Anything Goes with the Bonis

Anything Goes with the Bonis

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Anything Goes with the Bonis episodes

  • I’m burned out. What do I do?

    The second most pressing topic requested from us these days is about burnout. We have both experienced this already as workers and career people ourselves and so we have some thoughts about the following:

    • is it avoidable?
    • can we recover from it?
    • or is quitting the only way?
    • what if I am burned out from tasks that cannot be delegated?
    • whose fault is this anyway? Mine or my employer’s?


      • And more. Plus some forgiveness follow ups that trail behind the previous episode. May you be blessed and helped with this one.

      Join our Telegram Community over here: https://t.me/+lLQiqaM4WAA5NTg9

      1 hr 4 min
    • Is there anything too painful to forgive? (And more thoughts on forgiveness)

      Does Forgiveness Require Reconciliation? Does Forgiveness Include Forgetting? Do I need to forgive to honor mg parents? How do we ask for someone’s forgiveness? Why is forgiveness essential in life? So many questions too little time.


      For this episode, we talk about what forgiveness means and what it doesn’t. Beginning with what we thought it to be in our younger years and how it’s developed and practiced in our adult lives. We also included Languages of Apology and if you wanna know what you are more inclined to do, here is a link: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/languages-of-apology/


      And lastly we wanna shout out a big thanks to the telegram community that we have for giving us questions to answer and as we say in the podcast, should you wanna be a part of it here is a link: https://t.me/+lLQiqaM4WAA5NTg9 🫶🏻 we hope to hear from you there! Welcome!!! 🥹

      1 hr 18 min
    • What Should We Make of Celebrity Break-ups?

      Jason and Moira, Alyne and Nas, Tyler and Bethany Toney, and including ourselves, have relationships that are subjected to the public dimension. And we argue in this podcast that anything public becomes performative to the point that even the most authentic looking content we put out there is still within the bounds of “filtered” material. We explore the whys behind this and also how we should feel about these things, not only as consumers but also as content creators ourselves.


      Let us know what you think after listening to this podcast. We can continue the discussion in these places:


      Join our Telegram broadcast channel and discussion group:

      Main Channel: https://t.me/+Frr2jUYIBHZhZTI1

      Discussion Group: https://t.me/+w4aurRBuQDwxYWM1


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      56 min
    • Parenting in the Last 20 Years: What has changed, what hasn’t, how to adapt

      This episode explores parenting as it has evolved from physical to virtual spaces. It is also our first time to have a guest on the show and while she shares the same last name, we are in no way related!


      Ronna Bonifacio is the editor in chief of Smart Parenting and together we deep dive into the changes this parenting village has gone through from print to digital, and the nature of questions and topics parents are now raising, and why so much grace is needed despite the differences in styles, context, and generations, that continually affect or inform our parenting. Let us know what you think of the episode? Follow us ok IG/TIKTOK: @anythinggoeswiththebonis 🫶🏻

      1 hr 16 min
    • ”I can buy myself flowers?” The genius & morality behind Revenge Art/Music by Miley, Tswift, Moira, and more!
      We do a deep dive into the revenge songs that just came out, including Shakira, Miley Cyrus, Moira, and, of course, Beyonce. We look at it from the perspective of a content creator, consumer, and as a Christian. We’d love to hear your thoughts on it!
      Continue the conversation with us on our Instagram and FB group.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thebonis/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/238036487382521/
      Links to the things mentioned in the podcast:Examples of revenge art in history: https://www.ranker.com/list/art-created-as-an-insult/philgibbonsTaylor Swift’s Revenge Evolution: https://www.elitedaily.com/entertainment/taylor-swift-midnights-songs-about-revengeShakira’s Husband’s Response: https://expatguideturkey.com/piques-response-to-shakiras-revenge-song/What Makes Revenge Sweet and Why It’s Not All That Worth It: https://12ft.io/proxy?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.telegraph.co.uk%2Fwomen%2Flife%2Fshakiras-revenge-gerard-pique-speaks-every-womans-fantasy%2F
      1 hr 14 min
    • Questions Couples Can Ask Each Other
      We celebrate our 13th anniversary by asking each other questions about ourselves and our marriage. It's a fun and light way to engage your partner, with surprising revelations along the way. For the first part of this conversation, check out Carla's vlog, link below. The questions are great for friends and other family members also.
      LINKS:– Our IG: @_thebonis– Carla's ANNIV VLOG: 
      ANNIV VLG: What we like abt each other, embarrassing moments & how we need each other more than ever
      Sources of the Questions:– connectcouplestherapy.com– cafemom.com– trentcasto.com– mysweethomelife.com
      42 min

    About Anything Goes with the Bonis

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    In this podcast we talk about a bunch of topics that interest us. We’ll be uploading a new podcast every week where we talk about what we’re currently into, a topic of the day, and we answer some…