Any Way You Want It

By Cailin McDuff

Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Ca... more

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The podcast currently has 97 episodes available.

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December 22, 2020EP 6: Listening to the Voice of Anger with Robert Holden
Rob is an ecologist who worked for 12 years in climate science as a field technician and research engineer, and he spent almost a decade living in the Swedish Arctic. Now he’s a life coach supporting people through dark times, anxiety, trauma, and depression.
Listen in as we discuss:
The beauty that is found in the darkness.
Playing out family patterns.
Listening to the voice of anger and allowing it to make a difference
Going with your gut (even when your head wants to talk you out of it)
Feeling your feelings and pain and the power of having someone to say, "you're not crazy!"
Crying your heart out
What we need right now in a grieving world
The climate conversation as a spiritual conversation.

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Rob's Email address
[email protected]

Rob's Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/robert.holden.526/

Rob's Website:
RobertHoldenCoaching.com
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46min
December 15, 2020EP 5: Pandemic Swiping: Communication & Vulnerability with Dan Faill
As we were heading into month 4 of the pandemic this past June, Dan Faill and I had not received physical touch or intimacy in months. Needless to say, we were both hungry. Cautiously optimistic about creating some safe COVID connection, we both logged onto Tinder. A few FaceTime conversations later, we decided to plan a COVID date - cooking dinner at my house (with an understanding that we were both interested in intimacy).
Listen in as we unpack our COVID date (including the steamy details of our sex) and what we learned. Dan is the PERFECT partner to talk vulnerability and honesty in dating. Since 2010, he has traveled the country consulting, coaching and delivering impactful and fun keynotes around creating conversations that matter.
This, my friends, is a conversation that matters,
Listen in as we discuss:
Communicating from desire in dating
The power of honesty, directness, and authenticity in online dating
Creating intimacy expectations through honesty and safety in a COVID dating world
The hilarity of coming up with date ideas in a COVID world
How to set the stage for a women to fully be able to receive and open
Touching edges of vulnerability in intimacy

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Dan's Website
www.danfaill.com

Dan's Email address
www.danfaill.com

Dan's Social Links:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/danfaill/
https://www.facebook.com/danfaill/
https://www.twitter.com/danfaill
https://www.instagram.com/danfaill/
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54min
December 08, 2020Ep 4: Listening to the Truth in your Body with Caoilfhionn Nic Conmara
Caoilfhionn Nic Conmara is a desire and purpose coach who lives in London and is the host of the Podcast, “In Bed with Caoi.” She is a devotee of the erotic and is committed to following a feminine path.
Listen in as we dive into:
How we met - exploring masculine/feminine power dynamics (and how I started owning my attraction to women!)
Speaking about sexuality in a way that people can receive and hear it
Listening to your body as the source of truth to follow desire
Stripping away your ego
Cultivating sexual energy in your body to cultivate truth
Establishing sexual practices to nourish your body
Finding sisters and community who will support you on this path

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Find Caoi and her work here:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caoilfhionn.nic.conmara/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/caoinicc
Podcast URL: https://inbedwithcaoi.buzzsprout.com
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47min
December 01, 2020EP 3: A Whip in my Purse and a Smile in my Heart with Kacey Cardin
Kacey Cardin is an Executive Coach and Trainer who originally came from a 10 year career as a professional opera singer and burlesque dancer. She has also deeply studied energy work for the past 20 years and has integrated that into her work through her program Chakralesque, which is a blend of dance, movement, coaching, and energy healing.
Something that not everyone knows about Kacey is that she had a stint as a professional dominatrix in New York City. In this interview, we dive into what her life as a dominatrix was like, what she learned about power dynamics and leadership, and what she saw about shame and desire. Kacey is a walking permission slip for people in the world to live their lives by desire!
Listen into this episode as we dive into:
What life is like as a professional dominatrix
How desire does not make sense and does not ask for your approval.
Getting in touch with your shadow and working with it instead of making it wrong
How exploring power dynamics with intention develops your leadership
Asking for what you want without shame
Creating boundaries that honor who you are
Choosing yes or no in every single moment

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Kacey's Coaching Website
www.kaceycardincoaching.com

To learn more about Chakralesque:
www.chakralesque.com

Kacey's Instagram:
www.instagram.com/kaceycardincoaching
www.instagram.com/chakralesque

Kacey's Facebook:
www.facebook.com/kaceycardincoaching
www.facebook.com/chakralesque
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44min
November 24, 2020EP 2: Emerging Feminine Power in the World with Kay Vogt
Kay Vogt is a champion of an emerging feminine power in the world and a beautiful example of what it looks like for an older woman to follow desire. Trained as a psychologist, coach, researcher, and author, she relates to herself as a "regular person" who has gone deep into feminine work.
In this episode, we explore:
What it means to be an older woman who is turned on
The way we give away our power as women
How to leg go of a life that is about acquiring the "next thing"
Shifting thought patterns as a woman
Relinquishing the need for love and approval from friends
How to bring out brilliance in men and women
Creating different relationships for different needs
Accessing sexuality at a later stage in life
Asking for what you want with approval

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Reach out to Kay about coaching here:
[email protected]
www.RealTalkCompany.com
...more
38min
November 18, 2020EP 1: Turned on Motherhood and Marriage with Natalie Thiel
Natalie Thiel is a coach who supports men, women, and couples around their sexuality, relationships, and access to their desire. In this episode, we take a deep dive into her life as a turned on woman, mother, and wife. She shares how her relationship with her husband has evolved over time (in both monogamy and open relating), what it takes to stay connected in long-term partnership, and how to be a loving, turned-on sex-positive parent.
How Orgasmic Meditation shifted her relationship to her body and her life
Creating practices that allow you to come back to your body over and over again
Creating intimacy to set the stage for long term partnership
The difference between what you think you want AND what your body and spirit respond to
Looking past your preferences in relationship to create meaningful partnership
Your desire does not care about your preferences - and how to reconcile that
How to create clear agreements instead of assumptions in relationship
How to have age-appropriate conversations with kids about sexuality to promote body and sex positivity

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Reach out to Natalie about coaching here:
[email protected]
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52min
November 10, 2020The Birth of Any Way You Want It with Paige Wilhilde
In this episode, we explore how "Any Way You Want It" was born from Cailin's desire. Paige Wilhilde, a good friend of Cailin's, interviews Cailin to get all of the juice! We talk about the power of desire in Cailin's life and what it means to build a life based on desire.

We also explore:
Moving past the conditioning of how we think our lives should be
Creating a life from the specificity of your desire
Slowing down to let go to let desire come into your life
Why approval is the key to letting go of shame and stepping into desire
How being honest about what we want creates new levels of connection in the world

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Check out Paige's instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakthrough/

Learn more about Paige's website and Recovery Guide here:
https://www.breakupbreakthrough.com/

Contact Paige here:
[email protected]
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23min

FAQs about Any Way You Want It:

How many episodes does Any Way You Want It have?

The podcast currently has 97 episodes available.