Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.  She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.  Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years. She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life. Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Anonymous has been with her partner for many years and their relationship was really amazing for most of those years.&nbsp; She used to be financially well-off until she battled with cancer and they lost a lot of their money and had to downgrade their life.&nbsp; Their financial situation has affected their life negatively.

Ask A Man 06 Oct '26: 'Our financial downfall has broken our relationship.'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality? Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable

Anonymous wants to fix her marriage but he seems to have emotionally withdrawn

I'm Frustrated

Anonymous is I n a situationship where her man might still be in love with his babymama

Is He really mine

Anonymous is confused, the man she is in love with has and on and off relationship with a woman that he has paid lobola for. Should she carry on entertaining him?

He Went Back To His Wife

She broke up with her man but told her friends and family that he has passed on. now they are rekindling the flame, should she tell them he has come back to life?

I Faked His Death

Anonymous can't stomach his partners con-artist like behaviour. He wants to pray for water and oranges and sell it to the congregation as holy water and holy oranges

Pastor Crook Mfundisi

Anonymous loves her cheating partner, even after 12years of his promiscuity

My Cheating Partner Whom I love So Much

anonymous seems to attract unemployed men, should she pursue her love for abomahlalela? Is it wrong to support a man financially

Should I Support Him?

Anonymous can't deal with her lying boyfriend

Liar Liar

Anonymous is considering going back to her passive aggressive boyfriend

Silence Kills

Anonymous informed her man that their relationship is perfect but he needs to start making more money

He Is Not Making Enough

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