Are You Me?

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Can we all agree that dreams are weird? In this mini, we talk about some of our very weird dreams, from the sexual to the uncomfortably realistic and to the ones in which our brains/subconscious are straight trying to play tricks on us.

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The results are in and there’s nowhere to hide. We’re really exposing ourselves and psychopathic tendencies on this one. But if going through this exercise taught us anything, it’s that we are pretty normal (those psychopathic tendencies could have been full-blown traits) and everyone's a little psychopathic sometimes and we’re no exception. So, come into #TheRUME - you and whatever psychopathic tendencies you bring along are in good company.

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It’s a pointed question this week but if the answer is yes, we’d rather not know; please keep that to yourself.

Somehow, in this conversation, we start out on the topic of child psychopathy, which we wish we didn’t know about because can you imagine? (*shudder*), and end up going through the official psychopathy test to be able to definitively answer this question for ourselves. But of course, the path to that answer has lots of stories and discussions on related topics along the way. Come along with us and maybe you’ll get your answer too!

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Children are a blessing (if you choose to have them) but we are not about the “legacy builders” in #TheRUME. 

In this conversation, we get into how much of a deal breaker children can be in relationships, the attachment to biological children and the pressure that society places on people around children - if you have them, when you have them, how many you have, etc. It’s a lot so please just do what works for you, beloved. You’re doing amazing.

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Yes! At least one of us is. Mita became a citizen of Canada and her tweet about it went (mini) viral on Nigerian Twitter, which means her bride price is now all the way up. 

This conversation is a reflection on the path to dual citizenship, what it means and the opportunity costs that have come with it. And while dual citizenship is a big flex, we are grateful that, as our Twitter uncle was quick to ask us, we can also claim to be citizens of God’s kingdom.

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Who knew that there were so many different ways to be single/dumped? The ghosts of relationships and situationships disappear in many ways, some as abruptly as a magician and others a softly as a 90's song's fade out.

In this conversation (in which we learn way more than we ever wanted to know about modern dating terms), we talk about how the endings of relationships often turn lovers to strangers. In the wise words of Mita, one clear thing is that “the streets are wretched.” So, come into #TheRUME - we’ll make sure we say goodbye before leaving.

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We are back and better for our second cycle! If you’re new, welcome! We’re so glad to have you in #TheRUME. If you’ve been part of our conversations, thanks for coming back.

We’ve put a lot of thought into this cycle and are excited to share what we have in store for you. But we’re not sharing secrets so you’ll have to join us on this journey as we officially launch on June 11. Be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss a conversation!

In the meantime, here’s a taste of what you can expect from us. This snippet is all about that four-letter L word, those who say it and those who don't.

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We're baaaccccck! This is Are You Me?! Come into #TheRUME and let’s get into it.

Last call for Cycle 1! This mini is our ode to the much-referenced, much-beloved corner of Reddit that has provided precious fuel for many of our conversations both on and off the podcast - r/AITA. Whether it’s the man who won’t cut his postpartum wife any slack, the girl who stole her cousin’s wedding dress or the not pregnant woman who insists she’s a mama, a**sholes are all around us. And if you can’t figure out who the a**hole is, you can always ask strangers on the internet, but really, there’s a good chance it’s YOU.

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