Anything Goes with the Bonis

Joe is into the Dude Perfect documentary. Carla is into cavity build up. (?!) We talk about calling. If there are a lot of questions, we'll make it into a series. Also, the kids are in the room. Listen till the end for the bloopers.

Time Codes:

00:00 Why we missed a week

05:36 Joe is Into Dude Perfect

07:16 Carla is into the build up of cavity (?!)

09:54 What is the last name of Joseph, the husband of Mary?

11:00 Topic of the Day: Calling

13:57 Wrong Ways to Understand Calling

15:29 Three Parts of the Call of God in our Lives

27:14 The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. (Frederick Buechner)

29:06 The Dude Perfect Documentary and Calling

34:20 The Importance of Creating Value

39:37 The Beauty of A Life in the Middle of God’s Call

41:24 Sometimes One’s Calling Comes in Parcels

44:31 Our Four Point Grid for Guiding Our Call (Calling over Career, Message over Brand, Character over Image, Service as Success)

52:38 Q&A: Some of our favorite authors (including Philip’s!)

01:03:00: Bloopers

We talk about motherhood: the impact our mothers have had on us, the darkside of motherhood, and how we honor our parents when we feel God is telling us something else from what they want us to do.

Timecodes:

01:14 Joe is into Rome: Total War

05:50 Carla is into Brené Brown's podcast

16:21 Topic of the Day: Motherhood

17:04 Carla's Lesson from Her Mom

21:15 A Dad's Influence Compared to a Mom's Influence

23:05 Joe's First Lesson From His Mom

25:30 Motherhood and Space

40:40 The Difference in our Footsteps

44:34 The Danger of Idolizing Motherhood

49:14 Carla's KDrama Mentoring Group

50:58 Valentine's Day in the Bonifacio House

55:11 The Danger of Idolizing Children

01:03:02 Honor Doesn't Mean Obedience

01:06:44 Question and Answer: How to Honor Toxic Parents

We finish all the marriage questions. And they're really meaty ones! 

Time Codes:

00:33 - Carla is into Nature Podcasts: Nat Geo and Overstory

07:43 - Joe is into The Office

12:20 - How do we keep the passion alive in marriage?

23:33 - How do I know this person is the one?

30:30 - What do I do when my partner doesn’t want to talk about the future?

35:45 - Do I break up when I see a red flag or do I accept it?

44:30 - How do I bring up with someone that God is a must in marriage?

48:37 - What is the best time to get married? Should we start it young?

54:45 - Why do we even need marriage? Is it wrong to not want marriage?

01:01:33 - How do we deal with hurtful comments from in-laws?

01:07:49 - What can a wife do to encourage her husband to lead her spiritually?

01:10:50 - What can a wife do when she finds out that her husband has been unfaithful?

Joe talks about one of his favorite humor sites. Carla gives her opinion on AirPods. And we get into even more marriage questions about the first year of marriage and how we resolve fights.

Time Codes:

01:22 – Joe is into The Babylon Bee

07:08 – Carla is into AirPods

13:20 – Questions about Fighting

24:12 – Why Logical Progression Isn't Good For Marriage

25:12 – A Question about Sex In the First Year of Marriage

36:03 – Questions About Fights and Arguments

59:11 – Question: "Who do your kids look like?"

Carla listens to Joe talk about the book he's reading to Philip. Joe tries on some of Carla's moisturizer. And we get into a lot of questions that were raised by the previous episode. 

ALSO we have new sound transitions. Send us and email on [email protected] if you're interested in hiring our voiceover talent. And we're learning the new equipment. Sorry for some of the problems.

Time Codes:

01:51 – Joe is into the illustrated Pilgrim's Progress

07:10 – Carla is into the Skin Fix Barrier Plus

11:48 – Topic of the Day: Questions About Marriage

14:00 – Marriage and Money (how we budget, who's better at handling money, dual income homes)

34:50 – Marriage and Character (nagging wives, helicopter husbands, my partner's past)

01:03:05 – Question and Answer

Carla talks about watching more Masterclasses. Joe talks about a book he's reading. And we spend a lot of time looking at Marriage from different angles.

Time Codes:

01:09 – We read some emails

02:58 – Carla is into Thomas Keller's Masterclass

08:02 – Joe is into The Leader's Journey

12:54 – Topic of the Day: Marriage

18:15 – Carla quotes The Meaning of Marriage

23:20 – Joe compares marriage to drafting an NBA player

26:00 – Can you marry the wrong person?

29:52 – How family history plays into marriage

36:08 – Marriage and Roles to Play

43:01 – Some of the beauty of Marriage

46:54 – Leadership and personality

48:09 – The effects of wrong expectations

50:13 – Joe addresses the men

55:21 – Q&A

Joe talks about his love for soups. Carla talks about Ken Burns the person behind the effect. We discuss Introversion and Extroversion and the benefits and harms of labels. Then Joe gives his thoughts about getting into movies.

Time Codes:

05:19 – Joe is into soups.

11:25 – Carla is into Ken Burns

21:16 – Studying Storytelling Choices

24:24 – Topic of the Day: Introversion and Extroversion

32:08 – The Benefit of Labels

35:48 – The Downside of Labels #1

37:22 – Personal Projects over Personalities

44:49 – Introversion or Shyness?

46:57 – The Downside of Labels #2

52:20 – Q&A

Here's the second episode! Carla describes a new discovery in the US. Joe shares one of his favorite YouTube shows. We discuss the Topic of the Day which is related to Carla's skin care, Philip's reading, and scented candles.

Time Codes:

00:00 – 06:30: Carla is into Wax Melts

06:31 – 11:10: Joe is into Pitch Meetings by Ryan George

11:11 – 11:57: Revealing Topic of the Day

11:58 – 12:53: Why Carla Isn't a Good Fan, but Joe Is

*minor spoilers*

12:54 – 18:44: Back to the Topic of the Day – Carla's First Impressions 

18:45 – 20:11: Joe's First Impressions

20:12 – 40:21: Topic of the Day

40:22 – 42:12: How Carla Identifies with the Topic of the Day

42:13 – 46:15: How Carla sees Joe in the Topic of the Day

46:16 – 49:20: Q&A: How did you two meet?

49:21 – 49:58: Outro

Welcome to the first episode of Anything Goes! We talk about what to expect in this podcast, our format, and our thoughts on starting it. This episode features Mongolian warfare under Genghis Khan, interdental toothbrushes, how we got Philip to enjoy reading, and our topic of the day: being quarantined during COVID-19.

Time Codes:

00:00 – 07:04: Intro

07:05 – 10:25: Joe is into Genghis Khan

10:26 – 20:04: Carla is into interdental toothbrushes

20:05 – 33:14: Topic of the Day – COVID 19

33:15 – 33:41: Preview of Next Episode's Topic

33:42 – 42:25: Question and Answer

42:26 – 42:58: Outro

 

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