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Ramon Sosa is a former professional boxer and boxing coach from Houston, Texas. Born in Puerto Rico in 1967, he turned pro at 17 before dedicating his life to training young fighters and running a nonprofit boxing gym. In 2007, he met a woman named Lulu at a Latin nightclub — and married her in 2009. Six years later, he discovered she had hired a hitman to kill him. What followed was one of the most extraordinary murder-for-hire sting operations in Texas history, featured on CBS 48 Hours, Oxygen's Snapped, and ID's Who the Bleep Did I Marry. Ramon's memoir is called I Walked on My Own Grave.

Expect to learn how Ramon grew up boxing in Puerto Rico and what brought him to Texas, how he met Lulu and what the early red flags looked like in hindsight, how his friend Mundo accidentally stumbled onto the murder plot, how Ramon played his own hitman using a burner phone, what it was like to lie in a shallow grave while police photographed him, how Lulu reacted when she was shown the fake proof of his death, what happened at the sentencing, why Ramon chose to publicly forgive her, and what he wants men experiencing domestic abuse to know.

Jeff Harry combines positive psychology and play to heal workplaces, help teams build psychological safety and assist individuals in addressing their biggest challenges by embracing a play-oriented approach to work.

Jeff was selected by BambooHR & Engagedly as one of the Top 100 HR Influencers and has been featured in the NY Times, Mashable, HuffPost, WIRED, NPR, NatGeo, & Forbes. Jeff has worked with Google, Southwest Airlines, Adobe, the NFL, Amazon, and Facebook, helping their staff to infuse more play into the day-to-day.

Over the past 15 years of facilitation and speaking, Jeff's main goal has been to help work suck less by assisting leaders in building a playground workplace atmosphere that motivates their staff to do their most vibrant work.

Peter Atalla is a technology executive and risk researcher with over 27 years in the tech industry. His academic research, Conversations with Aliens, looks at the risks of AI companionship and romantic AI partnerships from a risk analysis framework.

Expect to learn how Peter defines and studies AI partners, who is most vulnerable to these systems, how the risk equation applies to AI companionship, what the biggest identified risks are including authoritarian abuse, emotional manipulation, data privacy and non-consensual deepfake partners, whether this technology is a net benefit or net harm to society, how hyper-individualization could impact communities at scale, and what regulators, developers and individuals should actually do about it.

Dr. Timothy Fong is a Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA's Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior, board-certified in addiction psychiatry. He is the co-director of the UCLA Gambling Studies Program and has spent 25 years studying gambling disorder and its impact on the brain.

You can be stone cold sober, look perfectly fine, and still be in the grip of a serious addiction. That is what makes gambling disorder unlike almost anything else in psychiatry. There is no blood test, no smell, no visible intoxication. Just a brain doing exactly what addiction brains do, hidden behind a normal-looking life.

In this conversation, we get into how gambling disorder actually works, why it is so easy to miss, and what 25 years of studying it has taught one of America's leading experts on the subject.

Here is what we cover: what gambling disorder actually is and why losing money alone does not define it, what happens in the brain when gambling stops being fun and starts becoming compulsive, why gambling addiction carries a unique layer of shame that other addictions often do not, how the explosion of online and sports betting has changed the scale and speed of the problem, why so many people suffer in silence for years before seeking help, what treatment actually looks like and what genuinely works, and what early research into psilocybin as a potential treatment might mean for the future.

Celine van Golde is an Associate Professor of Psychology at the University of Sydney, where she researches memory, eyewitness testimony, and wrongful convictions. She is also the founder of the Sydney Exoneration Project.

Your memory isn't a recording but a reconstruction. Every time you recall something, your brain is quietly patching together what actually happened with what you expected, what you felt, and what others have since told you. And that gap between "what I remember" and "what really occurred" is exactly where gaslighting lives.

In this conversation, we go from the science of memory all the way to one of the most misunderstood forms of psychological abuse, and why the two are more connected than most people realise.

Here is what we cover: what gambling disorder actually is and why losing money alone does not define it, what happens in the brain when gambling stops being fun and starts becoming compulsive, why gambling addiction carries a unique layer of shame that other addictions often do not, how the explosion of online and sports betting has changed the scale and speed of the problem, why so many people suffer in silence for years before seeking help, what treatment actually looks like and what genuinely works, and what early research into psilocybin as a potential treatment might mean for the future.

Phil McAuliffe is a former Australian diplomat and the founder of Humans:Connecting, a social enterprise dedicated to reducing loneliness and de-stigmatising it globally. After 23 years in the Australian Public Service, including diplomatic postings in Seoul, Tokyo, Ho Chi Minh City and Wellington, Phil realised mid-career that despite a prestigious job, a loving family, and a life full of travel and adventure, he was deeply lonely. That realisation changed everything.

Today Phil works with individuals, workplaces and governments to strengthen the conditions that shape how people connect and belong.

Expect to learn why loneliness is not a mental health condition but a social health signal, why ignoring it is as dangerous as ignoring hunger or thirst, how the pressure of high-stakes careers like diplomacy silently breeds loneliness, why you can be surrounded by people and still feel completely empty, what the three pillars of real connection are and why most people only focus on one, why connecting as a fake version of yourself makes loneliness worse, what the lonely chapter is and how to survive it, and why the antidote to loneliness starts with you before anyone else.

Scott Santens has been writing and thinking about Universal Basic Income since 2013. He's one of the most prolific voices on the subject and runs a foundation dedicated to making UBI a reality.

AI is disrupting the way we work faster than most of us expected. UBI is increasingly being named as one of the solutions, but most people still think of it as an all-or-nothing concept. Today we make it concrete.

Expect to learn what UBI actually means and why most people misunderstand it, why giving everyone free money would make more people work, not fewer, how the current welfare system actually punishes people for getting a job, what it would actually cost to eliminate poverty in the US and why it's cheaper than you think, what Elon Musk is really saying when he talks about "universal high income" and why Scott thinks it's just marketing, what 40 years of UBI in Alaska tells us about inflation and employment, and why both Milton Friedman and Martin Luther King Jr. supported the same idea.

Alex Ulbin is a content creator and brand strategist with over 100K followers on Instagram. He went from making Call of Duty montages at age 10 to building a viral travel and real estate brand in Bali, racking up tens of millions of views and turning free villa stays into a full-blown content business. He now helps six and seven-figure entrepreneurs grow their businesses with social media through the School of Hard Knocks program.

What does it actually take to build a content business from scratch? Alex has tried everything — dropshipping, eBay reselling, mobile detailing, real estate videography, influencer brand deals — and learned most of it the hard way. He's gone viral multiple times, burned the momentum every time, and eventually figured out why. This is the honest version of how content actually works.

Expect to learn why documenting your failures beats faking expertise, how Alex went from 800 to 40K Instagram followers in a few weeks in Bali, why chasing views is a trap and what to do instead, the real difference between an influencer and an operator, how to build a niche content business without being an expert, what Alex tells every new client on day one, and much more...

Mel Sellick is an applied psychologist specializing in Human-AI interaction and founder of Future Human Lab. Her work spans media, tech, and social science — from NBC to PhD — and she has developed foundational frameworks on psychological readiness in AI-mediated environments, now shaping global standards at UNESCO and IEEE.

What actually happens to us psychologically when we interact with AI systems every day? AI chatbots were never designed to be our companions, therapists, or life coaches — and yet here we are. People are forming real emotional bonds with systems they know are machines. Even the engineers building these tools aren't immune. So what does that mean for our relationships, our thinking, and our sense of self?

Expect to learn why AI literacy alone isn't enough to protect us, why even the smartest people in tech are forming dependencies on chatbots, how our evolutionary wiring makes us bond with anything that behaves like it understands us, what makes AI-generated content feel so wrong even when it looks right, why Coca-Cola's AI Christmas ad bombed while AI cat podcasts thrive, what the counter-movement against AI looks like and whether it's the start of something bigger, and much more...

Timotej Bonifer is a Slovenian-born English pronunciation coach and founder of Flip English. He has never lived in the UK, yet spent years fooling native British speakers into thinking he was one of them. Now he helps non-native speakers across the world sound more confident, credible, and compelling in English. Not by memorising grammar rules, but by rebuilding their entire relationship with their own voice.

In this episode, Julius and Timotej get into why your accent matters more than you think, and the science behind it. A 2023 study found that British-accented candidates were 12% more likely to be rated as highly qualified. They also dig into why most people are walking around with a voice they have never once consciously worked on.

They cover how Timotej went from video game addict to British accent coach without ever visiting the UK, why surrounding yourself with the wrong people quietly kills your accent, and how building a fictional alter ego helped him rewire his confidence and his voice. They also get into why there is no five-step system, just volume, self-analysis, and brutal honesty, what the RuneScape level 99 grind teaches you about long-term skill building, and why opening your mouth wider is the single most underrated voice fix.

Whether you are a non-native English speaker trying to sound more professional or someone who has never thought twice about the way they speak, this one will make you listen to your own voice differently.

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