In the 13th episode of the Ask Away series on the Everyday Judaism Podcast, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe responds to a variety of student questions, exploring the meaning and origin of Amen as an affirmation of truth derived from El Melech Ne’eman, clarifying that the person reciting a blessing does not say Amen but others should to join in the blessing’s merit. He addresses whether saying Amen at a communal Motzi is appropriate, discusses the importance of integrity in light of Bernie Madoff’s actions, and explains how to overcome negative traits like cruelty or anger through small, consistent steps toward God-like qualities, as taught in Mussar. Rabbi Wolbe also emphasizes the priority of supporting Torah study through non-profits as a form of charity, the value of anonymous giving, and the spiritual significance of the Mishnah recitation after Torah study with a minyan, concluding with a call to verify rabbinic teachings with sources and a blessing for a meaningful week.

In this episode of Ask Away we address these questions and topics:

• Here are the questions asked by the students in the provided transcript of the Ask Away series on the Everyday Judaism Podcast:
  • Ed: What is the origin of Amen, and if it is said after a blessing, does the person who gives/recites the blessing say Amen?
  • Jimmy: When we say the HaMotzi at our dinner table or any of our meals and we all say Amen, are we incorrect?
  • Ed: You said that Jews are not cruel, and if they are cruel, you got to inspect their lineage. Did anybody ever inspect Bernie Madoff's lineage?
  • Anna: If you find yourself with a trait of cruelty, is there no workaround? You just do teshuvah and change your ways, or is there another approach, like becoming a butcher or surgeon for someone who favors bloodletting?
  • Anna: Are non-profits considered poor in the context of the obligation to help the poor?
  • Anna: If someone doesn't ask for charity, but you give to them anyway (e.g., a smile, food, or beverage), is that the same mitzvah as charity, or is it a different mitzvah?
  • Jimmy: What is the good side of the trait of anger? (Combined with an online listener’s question about how to be more patient.)
  • Carlos: If we talk about Midrash and Gemara in classes, why doesn't the Rabbi end his classes with Rabbi Chananya ben Akashya Omer?

And much more ... Please submit your questions at [email protected]

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This episode (Ep. #50) of the Everyday Judaism Podcast by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe of TORCH is dedicated to my dearest friends, Marshall & Doreen Lerner! May Hashem bless you and always lovingly accept your prayer for good health, success and true happiness!!!

Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on June 15, 2025, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on September 5, 2025
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