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- Day 297: The Plight of the Aimless Waiter
What are you waiting for? What are you so afraid of?
Radical's original video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Caqf5_o9YUsThe Plight of the Lonesome Bodybuilder: https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/index/plight-of-the-lonesome-bodybuilder-part-1
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw
Want coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?
2 options:
1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter6 min - Day 296: "Now's Not the Right Time, I'll do it Later"
Why waiting until you've "taken a bit more action" before taking the help you need is you holding yourself back & delaying your own success.
Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iDtOTenerDw
Want coaching with me, hardcore results and an elite dating/sex life?
2 options:1) Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
2) Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter20 min - Day 295: Infield: PlaytimeIsOver Hits on 27 Girls
NOTE: I really REALLY recommend you watch the video for this episode, and NOT just listen to the audio: https://youtu.be/2MpSjd90KzY
"It's going to take me 5 to 9 months to start hitting on girls" turns to "Holy shit I just hit on 27 girls and got a couple of dates in just a few days". Here's how we made it happen.
Want coaching like PlaytimeIsOver had with me?
2 options:
Group coaching - weekly group coaching calls + daily access to me in our private Facebook community - you'll join our community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
Go all-in and join my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 weekly sessions with me + the group coaching program above also included). Only if you're absolutely SERIOUS about building an awesome life. Apply here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
How I beat my own approach anxiety & learned to hit on girls:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/how-i-beat-my-approach-anxiety/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter34 min - Day 294: Approaching with a WINGMAN (Is it Cheating?)
Why playing on nightmare mode is retarded, & why taking a mate out with you to talk to girls can make all this a LOT easier (and a lot more FUN).
Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching & a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (it's free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw
Topics covered:- About 40 or so percent of my approaches were with a friend, just walking around talking to girls casually if we saw anyone we liked
- People worry about it being a crutch
- When you build an awesome sex life, or find a kickass girlfriend, do you really think you'll give a shit that you had to use some "crutches"?
- I care about RESULTS, about you becoming the person you want to be. I don't give a shit how you get there (as long as you're not hurting anyone or hurting yourself, obviously)
- Stop obsessing about the METHOD, & start obsessing about the GOAL or the END RESULT
- Approaching with a friend or wingman makes this stuff 100 times easier.
- It's more social - you feel a little less weird being by yourself walking around
- You can push each other, especially if one of you is lacking motivation.
- You can tell your friend beforehand what you need from him - eg I'd often say "Today can you make me talk to 5 girls" & my mates would make me do it.
- When you're feeling the anxiety, the nervousness, you have your mate there to make you do it & talk you into it.
- Fun things to do:
- 10 min stopwatch, both gotta talk to a girl each
- Can't talk til both talk to a girl
- Both walk around,just have a chill day talking to each other, occasionally talk to girls
- Take turns talking to girls - you talk to one, then your mate, then you again, then your mate, etc
- Go out with a group of guys, & just go off talking to girls individually
- You can also talk to girls TOGETHER (as in, 2 of you talk to a pair of girls).
- You can point out girls you know the other person will like (over time you'll learn each other's "type")
- You can then hit on EACH OTHER's type (you hit on his type of girl, he hits on yours). That makes you a lot more open minded, hitting on girls you wouldn't normally talk to.
- You can try each other's styles - it's likely you'll both have different styles of talking to girls, you'll probably say different things, etc. Do each other's styles.
- One of my mates always walked up & just said "Hey, you single?" So I did that for a while.
- I liked to walk up to girls & say "Hey!" with a HUGE smile on my face, & just grin at them for like 10 seconds until they started grinning back, then I'd say "What are you smiling at? Why are you so happy?" & they'd laugh. My mate did that for a while to try it.
- Give each other challenges, like silly things to say to girls, etc.
- Yes to some extent you want to remember that you're HITTING ON GIRLS not just saying silly things to make them laugh - but you can do BOTH. A bit of humour thrown in there makes this fun, it makes girls laugh, & reminds you this is all meant to be fun.
- Just make sure you still ask for phone numbers & tell the girl she's cute/hot/attractive/sexy/pretty whatever you want to say. Make it clear you're HITTING ON HER, not just making her laugh.
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter26 min - Day 293: But What If She Gets FEELINGS For Me? (Casual Relationships)
How to be honest and upfront about what you want from a casual relationship, so the scary question of "What if she gets too attached to me??" doesn't even come up.
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw
Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter39 min - Day 292: COMPLACENCY: The Reason Your Relationship is Failing
Why you and your girl both need to build your OWN separate lives if you want a successful relationship.
Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/j_xXaORGFVE
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide (free): https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfwWant DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter34 min - Day 291: This Guy Hit on His First Girl Ever
Super proud of one of my coaching clients who put himself out there and hit on his first girl ever. Also, I got a tattoo.
Watch this ep on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ltx-iXRAOug
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw
Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
Need my highest-level of coaching (1-on-1 with me) & are absolutely SERIOUS about going all-in? Apply here:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter34 min - Day 290: It's My Birthday, So Let's DESTROY All Your Limiting Beliefs
You will almost NEVER feel like you can achieve something, until you're halfway to victory. Here's how to not let your limiting beliefs stop you from getting started.
Group coaching + daily access to me to ask me questions and get support with your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
1-on-1 coaching with me, let's kick some serious ass together: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter30 min - Day 289: I Just Got Stood Up :(
Yep, getting stood up happens to us all. The answer? Have a backup plan.
Group coaching + daily access to me to ask me questions and get support with your goals: https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/
1-on-1 coaching with me, let's kick some serious ass together: https://killyourinnerloser.com/coaching-sfw
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter10 min - Day 288: Send a Goddamn Confirmation Text!
The best way to cut down on flakes and being stood up.
Read my massive 130,000-word Get Laid on Tinder Guide: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-sfw
Want DAILY access to me, weekly group coaching and a community of like-minded dudes who'll have your back? I've got just the thing you're looking for - my Become a Winner coaching program:
https://killyourinnerloser.com/the-winners-club/🤝 The Abundance Collective (Our affordable coaching community $100/month) - https://kyil-extra.com/abundancecollective
🏆 DIRECT VIP ACCESS TO ANDY - HARDCORE COACHING PROGRAM:
Come be part of my life-changing coaching program, get DIRECT access to me (Andy) & dominate your goals: https://kyil-extra.com/coaching$200 coaching call with Andy (limited to 1 per person) - https://kyil-extra.com/short-coaching-call
▬ Play to Win! (Video Course) ▬▬
😊 THE CHEATCODES TO LIFE that I learned while going from depressed to living a life of abundance & joy: https://playtowinmindset.com▬ Socials ▬▬▬▬▬▬
▶️ My YouTube (with additional content not released on here): https://www.youtube.com/@Andy_Wells
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andywellsishere
Twitter: https://x.com/andywellsishere
📧 My Email Newsletter: https://killyourinnerloser.com/newsletter10 min
About Andy Wells
From the publisher's feed
I'm Andy - I went from depressed & suicidal to living a live of abundance & joy. If I can do it, you sure as hell can too.
I went from depressed, suicidal, obese & alone…
to a life full of friends & love, having plenty of wild sexual adventures, 3somes and more, making 5-figures a month from my coaching, helping other men and women live a life that's true to themselves, & living my own abundant & peaceful life I'm incredibly grateful for. Best of all, this community - you guys and gals - have come to feel like my family. Life is amazing, and I'm here to help you follow in my footsteps.
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