This message explores how a seemingly innocent phrase can become a harmful excuse for inappropriate behavior. Discover the concerning statistics about men in prison, fatherless homes, and male suicide rates that highlight the consequences of this mentality. Learn about four ways our culture stifles boys' development: emphasizing toughness over tenderness, prioritizing hobbies over home responsibilities, setting low expectations, and over-domesticating through excessive supervision. Understand what Scripture teaches about gender differences and how God designed men and women with complementary strengths. Based on 1 Corinthians 16:13-14, discover practical guidance for raising boys to become godly men who stay alert to temptation, remain anchored in Christ, take responsibility, and find their strength in Jesus. Perfect for parents, mentors, church leaders, and anyone concerned about the development of boys in today's challenging cultural landscape. Keywords: Christian parenting, raising boys, biblical masculinity, godly manhood, gender differences, boys will be boys, fatherhood, mentoring, male role models, Christian family, biblical parenting, 1 Corinthians 16, Ephesians 5, Genesis 1:27, emotional intelligence in boys, healthy masculinity, Christian men, father absence, male development, gender complementarity.