is just simply misunderstood.

Umm...we think not... sometimes we don't want to share and think about others 100% of the time, especially when we want something specific to eat and a break from cooking.  So don't expect us to share our stash or the place we go to eat our stash.

Are the expectations of the girlfriends accurate? It's interesting how we set our own expectations and often fail at them because we think those are the expectations our friends set for us.

Don't expect us to do all the work and us to flip on like a light switch. We want to have fun too, and have fun getting there....if you know what we mean...Pickle on a Nipple. WELCOME to season 2!!!

One-liners are not enough to express that your listening. Don't expect us not to be irritated when you don't invest your time in our thoughts.

There are other ways to get what you want without being a massive coupon hustler, but still saving money and getting free stuff. Why are we expected not to redeem our freebies and then be guilted by others when doing so.

We have become desensitized to "Thank You" and we don't appreciate it anymore. Acts of service, please.

Are you always right? Are you sure you're right? Are you understanding when you're wrong?

Why has #SEX become a chore, and is now expected of us to always provide it in a timely manner? Doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman.