Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.  She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.  Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.&nbsp; She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.&nbsp; Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Ask A Man 06 Oct '26: 'Our financial downfall has broken our relationship.'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

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I'm A Woman in Love With Both My Men

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Have I Lost Him To His Babymama

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My Woman Wont Let me Have A Child

Anonymous is quite annoyed the man she's dating doesn't wanna make an honest woman out of her too

Why Did he Pay Lobola For Her?

Anonymous is broken because she's in a long distance relationship and he seems not to be able to keep his equipment in his pants

Cheating Boyfriend

He wants her to terminate but she wants to keep the baby.

Do I Terminsate or Eliminate Him From My life

Anonymous is heartbroken because the man she is in love with hasn't seen her since she was hospitalised

I've Lost him

Anonymous wants to dump her current man because he's not good with her kids

I Want Him Back

Anonymous feels guilty for dating his friend's ex

Am dating My Friend's Ex

Anonymous got married in secret now his woman wants a divorce so that she can re-marry and not be disowned by her family

She wants A Divorce

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