Any Way You Want It

By Cailin McDuff

Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Ca... more

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March 02, 2021EP 16: Choosing the Expanded Version of You with Mama Vic
Victoria Lutzhoft, also known as Mama Vic, is a mother, wife, and friend. She is a Feminine Embodied Business Coach who blends motherhood and business. She works with new entrepreneurs by helping them connect to their soul-based gifts and move from course consumption to content or program creation.
Join us as we discuss:
Digestion as a practice
Actively choosing the expanded version of you every single day
If it's not aligned, it won't go!
If it doesn't feel good to create, it won't feel good to receive.
Getting to know what is true about yourself and creating your life from there
Actively choosing motherhood
The practice of creating a vision around how you want anything to go (including your baby's birth!)
The practice of asking, "How could this go right?"
Living in truth as a mothers so our daughters can see what's possible
Living in pleasure as access to being the best version of you

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Victoria’s website:
www.wellcuratedwellness.com

Victoria’s Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/_mamavic_/
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55min
February 23, 2021Ep 15: Curiosity and Levels of Consciousness in Sex with Kyle Mercer
Kyle Mercer is the founder of Life at Altitude and has been coaching and teaching since 1998 and has written two books: “Stop Parenting” and “Life at Altitude”. He has created the Inquiry Method process and his very elegant elevator speech is “I talk to people and they feel better.”
Join us as we discuss:
What is the inquiry method?
Setting identity aside to amplify who you are
Demonstrating how little you know as a way to create more connection
Feeling for the collaborative experience in sex
Exploring levels of consciousness in sex
Desire as access to get out of a transactional way of being in sex
Why women leaders are effective and their access to see what is needed for the collective
The sacredness of the sexual experience and the impact of the energetic exchange on a woman's body

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Kyle invites listeners to access his "Levels of One Self" for free:
https://inquirymethod.teachable.com/p/levels-of-one-self
Coupon Code: CMcDuff

Kyle's website:
lifeataltitude.com

Kyle’s book “Life at Altitude: Elevating How We Think, Feel, and Experience Life”
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49min
February 16, 2021Ep 14: From Pastor to Stripper: Coming Home to Sensuality with Nikole Mitchell
Nikole Mitchell has had an incredible journey. She has gone from being a good girl to a free woman, from a pastor to a stripper, and from making no money to $30k-$100k months, No longer afraid of disappointing people, she's living unleashed. She's no longer getting lost in people’s opinions and instead tuning into the still, small voice inside of her and trusting that voice above all else.
Join us as we discuss:
Being trained that "women can't lead" and to "be appropriate"
The cultural and religious demonization of desires
Coming home to your sensuality and being expressed
Accessing divinity and spirituality through sex
Being fully expressed and integrated
Standing for women to have orgasms and pleasure!
Letting go of shame when you realize you don't have to prove anything!
Triggers as an access point to see our pain
Creating a purpose as an expression of your soul
Creating sexy content that's also soulful
Bringing a different level of authenticity, passion, intimacy into the sex industry
Expanding your ability to allow and receive as a woman

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Nikole's Websites:
https://nikolemitchell.com/
https://onlyfans.com/nikolemitchell

Nikole's Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/nikole.s.mitchell

Nikole's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/mitchellnikole/

Nikole's Twitter:
https://twitter.com/mitchellnikole/

To receive the recording of Nikole's OnlyFans course, you can pay her $200 here and she'll then send it to you via email:
www.paypal.me/NikoleMitchell/333
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51min
February 09, 2021EP 13: Valentine's Special: Attention is HOT with Paige Wilhide and Evin Rose
This episode is a special one! Listen in as I gab with two of my besties about all things Valentine's Day. Paige Wilhide is a Breakup Coach who helps people transition powerfully out of relationships with others and into relationships with themselves. Want to guess what Evin Rose does? She’s a Self-Love & Empowered Dating Coach, supporting millennial women in cultivating unshakable self-worth, creating loving relationships with themselves, and taking an empowered approach to their love lives (and beyond). Whatever your current relationship status may be, you’ll find some empowering takeaways in this episode.

Listen in as we gush all about:
The gold that comes from Valentine's Day - the love, the slowing down, and the high level of attention
Feeling true desire in your body
The vulnerability of desire
Being witnessed in sisterhood
Vulnerability and the way it "spirals up" a conversation
What is high attention and how does it apply to Valentine's Day?
Turning into your desire via a quality you want to experience in your day
What it is like to receive high attention

Learn more about the Galentine's Day of Self-Care & Sisterhood event here:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/galentines-day-of-self-care-sisterhood-tickets-137372369455?aff=GALPALS&afu=1363671344

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Paige's Website:
https://www.breakupbreakthrough.com/

Evin's Website:
www.evinrosecoaching.com

Evin's Self-Love Mini Retreat:
bit.ly/selfloveminiretreat

Paige's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakthrough/

Evin's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/evinrose/

Paige's LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/paigewilhide/
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1h 9min
February 02, 2021EP 12: Being a Man Who Fucks the World with Segev Perets
Segev Perets is a Personal/Lifestyle Transformation Specialist and founder of The Way of Fierce Love, a program for men who are ready to go all in to become who they know they need to be. According to his son, this dedicated dad is "a hippie vegan weirdo who's actually pretty cool". Segev shares his guiding philosophy of trusting ourselves and listening to the wild calling of our hearts in order to give our highest service to this world.
Join us as we discuss:
Receiving messages of sexual shame from childhood and putting desire to the side
Building a life from pleasing others and making the choice to make a shift
Learning to love ourselves and love ourselves fully
Owning our sexual desires around variety and exploration
Creating approval for desire through the simplicity of decision
Realizing if a desire is in you, it's ok!
Creating intentional celibacy
Desire is "of the father"
The difference between impulse and desire
Pleasure as an activator or barrier for the Feminine
Desire as a form of power
Men are meant to serve the world (or "fuck the world" as Segev says!)
Creating approval for men's desires

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Segev's Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/segev.perets.3

Segev's Emai:
[email protected]
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52min
January 26, 2021EP 11: The Healing Power of Erotic Photography with Allie Monday
I have been a fan girl of Allie Monday's for a few years now. She's the woman-centered boudoir photographer known as Lady Groove. She's a former abstinence educator who worked through years of her own shame and eating disorders to create a gorgeous business that is all about empowering women to love ALL the parts of their bodies. She is a stand for women to accept and love their bodies and be fully expressed in the world! She's also a gorgeous example of a HUNGRY woman who is feeding herself:
Listen into this juicy episode as we discuss:
What opens up when you ask women what they love about their bodies
Owning your turn-on and desire as a woman
Creating containers, safety, and holding so that women can let go, heal, and surrender.
Shame as the idea that we "Should Have Always Mastered Everything"
Body worship and dancing as a way to move through shame
Creating a pleasure mapping practice
Eating from desire as a way to get free and fill up as a woman
Gift yourself with the gift of believing yourself

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my Instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Allie's Website
iamladygroove.com

Allie's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/ladygroove
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50min
January 19, 2021EP 10: Being a Christian and Accepting Yourself as a Sexual Being with Shaun Leisher
Shaun Leisher is a Theatre artist, "new play doula," community organizer, and curious being. For me, he's a great example of a man who is in an honest, grounded, vulnerable conversation about his sexuality and is staying true to his value of being a Christian. He tells it like it is (including a fun recent experience trying out 69 for the first time), and he lets us in on the path he's been on to let go of years and years of sexual shame. Think about it - it really takes something to be on a public forum talking about your sex life with such aliveness and realness!
Listen in as we discuss:
Growing up in a Pentecostal church and guilt and shame
Penetrative Sex as distinctly different than Sex (and the social conditioning we have around this)
Play in sex as access to silliness and letting our bodies be what our bodies be!
Doing things for the first time in sex and the fun awkwardness in that
Letting our bodies be what we want them to be
Relating to sex from curiosity
Making requests in sex that come from generosity, not "right/wrong" or "good/bad"
Tools to work through shame: finding like minded people and bringing shame to the light
Being a Christian and accepting yourself as a sexual being
Shaun's desire to create spaces for men and boys to talk about sex and shame
Toxic Masculine vs. Divine Masculine

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Shaun's Instagram:
@shaunaturgy
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42min
January 12, 2021EP 9: Masturbation as Meditation with Ren Rodriguez
Ren Rodriguez, also known as the Beastlybator online, is a leader in the "solosexuality" space. While living in NYC, he discovered his Solosexuality and embarked on a beautiful journey of self-discovery. He has since moved back to Los Angeles and is very active in the bate community sharing his Solosexual journey in hopes of inspiring Solosexual men all over the world. He enjoys art, music, penis, and Sprinkles Cupcakes.
Join us on this episode as we dive into:
What is the practice Solosexuality?
Filling up your own love cup and creating your own sexual narrative
Slowing down to notice patterns in your own sexuality and using that as a place to create transformation
Masturbation as an act of self love and making masturbation cool!
How to move past social conditioning around creating our own sexual journey
Having the agency to ask for what you want
Shifting your sexuality to be
The realization that desires don't need justification . They just are.
Vulnerable communication in sex
Lovingly setting boundaries in relationship and sex
Taking full ownership of life

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Ren's Twitter:
@Beastlybator

Ren's Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/beastlybator/
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48min
January 05, 2021EP 8: Making Life Messier through Desire with Cailin McDuff
It's my turn to feature my story! Listen in as my good friend and fellow intimacy coach, Aimee Batuski, interviews me to reveal my journey of opening up my sexuality and tapping into my power as a woman. At the age of 32, I had never had an orgasm. Looking around at my life and realizing I desperately wanted more (and to be able to feel in my body), I set off on a journey to discover my body and my sexuality.
Listen in as we discuss:
Leaning on sisterhood in sexual transformation work
Creating approval for sexuality everywhere - in sisterhood, in coaching, and in relationships
How I had built my life around being a "good girl"
Coming to work around your sexuality from inspiration or desperation
Shifting the mindset of "I'm broken" or "My body is broken."
The blocks we experience in our body based on shame
Opening the door to your sex and feeling the hunger
Starting the journey of following the truth of your desire and how you can take good care of yourself in that
Breaking through people pleasing patterns to become a sovereign woman
Following a desire to live in community when it "didn't make sense"
Trusting a power greater than me in desire
Surrendering and bringing reverence to relationship through practicing as a submissive

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Aimee's Website:
https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Aimee's Instagram:
instagram.com/aimeebatuski

Desire on Fire on Instagram:
instagram.com/desireonfire/

Desire on Fire on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire
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50min
December 29, 2020EP 7: Saying the Truth and Creating Happiness in Long-Term Marriage with Shellie Batuski
Shellie Batuski is a consultant and coach who works with individuals, businesses, and nonprofits grow and thrive. Not only is she a powerful coach, but she has one of the happiest marriages (of 30 years) I have ever seen. She has been in transformation work since WAY before it was trendy or cool (30+ years). In her work, she loves helping people get what they want. She's fierce, fun, and full of love. I am beyond thrilled to share her story here.
Listen in as we talk about:
Owning our patterns and taking responsibility in relationship
Taking on your love life as a project and putting attention on where you want it to grow
Activating community support around relationship
What it takes to move through challenges in the face of what you want
Entering relationship with clarity and being straight with partners about what you want
The secrets to being happy in long term marriage
Taking responsibility for your own happiness
Using conflict resolution skills to communicate in marriage
Telling the truth in relationship
Having problem solving conversations and being on the same team

Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want':
https://cailin.online/

Check out my instagram here:
https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website:
www.cailinmcduff.com

Shellie's e-mail address:
[email protected]
...more
51min

FAQs about Any Way You Want It:

How many episodes does Any Way You Want It have?

The podcast currently has 97 episodes available.