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Wow. What a situation to be in. I am saying this because I am the one of those persons you are talking about. I am exactly like you.

First of all, congrats. You are a leader. Always remember that people share their problems with leaders but never care to listen to their problems because they feel like those persons can't have problems. But they are also humans, they too have problems. People never understand. You don't bother.

Feel proud, you have a strong shoulder to offer someone to cry on, a strong heart to listen and absorb others problems. Try to search for some happiness there, and I am sure you'll find it.

I believe every single person has a person with whom they can be absolutely themselves. If you don't have such person in your life, try to search for one. I am sure you will find someone. Share everything with them, your every problem. Until then, talk to yourself. You are your best friend. Believe me you will feel better if you just talk to yourself. Tell yourself all your problems, solve it yourself. You are a leader my friend and leaders are the strongest individuals. Okay. I completely understand how you feel because i have been going through the same for my entire life. And what i will tell you now may sound harsh, but the truth will set you free. You need to stop having expectations. Just because those people that you helped once (or many times just been there for them) and thought that they are with you too like you are with them.. they were NEVER on your side to begin with. From my experience i realized that you cant fix anyone. Even though you have that instict or impulse to try to be there for people or help them.. you need to understand that you cant. It will just drain you, people will take you for granted, they will use you, suck up your energy.. until you have nothing left and wondering where the old you went/why are you not the same as you have been before. That is because you never properly thought of yourself. You need to step away from anyone (and even if it is family members) who just drags you down with their problems or doesnt wish you well or has your best interest in heart like you thought they did. I could go on for hours about this. And i know it is hard to think of yourself and what you want when all your life you tried to be everything for everyone, only for them to discard you once they dont need you anymore.

Every people means a lot to us! either in a weaker point or at the strongest zone! but after all it is that only small people who will stay with us no matter what and you cant name somebond just like that! some people really matters to us and their absence makes a low factor!

There's no getting around it: Breakups are terrible, even if they're handled with compassion. They can shake you to your very foundations, causing you to question your confidence AND your faith in love itself. If you've been broken up with, you're grappling with the very real pain of rejection on top of mourning a lost love. When you're the one who chose to end things, there's often guilt swirled into your sadness. Even in the most amicable, mutual situations, a split is an ending—and in a culture that emphasizes "forever" as a relationship goal, we're made to feel like an ending is a failure. In reality, breakups are often the shattering preamble to a new-and-improved life (one that can eventually include a relationship with someone you're more compatible with). But in those first few brutal days and weeks, you've got every right to feel inconsolable. True life is only after breakup!

Throughout your life you are dependent on someone. Father, mother, teachers, friends, siblings, lover, spouse etc.,

Suddenly it seems after breakup, no one is there for you. Regardless of how strong you are. You will be broken!

You will feel empty and alone. This is where you find the most important person of your life! The real love of your life!

YOU!

Your purpose! Your ambitions! You as a whole!

You become independent and you start loving everyone and appreciate everything someone does for you (even small help from others). You understand people and their purpose. You understand the efforts made by your mom to make that dinner that you loved! You will see the world with new eyes!

It's normal to feel sad, angry, exhausted, frustrated, and confused—and these feelings can be intense. You may also feel anxious about the future. Accept that reactions like these will lessen over time. Even if the relationship was unhealthy, venturing into the unknown is frightening. Breakups are painful, no matter what brings them about and whether or not you want to break up. Initiating a breakup when the other person does not want to break up can cause sadness, guilt, and worry. Being broken up with can lead to feelings of hurt and rejection. Even if the breakup is mutual, it’s still natural to struggle with difficult feelings, like anger or depression, at least for a while.

As painful as the decision can be, there are healthy ways to deal with a breakup and get over a breakup. With time, support from family and friends, reflection, and self-compassion, healing can happen. Breakups happen for many reasons. Some reasons are external—such as one of you moving away, going to separate colleges, or going through another lifestyle change that affects how you prioritize relationships. Other reasons are more about internal changes—maybe you feel like you’ve grown apart, or you’re growing in different directions. In some cases, relationships are unhealthy for one or both people. A relationship may come to an end naturally or may need to end to preserve one or both people’s mental health and well-being.

It’s also important to understand that as we grow and evolve as people, things change: priorities, the kind of person we’re attracted to, what we want out of a relationship, and even our understanding of our own sexuality. This means that what we are willing to compromise on may change, too. For example, if a couple agrees that they do not want children and then one partner decides they do, compatibility of their unique life goals and desires may need to be revisited. If something changes for you while you’re in a relationship, it is important to be honest with yourself and, eventually, with your partner.

It’s okay if your deal-breakers are different from what your friends or family thinks is a priority. Ultimately, you get to decide what works for you in a relationship. Whatever you decide, it’s important to be clear about how you feel with a partner or potential partner.

Life la ellamey late ah dhan puriyudhu laa!! In contrast to the times, when people like Every emotional experience involves many physical and physiological changes in the organism. Some of the changes which express themselves as overt behaviour are easily observable. For example, the heart beating, reddened eyes, flushed cheeks, choke in the voice, or an attack on an emotion aroused stimulus.

there are times when people prefer to hide their feelings and keep others from knowing how they really feel, for rather moral or personal reasons, such as: not wanting to hurt others, being uncomfortable with expressing themselves, and not wanting other people feeling sorry for them, when viewing or being aware of their emotional state. One of the biggest reasons is that people are often afraid of the consequences. They don't want to be vulnerable, and prefer not sharing their intimate details about one self with others. Almost everyone experience feelings of being hurt, humiliated, threatened, angry, sad or used, at some point of their lives. When people prefer not to express themselves, they put on a fake smile, and hide their true feeling, when sense that they are being viewed. Often people start having tendency to hide their feelings, when it comes to concern of other people's feelings. Obviously, in order for people to be liked, and bring out a good impression, they will want to avoid the state of hurting others, and also prevent any unpleasant situations. Almost everyone has been in situations, when they were invited for a dinner by their friends or relatives. People usually tend to prefer food that is familiar rather than exotic; and even if the food that the relative or a friend prepared, did not seem very tasty, people would not usually admit it, but instead in order not to hurt the person's feelings, people would want to be polite, thank the person, and tell that the dinner was wonderful, even though that is not how they really felt about it.

Everybody knows that being disrespectful or discriminative towards another, could hurt person's feeling in a great way. People constantly see new faces, and meet new people, but not everybody may seem to be attractive, or interesting. Every emotional experience involves many physical and physiological changes in the organism. Some of the changes which express themselves as overt behaviour are easily observable. For example, the heart beating, reddened eyes, flushed cheeks, choke in the voice, or an attack on an emotion aroused stimulus.

In addition to these easily observable changes, there are internal physiological changes

Yo buddy,

I know how it feels when your best friend leaves you . My 2 best friends, left me,one never ever cared to ask me since then about anything, the other, sometimes text me(twice a month)

But i realized that your life doesn't need anybody's approval, you are CEO of your own life . People will leave. You will move on. Nobody is permanent in life except your parents.

Never cry for someone who left you, its their loss. And they are giving you a reason to change, to become stronger, to fight alone,to make yourself worthy.

If you r thinking about them more often, go lift in gym(the ultimate solution to all problems), listen motivational music,study,dance,run and do all you love.

I can't do anything because it's their choice to stay or leave.

Ya ofcourse it's painful to take because,we feel as bestfriend by staying for days or months or years.We share many things and have many memories with them.We can't take it due to our bond.There r few things which u shared or can share with only that person so,u will miss them.

My suggestion is:if ur bestfriend leaves u,just ask for the reason y she/he wanted to leave.Maybe they won't say u for the first time u asked.Keep ur patience on and ask them 2or3 times.They will definitely say u,because u have that bond(to share issues).if u r convinced for the the reason then just say them that u will stand by her/him when difficulty comes and she/he can't handle it.if u r not convinced also just say them few supporting words and leave them for their choice.

Any thing you choose would leave you unsatisfied in the other field . I'll give you an example of my friends .

One guy , he is kind of play boy , he has dated more than 10 women . Never been single after his first . He has good physique , good looking has a great job . He doesn't care much about growth, promotion . Kinda chilled but keeps lot of backlogs and dues at his work place . Doesn't know what is going on at his office . So , somewhere at the corner of his heart , he feels he is too careless , should work more . Give more time to his job than love , sex or a social life . But as he is soo much into fun , this feeling never goes away .

Another guy , very successful , nerd , always into studies . Jumping from company to company buying cars and properties . He has most of his time invested in growth , financially . But he always had this feeling that he never had a girlfriend , din had sex , no romantic life .

Then comes my story , I broke up with my ex . Dint persue higher studies , came back to home . Joined a regular job and spending quality time with my parents . I feel displeased about not doing well with love or career . But I'm enjoying time with parents .

Summary : whatever you choose the other part of your life is going to get fucked up . So close your eyes , ask yourself what you want . Don't let other people dictate you how to live your life .

P.S - if you end up inventing an algorithm to maintain all the parts of life perfectly.

Because everyone else is building fantasy forts for ‘Love’ from romantic Hollywood movies.

Short answer - always choose career. Because everyone just want to be with someone. Everyone want their love-story to be special just so that they can tell people or have weird satisfaction. Basic thing is you can love many many times but career opportunities are rare.

In my 1st year of graduation, I was in love. Those perfect and forever kind of love. I was in one of the best college in country but she was in another city. Gradually distance was becoming a serious issue. So I decided to change my college. I thought if I could save my relationship by taking a degree from little college, whats the worst that could happened? Less salary ? At least I will be happy because we had everything planned out for our future. I talked to my parents, told my decision. Everything was ready and she broke up with me. Now don’t awww me. At that moment I thought I lost everything. Gave up on studies, started taking participation in cultural activites, traveling etc.

Few years later, graduated. Got the best job despite low grades due to college name. Met a great girl. Fell in love again. And life is beautiful. Just imagine if I had given up on my career at that time, I would have been probably unemployed and then girl would have dumped me.

So, moral of the story - yes! Love exist and its beautiful. But life needs career and passion.

Ft. Jai Akash bruh🥂

A situationship offers flexibility to come and go essentially as you please, in hopes of avoiding stressors of what a typical relationship!

Less than a relationship, but more than a casual encounter or booty call, a situationship refers to a romantic relationship that is, and remains, undefined.

"A situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship,

Why is this becoming a trend now? "Culturally, our expectations of relationships has changed; people are getting married later in life, and many people are eager to explore relationships in a less structured way without pressure to commit, as they prioritize self-knowledge.

You've met someone new, and things seem to be going well. But even though you're only a few dates in, wondering where this is all going is keeping you up at night. It's a common problem.

Let's join our hands to discriminate caste!

In the ultimate analysis, caste-based reservation can only succeed in uplifting members of the minority community if it also includes a financial component. Excluding the creamy layer from benefits would be a positive step toward assisting those who are truly marginalized and poor, as well as those who are from SC/ST/OBC backgrounds. Income, along with caste, can be used as a criterion for reservation, allowing those who are experiencing social and economic inequity to receive the help they need. People will continue to have reservations about quota systems, whether they are based on income or caste, until then.

Instead of debating what constitutes the “creamy layer” and how it should be defined, everyone should be given an equal chance to demonstrate their worth. No one should be spoon-fed in society. Instead, they should be provided with adequate resources, and merit should win out in the end.

Reservations are frequently the complete antithesis of development and equality. We currently do not require reservations in education based on castes or religion, but only support those who have merit but limited resources. This way, caste discrimination would be eliminated, and the economically wealthy would unite to support the economically weak, regardless of caste.

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