I grew up Catholic.  But I was a born non-believer, doubter, contrarian who just couldn't get with the program.  Yet, there I was kneeling and praying and shouting to the highest mountain and going through the motions but petrified that I was going to Hell because I didn't feel the spirit.  Any spirit.  In fact, I was pretty certain the whole thing was silly.  And that is why I should be your life coach and spiritual guru.  I have seen both sides of the issue.  I am objective.  And I care.  I want you to thrive.  Let's get started.